my son is 22 yrs old now but when he was a very lil boy our favorite activity was dueling with wooden or plastic swords, hiding in the house (his favorite place was behind the courtain ;) and he was also very fond of us dancing a tango with a casquè (at the age of 3 ;)...
later, as soon as it was possible to make him play with other kids outdoor my activity limited to bring him outdoor and provide water and food while he was running back and forth in the park in the company of his little friends
funnily enough i have sent them for reasons not related to dating or romantic interest but they were often understood as some kind of "pick-up lines" which made me have fun..
all partecipants looks lovely at the pics but i must say that Boomboom is like the King Arthur among his knights...they were all equal but Boomboom is still The Queen...
i have been horrified by the adults behaviour to get merry since i can remember...when i was about 6 yrs old i wasn't aware it was a choice as i saw every adult person arround me was married
so, i remember i thought i would like to merry a sailor...as a sort of solution...
that was my cunning plan when i was 6/7 yrs old...
then when i met my ex husband we got married after we were living together for a while only because his family was very pressing and he always followed his family indications..
i have never considered to be asked to merry as a romantic proposal
the physical attraction is a conditio sine qua non for me to establish a romantical relationship...
that being said my concept of physical atttractives is way far from the classic canons...
just to be down-to-eart and make some example:
i have never considered Alain Delon as an atractive man...while i have considered Gary Moore as a very attractive man..he was voted as the ugliest gitarist according to a poll in a musical magazine...
RE: Caring and sensitive or Quiet and sensual(for the ladies)
it so reminds me of when i was asked if i loved more my mom or my dad when i was a little girl and i just couldn't figure out the answer...