jed123 Forum Posts (32)

dating and the biological clock

well im just trying to highlight that if you hadnt - you may be thinking along the same lines!?
Im sorry i hope no1 finds this thread offesnive im just thinking out loud is all..

dating and the biological clock

would that be because you have some allready? and youve done that!?

dating and the biological clock

fascinating thread on boards.ie and you thought women were the only ones to get broody!? personally i find alot of women in their late 30s/40s very attractive/turn on ...but i dont look at them as "keepers" in that i probably wont get the time to form a stable relationship, settle down and have a couple of kids...is it a big factor in dating esp when you get into your 30's?thoughts?


Dating and the Biological Clock

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Lately I have found myself realising that at some point in the coming years I would definitely like to have children (I am 32). Up until very recently it was always something I was open to, but not completely decided on.

More so, like most blokes it was probably something I always figured would be 'one for the future', as in a topic that would arise naturally down the line, once I'd met someone, etc.

I do a fair bit of dating, and meeting one or two girls in their mid-30s (say 34+), it's something that I am really thinking of now - the fact that if something serious was to develop, would it realistically be a bit late for having a family by the time we'd get to that stage. This is leading me to look more at women in their 20s and early 30s, and somewhat 'rule out' those in the mid-30s upwards range.

So it's kind of like if you were 32/33, and you met a girl who was a bit older, -say going on 35 - and you wanted 2-3 kids, by the time you'd get to the marriage / let's start a family stage, she'd be approx 38-ish trying for or having the first. So it seems late for sure, considering fertility declines sharply around the 35 mark, the risks (albeit I know they can be 'managed', etc).

Do you ever think about this kind of thing?

RE: mental illness ....whats your view on these people?

can i reign in what i just said and eat humble pie?

just reading the thread again and pedro mate you did get a bit snappy there so play nice too sometimes people like to lighten the subject matter at hand also.

Sorry folks i flew off the handle a bit there

RE: mental illness ....whats your view on these people?

lads im sickened at the sort of crap going on in this thread tonight and i have to say i think people are just having a go at pedro
stop being arseholes/bullyboys if youve nothing responsible to say just move onto the next thread.

And be nice in future

RE: depression

dont have much experience but this sounds like a plan

RE: ~~~~ last one to view you ~~~~

heartbreaker

Would you date or have you dated a deaf person?

good start NEEEXT!

Would you date or have you dated a deaf person?

Would you date a deaf person? or have you dated a date person? id be interested to hear your opinion as a hearing person and if theres any deaf people out there that dated hearing people whats your opinion?
Im not sure to be honest...would be interested to hear what people think.
Cheers

RE: For Dance, Trance and Techno heads

oops sorry dont know how to embed so heres the links



and another random one

RE: For Dance, Trance and Techno heads

was at the underworld concert a few weeks ago and it was fantastic. heres 2 more.

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RE: men with no pics up on cs

i only show mine to someone i might like
thats the way uh-huh i like it uh-huh uh-huh, if i sent it and the person wasnt impressed well then id accept it and move on, if their not mature enough to accept that well i think its for the best

RE: Do u believe in love at first sight?

I hear ye but i dont think "lust" is exactly the right word either, i believe in deep attraction at first sight and a curiosity to know more and not in this sense but more in this sense

RE: The Break-Up

Hi Nav do you not think so if anything i reckon im getting younger looking what ye reckon

RE: The Break-Up

10 years - her mother count without the o...can i say that???

RE: cheesy movie lines thread

Thanks.....mmmmmm...juicy fruit...

RE: Football (what are ya like?, fish on a bike)

POPPYCOCK A french rugby player today got 71 weeks ban for eye gouging, they dont do that in soccer!

oh if only women loved soccer as much as i do especially the league of ireland!

roll on march dublin derry cork and eh galway here i come

RE: Iris Robinson says Sorry

Men-Chip-Shoulder-You

RE: Iris Robinson says Sorry

leaving the ahem "depression" aside thats been discussed in depth already- alot of pontificating going on btw!

This is a tale where morals and respect went out the window, leaving depression aside- she had an affair "because she could" in the words of Bill Clinton.

Im not taking the moral high ground here but all the good things in life --love, togetherness, life partnerships trust all that go down the swanny after this situation....I think thats depressing..down with that sort of thing

RE: Younger guy's

ohh god thats a horrible hard question to answer...pass

RE: NEW YEARS EVE MEET....NAVAN

Im a maybe Nav, Ill have to see

RE: Is that a Lolly in your pocket or are you happy to see me?

not bad ! did you and vin go dancin in the end!?

RE: Is that a Lolly in your pocket or are you happy to see me?

me too

RE: When you read a profile...

YIKES!!!

RE: When you read a profile...

looks fine to me, a turn off for me is when people use text speak, dis den der and dats de y

RE: weekend nearly here again!!

each to their own whatever your get your jollies out of(provided its lawful of course)

RE: How long has it been since your last date

cheers serene good idea for a thread i reckon a few dates will come from this

RE: Navan Saturday 17th October

NAVAN STYLE that s all ye had to say!...i there put me down

RE: How long has it been since your last date

ok good thread im going to bite, nav you fairly got stuck in there in the middle- just as you said! (no harm though I read it all--- didnt i!?)

last date hmmm about 4 weeks ago...went reasonable met up again in a nightclub situation...disaster

had a date with a girl not on the site and got stood up- dipstick

Any guys here ever felt like this on a date!?

RE: Cork city Fc

hope they pull out of this one of the best supported clubs in the country