Thanks for the review and the heads up about the scare. Now I am not sure if I want to watch it. I will be laying in the dark looking for the boogie man
I married my husband thinking I loved him and somewhere in the years it grew and grew. One day I knew I was madly in love him. We use to refer to ourselfs as still on our honeymoon. I laughing would tell him I would let him know when the honeymoon was over. When I knew the time was close and I had to let him go. I bent over and whispered in his ear how much I loved him and appreciated him. How worthwhile his life was and he could go now. That I would be ok if the honeymoon ended. I had known him since childhood. I will never know what magic made our life as wonderful as it was. The one thing I learned towards the end is that it is easy to love someone in the good times, but you know it is true love when you love them in the difficult times
Yep I do agree. I have fallen many times and I must say it has never been a good experiance. Usually end up with broken bones So nope I don't think I would be the falling in love type.
That would explain it
Mostly from what I have seen that is true. The faster you fall the faster it burns out. Yet I have a friend who met and married a man she only new three days. That was eighteen years ago and they still seem very happy. Guess we could call that shear luck
I am open to others ideas, I do not always agree and I do not always disagree. What is good for me, might not be good for another. If it is something against my morals or principles then yes it is the highway for you. I do not believe in stealing, I could not allow someone in my life who does. They would have to go (put space in life between me and them) And yes I have heard people try to justify their stealing. Stealing is stealing I am religious, my husband was not. We were still able to live together in harmony. His morals and principles actually were quite in line with mine, he just did not believe in a supreme being. I actually became a better person in life by following some of his ways. So I think to answer your question is it would depend on what was happening on if it is my way or the highway.
I haven't seen it like this ever in my life time. It was like limes being dropped down I stayed home. The wind was unbelievable, had gust up to 64 mph in my area. And it was 82f degrees outside or close to 28c, depending on where you are. Wondering if we are now moving into El Nino!
Take your time. Find the right one. Don't rush it. I would rather be in one good relationship, than five or six looking for the right one. Sometimes one does not simply fall in love, they grow in love. Go places. Donate time out in your community. Enjoy life and see what comes of it
I don't like to go shopping. So I would say getting ready to go to the store irks me By the time I get there I resign myself to the fact that this is happening and I just do it and get it over with.
I checked out the video Mother nature sure is something else. I bet there are spicies out there that look at us and think we are quite an odd looking group
I just breezed through and gave every post above me a thumbs up (that was time consuming). The first few times I got a thumbs down I did go back and reread my post. I did not see anything I wanted to change. I hardly even notice them now and the reason for me not noticing them is for the things listed in above post. Some are meant personal, some are just because the person disagreed with what was being said and some are I think meant just in jest. It was a learning lesson for me in life about that. It doesn't matter unless one lets it.
Lonliness is funny. You can live alone, yet not be lonely. You can have a family, yet not have a boyfriend, husband, signifiant other etc. I live alone. Yet I am not lonely. I have no boyfriend etc., yet I have family. If a person is lonely then they are lacking something in their lives. I don't think lonliness would be a good life. I know I feel complete, not lonely. Just happy.
The first time I ever seen a walking cat fish I had bought a home on the river here. Had been hearing about them for a few years and it was late eighties then. I never believed it and then it flooded and there were a few in my drive way that was not as wet as other areas. I thought they were suffering and I was gonna help them get back to water till someone told me what I was actually seeing. I for some reason thought walking cat fish, a cat fish walking up right. Nope but still a sight to see.
We are starting to see a little reprieve from the rain. I am glad you were spared. The main part of my home is concrete yet it is built up off the ground. I could never understand why and then it rained really hard and I knew why. Have you seen any walking cat fish your way?
I am no psychologists, and I am not very impressed with this woman. Just sad, and wondering what happened to her for her to live like this. What secrets is she hiding. What ever happened I hope she makes peace with it and starts to heal. What a waste of ones life
I love water. And yes I have thought about it. Preferable a house boat. Thing stopping me is the upkeep Don't need a lot of room to live, now a days they can fix ways for you to have all your needs in a small area. I have a friend that lives on his house boat. I have never told him but I envy his being able to do that. He is like me a lover of water so he is at home there. If you are looking into it, take your time and consider everything. Upkeep, having it pulled out of the water if need be for repairs or storage from a bad storm. If going to dock close to shore their will be a slip rental you get the idea
I was wondering, did you wait till the end of the meal to dismiss her? Did she ask for food to go (doggy bag)? I have no issue with age difference but I know when I was younger I was not as financially secure as I am today. Would I of gone on a date to get my dinner for the week, no. But I have family that would never question another head at their table. Not everyone is as lucky. Could she of been hungry? Still no excuse for the wine I do know some women (no age catagory for this) will order enough to take home for lunch the next day. We are so quick to label people without looking at the whole story. Was she given the opportunity to offer to pay her half? To be honest if I order something really expensive I feel better paying for my part. Call me old fashioned or a dinosaur but is it not proper protocol for the man to order wine? Of course keeping in mind the womans taste (sweet, dry etc) I don't date alot
Raining like the dickens here today. We needed it so bad I will not complain. Thank goodness I do own an umbrella. I have to walk three city blocks to an appointment today. If it is windy I will look like a drowned rat.
Finding fault in ourselfs requires us to take a good look ourselfs and then to make a decision if we want to change. Some people are perfectly happy to keep their faults. I have some faults that I have willing through out the years come to accept. Then I have others after seeing them and taking ownership of them I realized were faults that I wanted to work on changing. They were stunting my growth in life. I do know it is easier for me to find fault in others because what they are doing is meshing into my life negatively. Life is strange some peoples faults I can work out and accept them for themselfs. Some I just create space between their life and mine. Kinda like you do you and I do me attitude. It is not difficult for me to find fault in myself. What is difficult is for me to correct some that must go but yet I want to keep.
I actually don't care what people think about me so go ahead blast me. Those who know me know the person I am and if others want to believe someone else instead of getting to know me, it's on them. I do have a suggestion about first dates. First dates are usually a time to get to know each other. Pick somewhere quiet and in a price range that is not on the high end. I myself do not like to go anywhere I cannot afford to pay for my own meal on a first date. When we go to expensive places I stress on what to order and usually wait to see what he orders for a lead. I can afford to buy myself a good meal but I don't want to eat up someone elses wallet. I have found out most people don't like to be told this isn't working and lets not do this again. But I still feel it is the right thing to do, rather than waste someones time. Times here in the states are difficult. It has gotten quite expensive to go out to eat. Maybe look for someone who has things in common with you. Example I am the type I would be happy with kayaking and cheese burgers, maybe a street craft fair and some unhealthy vendor food. And I hope no one is spending time with me thinking strike one unless of course we are bowling. First dates are difficult. Very seldom do you find your prince or princess on them. You usually will find if you want a second date. Wishing you a better first date next time
Sadly in the real world it does not always work that way. Some become bitter, angry etc. it depends on the person and how they look at the pain that has now become a part of their life. Some become angry to then change after a time and a moment to reflect.
I am so sorry to read this. I don't know if you believe and I know the G word on this site brings much unsettlement. I am not asking for you or anyone else to believe. But I believe and am going to say a prayer for you for a quick and complete healing. May many positive vibes be sent your way
Those are all valid points. I learned years ago to replace negative thoughts as quickly as possible with positive ones. It is not always easy, yet through out the years I have become quite good at it. I also find not looking at a problem dead in the face helps. I look for the solutions. As someone once said look for the rainbow in the rain!
I hate to say it but I really loved Squid Games. I went around weeks imiating the red light, green light. People who are my aquaintances think I am a real serious person. All bussiness no sass. Friends think me all sass with a large dash of inappropiate humor Have they got season 2 out yet?
Is there a diffence in growing in love or falling in love?
That sounds so beautiful