that's another thing to consider, I possibly am getting "set" in my ways but I loved being part of a couple and it is such a pleasure doing things for someone else, I don't think I'd have much trouble adapting, funny how everyone says time heals all but I still miss her so much, every day I think of her often. I'm not afraid of dying anymore because I know that when it happens to me I will see her again.
chance would be a fine thing Am is very lovely but she wouldn't seriously consider me in a million yrs.
In fact the older I get the more I realize that there are very few ladies out there who would consider me really, firstly because most of the ladies near enough to my age already have their own nest and I need someone who would re-locate to here
You know, when I first started reading your posts on this site I thought you came accross as being a bit "bitter" (I guess we were just coming from different places in life and you have a lot more to be guarded about than I do) but the fact is, the more I read from you, the more I like you.
Ha ha, how did I know you'd be on this thread? How are you now with the non smoking, settling down a bit I hope, is your chest feeling invinceable again yet?
yep, I knew all that and am in total agreement, the only thing I can add perhaps is that peeps don't need to be thinking about things all the time, it leads to worrying needlessly, it can be healthy at times to adopt an attitude of "whatever will be, will be" and although there is free will a lot of stuff is out of our control. It's no good trying to get blood out of a stone and you only kill yourself trying.
jac that was your choice to make but there are those of us out there that would see it as using only part of your potential, i wish you'd met the right man, or perhaps you did and weren't in the right frame of mind, anyway some fella would have had a much better life for having had you in it.
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Am is very lovely but she wouldn't seriously consider me in a million yrs.
I missed u so much
it's scary
RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread
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