Hi Sassy We all wonder from time to time, should we,could we have done things differently, or tried harder. That is a hard question to answer. We do what we do with the knoweledge we have at the time and the understanding or feeling we have around a situition. It is not just one partner in the relationship that has to do the work, but both. You did what you needed to do at that time. So dont go over it, get on with your life and enjoy whatever comes your way. Everyone has these thoughts from time to time and I guess as we mature we ponder things more. I grew up with a saying what's meant for you will not go by you. So if their is something to save in this situition there will be another chance. If that is what is meant to be. I wish you happiness in you future. Love and light, JCLady
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RE: Maybe It Wasn't Enough
Hi SassyWe all wonder from time to time, should we,could we have done things differently, or tried harder. That is a hard question to answer. We do what we do with the knoweledge we have at the time and the understanding or feeling we have around a situition. It is not just one partner in the relationship that has to do the work, but both. You did what you needed to do at that time. So dont go over it, get on with your life and enjoy whatever comes your way. Everyone has these thoughts from time to time and I guess as we mature we ponder things more. I grew up with a saying what's meant for you will not go by you. So if their is something to save in this situition there will be another chance.
If that is what is meant to be. I wish you happiness in you future. Love and light, JCLady