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RE: What's really important, foreigners bashin american women or getting to know us for who we are?

I don't think that bashing americans in general is a good idea, from my point of view they have all the Nukes and I have none so I play nice:)

What would you wish people would say of you when you are dead?

'Now I'll never get that money back'

RE: Which accents turn you on ?

I love the scotish accent and a soft german accent.
Still a good resonant timber reguardless of accent.

What would you wish people would say of you when you are dead?

Just that.

What does your photo say about you?

So boys and girls what does your photo say about you?
Why did you choose it and what do other people deduct or have gut reaction to it in responce?
Just a thought.

Personally I picked mine because I felt it was an accurate picture of what I currently look like adn becuase I think the clothes are a little fun.

RE: What is it about Redheads that attracts men?

yep, I have one casual aquaintance with violet eyes.
I thought they were contacts first time I saw them but their not!
Also have a black french friend who has blue eyes.

RE: How's your side of the internet??!!

Dude...you are cute! and you seem nice..stick around.
Have read a few of your posts, nice mix between thought and light heartedness.

RE: i am lonely

Step up yourself ol' boy, you'll have to look after my share too.

RE: What is it about Redheads that attracts men?

All the red heads I've ever known have been wobnderful people and some of them are exceptionally beautiful.
My boss is a red head chick and she is just fantastic.
I think the red head thing as far as attraction goes is about the lower proportion of the population being red head.
If you got to asia being blonde (natural) will do the same thing. Exotic is interesting.
In fact I cant think of a country that has a higher population of redheads than any other colour but if you tell me which one it is.....I pack my bags and go thank you very much.

RE: i am lonely

You don't have to be alone, I will write to you.

RE: first timer wondering if this is the right thing to be doing

Hello!
I've made some good friends here, people who are just lovely.
You might want to try a few more puntuation marks and paragraph breaks though, I'm finding you hard to read and I am lookinjg forward to what you have to offer. So I want to be able to read it.
The other thing that might be helpful is to read other peoples profile before posting replys and stuff, people worth talking to around here have written some good stuff in their personal set up, gives you a good idea as to where to start and who might be offended by what.

RE: It's Good Friday...How Good Are You??

God I love that!

RE: It's Good Friday...How Good Are You??

The books that got ommitted can be read in the Appocrapher on some similar spelling, available at your local christioan book shop.
The Catholic church considers them recomended reading although as far as I know they don't teach from them.
I don't want to get started on the new religions though:)

RE: Dear John....

It's not that I don't love you or feel strange about the tutu, but theres now a woman in my life, the same woman who supplied the tutu and frankly she looks better in it.

RE: It's Good Friday...How Good Are You??

trouble with the word of god...is you can't trust man to be listening...'what? what was that you said? Weren't you listening either? Hmmm 'and moses went out and..'

RE: The people on CS are great

I have pleasantly suprised at how nice the people are here as well! Who would have thought that I would be annoyed that I might be losing contact with people I cared about whne my net went down, how could I care I have never met them in person?
But I do.
It perhaps is the great pointer that relationships formed over the net aren't bogus...this is something I have been struggling with. Up until now I always thought of the net as a tool to help you meet in person, but then if you are honest when typing it is a person....I think.:)

RE: Dinner for Four ?

I'm a gemini too!
Some people say gemini's are two faced...I'd like to think I'm adaptable to an enviroment.
Some say gemini's have twins, in which case where can I get rid of the extra four?

RE: Dinner for Four ?

Wings! Thankyou.
Oooh I had some drinks with a new guy et the other day, poor guy he must have thought that I knew every one in Otoahuhi! People were dropping by to say hi every 15 mins or so!
Still he seemed nice and I liked him better the second time I met him...usually a good sign.

RE: Dinner for Four ?

Yes and I thin they should, I talk too much as well so I don't make good company:)

RE: Dinner for Four ?

You know...inviting multipule people over at once does increase the safety factor of first meetings. Good idea.

So if anyone wants to meet me bring a friend! Makes sense.
I do it.

RE: what is your most favorite dessert???

Creme Brulee
or Terimisu...mmmmm

RE: 5' Women and 6' Men...any reason for concern?

I love taller guys, makes me feel protected and stuff.
Broad chests...oh lovely!

RE: Quiet hour

It's usually about 12:30 or so when I finally sit down to the keyboard and no one else I know is awake, still I do think about this community occasionally and I have done some design work for one of you and that's usually done off line.

RE: Just Getting Started

Windygirl, how about some dreds or simply have it cut shorter layered and stick in some highlights it would look great.

RE: Meet Market

Kia ora,
I'm Stu from New Zealand, you'll find that I'm a friendly little gay guy who has a Big heart for those who drop me a line.
And I love to chat on the forums with just about anyone.

RE: Which are you ?

I would turn to the other bull and suggest that if he's really keen so am I and why bother the cows?:)

RE: Describe who you are looking for

Looking for a guy who is able to be consistant, if I don't like something about you, be consistant and I'll find a way to deal with it mentally.
I have to admit a hygiene is really important, clean cloths every day and an ability to pull off the look you are wearing, if you want to be goth do it right, you want to do corp do it right.
Smell good
Have your own life that you just happen to be interested in sharing with me, but not desperate to.
Let me touch (good touching:)) you in public and show me affection physically.
Listen to what I have to say and just cuddle me on those days I'm running crap.
Mentally you don't have to be all that, just be smart enough to know when you don't know and interested enough to find out.
I always thought I wanted a man to be the roller coaster of life as opposed to riding it with me, but now I realise I am the roller coaster of life and I need someone who wants to play seat belt.

RE: The net and still single

The problem I think is that we place too much value on how people look, Jebodia of the local Armish group somehow manages to get laid and married and you gotta admit there aint much to look at, but he embodies all the values that his women are looking for.
You don't have to be single, anyone can get a partner, it's just that the men available arn't to your taste....or sanitary, or intelligent, or handsom....heh. I don't lack too much for offers, about once every two months from men and about once every two weeks from women. But I don't generally want the people who make the offers, I sure as hell don't know them and they aren't to my taste in looks and because I've met them at a party with their imposter in full swing and not the real them...I can't trust what I'm seeing.
Get to know a man over time as a person...then look to see if you can love him. Chances are by that stage, you'll think he's attractive anyway.

RE: Okay here's the Scenario...

In case anyone is wondering what mean by the 'imposter', I'm not talking about a person who lies about who they are, I'm talking about the fact that we all stratigically ommit and edit ourselves in the hope that we are presenting what they really want, and everyone does it. Some to a lesser degree than others, and some hide it for longer and deeper, but sooner or later the real you will come creeping back.
All the little things that get on your nerves that you never seem to have minded before, the little personal bad habits of your own ect.

RE: Okay here's the Scenario...

Reading about someone and actually knowing them are very different, yes a profile that is what you are looking for is great, but the imposter inside them comes out to play just as much as yours when you first start talking, take it as slow as you normally would.

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