What to respond to.....I'll just touch on these point. As far as the typing goes, just try to type the English you know and try to spell each word correctly, There'll be mistakes, and everyone knows this, so if there's a mistake in spelling, don't worry about it. And as far as white people and black people marring, it's a personal choice for some and for others it just never happens even though the person might be open to dating someone of color. Personally, I don't think I'd mind, I'd be open to it. And please don't think there aren't white women who don't fall in love with black men, because there are. I know this white lady whom I've known for years, she had a child by this black man, in love with him, and very excited that he has fianlly proposed. That doesn't sound like all white woman are against dating black men to me and she is my friend. It is sad though that there is still a society out there that look down at it. What I've always thought in my mind, which I believe to be true, is what matters is if the man treats the woman right and if he loves her.
although, when you are alone, you feel it and get lonely, especially when you want to be with someone.
and when you are with someone, everyday should be special, because both people are supposed to want to be there in the same place - want to be together.
oh well, i'll probably go and do something on the 16th, alone. like i usually am.
I have noticed everyone is uptight and people takes things so seriously. It's no wonder why new members don't want to take part of the forums. What's up? Why can't we all just get along with no bashing?
I'm sorry if I appeared to be mean. I'm really not. I promise. Sometimes, a person has to take up for theirself. Anyway, once ya get to know me, I grow on ya. Zarah, I hope you forgive me.
They are not just supporting me. You don't know the whole story to be saying that they just aupport me. That is not the way it is. Oh well, I know you don't know the whole story or me so I'm not even going to let what you said bother me. If you want to tell me what you think, and tell me what a bad person you think I am, you can e-mail me. But whatever you say, either way, I know what the truth is and that is all that matters, anyway.
I have one sister who won't help me do anything. The only reason she even comes around is the hope that my parents will give her everything. I just want to make sure my parents and myself are taken care of. I don't care about my sister anymore because of how she has done and how she has treated us. All she wants is the money, the house, the land, that is all she cares about. I am afraid that my parents will make her executor and not me because I am younger and my sister is the older one. If she does get it all, I will literally have nothing. All I have is my car that I own and nothing else. My parents help me out with living arrangements and such. That's what family is supposed to do. When it comes down to it, I want to be executor to make sure my parents and myslef is taken care of. Plus, (sadly) my sister will get her share. They are her parents too, so she has to get something. But right now, it's all up in the air and I am at a loss of what to do because I don't own my own house to let my parents move in with me and I don't have that kind of moeny to take care of them like they need to be. I belive that they do have a pretty good savings and I could take care of them good with that, but I am not excutor over their estate. So, if something happens to them right now, I don't know what I would do. If you have any suggestions, let me know. Especially concerning on how to deal with my sister. countrysiderivergal@yahoo.com
Yeah, it is real. It's rather difficult to make it work online. Everyone is different, has different personality's, and it's hard to be able to tell the mood of someone online, so it's hard to know how to talk someone. For instance, if someone is upset or hurting then you would want to show compassion. If someone is angry or mad, you may just want to listen, and just let them know that. It can work though. I have met a few people from the internet, and it has been okay. Just wasn't the right place or the right time.
it's hard being friends with old boyfriends. i've only been able to stay friends with one. every other guy was a moron and so stupid. but men are just that way anyway. they don't know a good thing, even if it's staring them straight in the face. i tried to saty friends with all of my ex's, but i just couldn't stay friends with them. the one that i am still freinds with, was the most difficult relationship i was in, but it was the best to. all in all, it was the most gratifying. it was also the longest relationship i was in. plus, it might have made a difference that he was a few years older than me. i still wish we could talk now and do things, but he has plans on marriying, so i don't want to mess that up for him because i still love him. if he feels ready to get married again, then i know he truely has love for this woman. i respect that. he's not one that is easy to catch. believe me, i've been there and i know.
at least in the grocery store you don't have to wonder so much about the looks, the way they act, chemistry, if they are really a man or a woman, for real. plus you have an idea of the age range. and they probably live in the area if they are at the same grocery you are at. it's a start. right?????
I know we all like the television and the movies. I collect movies. I also collect angels and Christmas decorations. I like to go to flea markets and to the mall. I like stores like Bath and Body Works, I like the perfume isle and makeup isle in almost any store. I like to hang out with friends, but we usually watch t.v. or movies, so does that count??? At least it's getting out of the house and going somewhere other than work, right???
RE: What can a black african man do for a whit ladies to fall inlove with them?
What to respond to.....I'll just touch on these point. As far as the typing goes, just try to type the English you know and try to spell each word correctly, There'll be mistakes, and everyone knows this, so if there's a mistake in spelling, don't worry about it. And as far as white people and black people marring, it's a personal choice for some and for others it just never happens even though the person might be open to dating someone of color. Personally, I don't think I'd mind, I'd be open to it. And please don't think there aren't white women who don't fall in love with black men, because there are. I know this white lady whom I've known for years, she had a child by this black man, in love with him, and very excited that he has fianlly proposed. That doesn't sound like all white woman are against dating black men to me and she is my friend. It is sad though that there is still a society out there that look down at it. What I've always thought in my mind, which I believe to be true, is what matters is if the man treats the woman right and if he loves her.Best wishes to all of us because we all need it.