While everyone should take responsibility for their actions when you are on the receiving end, you will know how much it hurts and it is not a physical feeling but more an emotional one. I happened to be on the receiving end but i also feel sorry for the person on the other end who maybe was hurt in some other manner. I always believe that it takes two to tango no matter what. Some combinations of bad timing together with trust issues made me lose my most significant other and i really do not wish anyone to pass through that. Understanding each other is key to everything.
Taking responsibility does also mean to forgive AND forget. Forgiving without giving it another try is no forgiveness at all (it's a load of wasted air... drama). Sometimes it is so much easier to be at peace with one's self and to make peace with whoever we fought with if they give you the chance that is. Even if they don't at least you would have tried.
We are NOT immortal (life is short indeed.. so you have to do the most out of it) We are not loners either ... (people typically are not born to live alone ... )
The most interesting people on the face of this earth are those who "think" with a heart ... and not with a "head" ...
I can never believe that those who think with just the head will ever value true love .... They either never felt it so they cannot devote anything to it or they are selfish ... True love is when you're ready to give away a kidney for the other person to live .. let alone simply go abroad to live with her ....A person who keeps ruling out "what ifs" usually gets nowhere in life...
I didn't say that I would fall in love in a month and fly away with whoever either ... just to make it clear...But if you are deeply in love with somebody ... and you rule out that you would love to spend the rest of your days on this earth with this person ... then you are simply wasting your time ... if you choose to do otherwise! At the end of the day we all want to be happy....
True love exists ... but we are too busy with other things to consider it when it knocks our doors...
True love would make me the happiest person on the face of this earth ... No need for anything material ( such as money or other lousy stuff) ... I am sure she is out there somewhere.... :)
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RE: Anyone up for a Partay?
Any day of the week is a good day to partay ....