No what she is saying is that when their mammy's brought them up from babies they instilled a set of values and raised "nice" boys, (first paragraph)
.......then when they had to come to terms with the realities of life and women they became almost as selfish as them (after they'd been bankrupted or had the bulk of their income committed for the next twenty years)(second paragraph)
................and she doesn't express whether she thinks this is good or bad, it just is
I believe that it is very difficult for ANY of us to see ourselves as others see us. I think (even at her age)it's still possible to find a partner that has no kids, or is widowed rather than divorced and therefore doesn't have the same "bagage", if that's what she needs. I've experienced her on the forums a few times and she comes across as being lovely and careing, I can only think that it was a low moment that gave way to a temporarily jaded outlook that prompted the post anyway it gave me a fright
Ok reading between the lines here, what you are saying is that mens "previous bad experiences" (called women) have screwed them up, mentaly and financially to the point where they are spoiled for life or at least the forseeable future. I say it doesn't have to be like that and not all men are in that situation, perhaps you just haven't met the right one yet or the prevailing attitude amongst the culture of the men where you are is like that?
Also I feel it right that I should point out that it generally takes longer for ladies to trust than men in most situations, this is bourne out by studdies that show women to be less trustworthy.
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