lets give the benefit of doubt to her, at the start of the day i dont think anyone of you wud have thot of making up until the kiss happended and the kid just walked inn just abt the same time ... you were right in not going ahead with it and respecting the childs emotions
I can feel what you are going thru, some time i fear that my Dad might have to go thru the same as time goes by, and my heart cries just thinking of it.I hope it never happens.
I think in this entire situation, your mom has to be the strongest and all of you have to be with them, sharing our thoughts and fears during such times makes us feel better and together.
RE: WHO SHOULD PAY FOR THE FIRST DATE?
First date ----> For me... it has to be the guy who shud take the lead here'common guys.....toss in some chivalry !!!