that's a valid point concerning the anonymity of the internet, it's very possible that some of the "female" personality peeps could well be male, gay or just playing, and the same with the male peeps, unless we have personal experience or know someone who has, it's very hard to be certain of anything
I just read the whole thread to here....it seems to me that many good points have been raised by all who have participated.
My own point of view is a little diffo as my one and only experience of marriage was very much as you describe NR a loving couple, certain of each others hearts. I have been searching for that again and have met many peeps, online and off, men and women who are all searching for the same thing. I have also come accross lots of peeps who are searching for other things, sometimes because of experiences the likes of which you describe, which have altered their goals and sometimes because they like variety. At the risk of sounding airy fairy (and possibly being laughed at)I can't help wondering how much of our life experiences comes down to bad (or good)luck, bad (or good) judgement and/or even karma. Great thread, it certainly shows that we do at least try to live and learn
Nope, soz, I disagree, I think the relationship with ones mother and spouse and children is the most important thing and if your "partnership" with your chosen one is as it should be then she/he is your best friend anyway. Often it is demonstrated that peeps do things for their families that they would never do for friends
what a gal and just for the record, kids, animals and men all do very well on a routine base, I've no problem at all taking out the recycleing after loading the dishwasher.
Hi Jac, I restrained myself (at great expense to my moral fibre) from answering your first sentance on the thread with a jokular response of "could we stop you?" but really the above post just shows that this, like most similar situations between men and women, men and men and women and women arise because a lack of adequate communication, I think we could all learn a lot from one of rohaans posts on the subject.
good morning scottyburd, always nice to see you I just had a load of "wrestling" with my internet connection and now that I'm back online I gotta go see to the horses at least I'll be smiling at them Hope you have the best day ever and that your newly painted kitchen lifts your heart every time you walk in it, good onya girl, god helps them that help themselves
I just split my sides laughing when I was catching up with another thread that is now locked, you guys have the best sense of humour, it's no wonder that cs is addictive. Thanks everybody for giving me the best start to the day
RE: Write a word with the last letter of the one above
red