lucynad Forum Posts (2,431)

RE: Happy Birthday Lavina

she is probably embraced at the handsome man named Morfeo right now as it should be about 3 a.m. in Indonesia, i guess...

happy, happy birthday, lavina

RE: Ambivalence: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

sure that the romantic relationships can work...

what i'm saying is that if the two concerned individuals (that seem to me more like two poor hard workers...oh my ) have similar attitude towards *any* commitment, they *will* put the effort we're talking about without the need of the specific, purposed motivation...

i guess, i'm a person that will try to lift a car even if i don't belief i can accomplish that...i may just enjoy trying to do so...

i think this is the point where we "speak different languages"...

RE: Ambivalence: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

hi, ambrose

i get what you're saying about the effort to make work a relationship...

what i consider not so valid is the motivation that you want to put behind this effort that is "being terribly confident **in principle** in romantic relationship"

i just think that it depends more upon individual's character/personality rather that on his/her believing in romantic relationship...

i don't think romantic relationships are much different of any other task in life, therefore, i, personally, don't care much about the strong belief in romantic relationship of my potential partner rather than about his general attitude...

RE: Choose between a traditional marriage (death do you part) or a five year renewable contract.

yep...that's my thought as well...

i'm puzzled at people saying that they wasted their time with somebody because the relationship ended...

is loving a waste?

who can guarantee that a relationship can last for long/ever..

RE: All new, songs for your mood right now (2.0)

RE: The Cave (A safe haven for Trolls)

sounds nice..

but i suppose that a troll needs the non-trolls to become one

RE: Monday the 13th of June

nope...

but i'm curious to know how the date was chosen/calculated...

RE: If you have a choice...

hi annoying,

what you said means that it is about the acceptance of other individual as you have doubts if your mom accepts you as a person ....which is different from the emotional bond

but it relates to what i was saying about the freedom to be the way we are "inside" the family and be accepted...

in my case,having my son was my choice but i didn't "choose" his personality's traits...

though i could say that i tried to influence them, somehow, by loving him and taking care of him while he was a little boy...

now, that he is 22 yrs old we are two adults that communicate and respect each other's choices on the base of the strong emotional bond...

RE: If you have a choice...

hi D,

yep, the factors that define an individual's identity have been always fascinating...how much are they external...

but i consider the question "dangerous" as it attempts to border the freedom of others to be the way they are while in emotional connections (meaning family in this case)

RE: happy birthday to me....

happy birthday, boomboom!



and many happy returns aka breakfasts as well...

RE: Choose between a traditional marriage (death do you part) or a five year renewable contract.

the five year renovable contract has been already proposed a couple of years ago by a politician, i don't remember if in Austria or Germany...

the politician that proposed it is a woman...

RE: Seeking dating woman for marriage

i really appriciate your asking about my mail address but i'm here only for the forums...

RE: Seeking dating woman for marriage

you're welcome

RE: Seeking dating woman for marriage

thanks, time...

RE: Seeking dating woman for marriage

what he said...:

RE: If someone ask u to get married with him/her, what you gonna do?

see?

another succesful story...

the site works...

we may even last longer than some (more common) couples...

RE: If someone ask u to get married with him/her, what you gonna do?

no game here...

i'm marrying choco in a heartbeat

RE: If someone ask u to get married with him/her, what you gonna do?

it depends who is asking...

RE: romance

if it is a passion fruit, it sure does...

RE: What language of love do you speak?

verbal appriciation (8) and phisical touch (7) seem to do it for me..


hmmm...

a cross of Cyrano de Bergerac with Giacomo Casanova

oh me...oh my

looks like i'm settle for a short term relationship...

RE: opening up /being disappointed

hi gem,

to answer your question...

nope, i don't wonder if it is worth to open up...when i feel the need to be open up with someone, i'll do it...though i'm naturally reserved, therefore it doesn't happen much...

but..i see it more like my need to talk about something that puzzles me...then...if the person i talk to openly, "betrays" me it becomes, somewhat, another thing...it's their action and we cannot control actions of other people...though, of course, we can try to limit the possibility of it happening

it's a bit like driving..you are asked to keep the safety distance from other cars to, possibly, prevent bumping in them because of their unexpected move... but the accidents still happen

RE: Whats your favourite chocolate???

ohhhhh...i adore the mars bars

so delightfully chewy...

RE: Your First Thought

my first thought would be that before the touch comes the scent...

RE: Whats ur choice??

pizza...

without the "hut"

RE: how many pages do u have in who's viewed me list.

you're doing good...

but you still need to visit about 9526 times to become a Platinum Visitor..

RE: how many pages do u have in who's viewed me list.

9828...

RE: Describe urself in one word!

hasty

RE: WhAT mOsT attract yOu IN mEn's OR wOMeN's face ?

nose...

RE: When do you know your in love?

hiya carenza,

have a great afternoon!

RE: When do you know your in love?

in my case...

i'm in love, when i want to cook the best lasagna for him...