i don't think that anyone leads me to anything, therefore i wouldn't felt insulted...
i tend to be conscious and to base my opinion only on my gut...
i just leave the words fly..they come into one ear and come out from anyther ear...lol
and, if i make wrong judgment, i just think i wasn't attentive enough and i made a mistake...as it happens
as to your last question...that's a problem...
love is blind...
i once heard an interview with an italian actress and when the journalist asked her about her sentimental state she answered her relationship was going great coz she wasn't in love when she met her actual boy friend...lol
i'm a bit confused also (must be the pik's influence )
but..
what i wanted to say is...
why are you wondering about what somebody said about himself...
i, personally, think that if someone says he is "nice", "easy goin", "honest" or whatever else
he is simply stating his convinctions (and as you said he is not really lying at all)
but i don't really consider these kind of statements of any use in getting to know the person as my idea of beig "nice", "easy going"..etc. can be completely different that his...
if and when i find someone interesting, having to travel to see him increase the pleasure...a part of seeing him i can see a lot of new places...a fun is bigger
on the second thought you reminded me like some years ago i was going by bus from Messina to Villafranca (about 30 km) and we were only two on the bus: the driver and me...
at some point i saw him stoping the bus..in front of the bar...
he said: "i'm going to have my coffee, may i offer you one as well?" lol
...we went to the bar in two with the bus parked right in front of it
RE: Ladies,who would be your ideal man?
i'm a bit confused...number 1 is very confident
number 2 is a gentleman
number 3 makes me laugh
number 4 has the fashion sense
number 5 is intelligent
number 6 is compassionate
number 7 is romantic
number 8 has an optimistic outlook about life
number 9 has the capacity to communicate
number 10 is strong
ooooooooooooooooo...there is nobody but T4fun4me...