the title of this thread brought in my mind this song...
Do you remember chalk hearts melting on a playground wall Do you remember dawn escapes from moon washed college halls Do you remember the cherry blossom in the market square
a part the option n. 2 they all look attractive to me for some reason or another...though, repairing the car is something that makes me happy but it is done by someone else...
i've been always disliking pretty much love books, so this one is sure not going to make me happy...they are so predictable it is boring to read them...
there is no one negative trait that can be acceptable (or inacceptable) for me...
i mean, i never consider a person "divided" in traits...and weighten them
this is why i don't have any shopping list, in positive or negative
it is always the way those features are combined within his personality that attracts me...
which can also mean that i can accept the same trait in one person (because of its particular combination with other traits) but not in another person...
Oceano (Ocean) and Leone (Lion) Agnelli (Fiat Family)
then there is also Chanel, daughter of a famous soccer player Totti, therefore her full name is Chanel Totti, which would be two surnames for fact and none name, poor baby girl
the visual is irresisistible...thank-you, rdm for that
on a bit more serious note:
i don't have an advice to give you, rummy but your cat reminded me about my granddma's cat that was bringing her a little sparrow every morning till his death...
my grandma had this cat long time before i was born but she was always pleased to tell me about this cat when i was about 5/6 yrs old...
now, this cat that lived about 50/60 years ago and was bringing my grandma a sparrow every morning still lives in my memories when i think about my grandma and the many stories of her life that she was used to tell me...
i don't know the etymological origin of this saying but, figuratively, it just means that what is suitable for one person, can not be suitable for another person...
i'm a convinced supporter of the "horses for courses" policy...
i think each of us is an unique individual with his/her own universe...
so my answer is that the knowledge i gained from my past relationship has surely contributed to my personal development but this knowledge may or may not help in the future..
RE: which age group of men do you think treats women better?
i'm hopeless with numbers...my poor brain cells get immediatelly confused, so no age groups for me...just menhi, joelle