i think that quiting smoking is not much different of taking other important personal decision....
and i agree that it implies a major change in life which i would personally consider an asset as i'm not too fond of any routine..
i guess the trick is always the same: you find love when you stop looking for it, you loose weight when you stop counting calories and you quit smoking when you stop counting days without a cigarette...
we don't live in a perfect world and nobady is perfect (as Ogwwod says to Tony Curtis impersonating a woman reacting to his "i'm a man"
in my opinion, the basic rule in the matling game is to find someone whose flaws you can kinda easily tolerate...and the same goes the other way arround
RE: "WHICH IS WORSE IN HAVING A BROKEN HEART?"
i wouldn't rate any suffering.....Leo Tolstoy — 'All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.'