K...Sooo the date I had prior to the one above was equally creepy. Again I met him for dinner at the agreed upon place. At first he seemed alright, but in an odd way kinda skinny and well frail....We were having a good convo UNTIL dinner arrived.
I did notice him taking forever trying to decide on his food but I didnt really think anything of it. By this time I was noticing that his one eye was off. I wasnt sure what was happening and didnt want to be rude, but I couldnt help but wonder.
He finally explained that he had a glass eye...A lil off-putting but I try not to be TOO judgemental. He also told me he had 7 kids!!! several under the age of five!!! Then dinner arrived. HOLY CRAPOLA!!!
I sat there and watched as he was trying to pick the parmesan cheese out of his salad...I thought to myself, K, this is getting a little wierd. Then he started to explain that he was Vegan...From there he proceeded to lecture me for the entire dinner on the evils of the food I was eating! How appetizing right? lol
I told him that living in Mexico had given me a different perspective on things like food. I spent 7 yrs in a country where they eat to live and food is a celebration. I explained that Im more of a everything in moderation sort of person and that perhaps fancy diets/lifestyles were a 1st world indulgence...Yikes he became more and more irate! Blaming me for all the shortages of food in the world etc....
By this time I just knew we were not a match. I tried to politely explain that Im not into the kid thang (mine are grown) and that our lifestyles/outlooks were not a good match....So he sat there telling me he didnt understand, with his eyeball spinning around in his head...He told me he thought we would be an excellent match!!! Needless to say, I left $20.00 on the table and hastily made my exit. He continued to text me for weeks, telling me he didnt get it! and how he thought I was the "one"...OMFG!!!
The first one I met at the agreed upon place and went into dinner. He was much older than his photos but I wasnt that put off as I like a silver haired hunk (contrary to his pics which all had dark hair) But a red flag went up anyway.
Then as we chatted over drinks, He unbuttoned a couple of buttons on his shiny stripey shirt odd right? Then, as we enjoyed our meal I noticed his hand crawling up my thigh ...several times. I removed it and reminded him that Im not into fooling around until I know someone.
Next thing I know, He starts gabbing about god and sinning and how he is going to burn in hell anyway over his divorce so what difference did it make! Yikes!!!! I politely made my excuses, called a cab and hightailed it outta there!
The wierdest part was he sent me a rambling message the next day ...All about how he couldnt see me again (as if!) because I was satan tempting him in a redheaded disguise , trying to make him "fall from grace" and That there "were things he had to do before the imminent end of the world that was assigned by god to him before he returned home.
I made breaded baked chops with freshly made apple sauce, roasted garlic mash, lemon green beans, and hot sourdough bread last night ...O and chocolate cupcakes for dessert.
Before 911 it was a different world Cin.I never used to need a passport to cross either. Canada changed its border policies to prevent terrorists/illegals from entering America. Policies changed with co-operation between our two Govs. I agree with changing laws to reflect the times. I just dont agree with the slaughter of innocents with no solutions in sight. I also dont agree with forgetting the people that can no longer speak for themselves. Whether proposed legislation is the right solution or not, at least its trying to take a step in the right direction. I dont think at this point there is an easy solution however, its vital that you try to find one.
I agree with that Con...However, heres a President brave and strong enough to try and wrestle this issue and being condemned for it. Isnt the safety of the populace also his responsibility? Desperate times call for desperate measures and something MUST be done now. But changing the constitution with -out proper protecal is also NOT acceptable. It seems to me, the answer must lie somewhere in the middle. Isnt compromise the usual solution?
I get whats happening politically in Serbia Bo and I do see the connection. I was married to a Serbian who educated me about it. But this is about violence tearing apart the States and coming up with peaceable solutions IMO. The president is trying to bring in legislation towards those ends and is being attacked for it...Just like Abraham Lincoln. He had to drag America kicking and screaming into the new age. He got shot in the head for his efforts.
Heres a chance for America to learn from its history but sadly, that doesnt seem to be happening.
For the most part, The rights of individuals comes first here. That is why we have a bill of rights. for shame..... Look at all the victims of abortions if you want to talk about defending the rights of innocents and victims just to live and have a chance like the rest of us. Murder is murder.
Sound familiar? Pot calling the kettle black much??
This a bigger issue than personal feeling or want. It has nothing to do with being a Vet or anything else. You personal agenda is NOT the most important thing. You must compromise! This is about creating a voice for those that can no longer speak, and protecting future voices. STOP the violence period. Gun control is the most positive step in that direction.
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RE: whats the worst date you have ever had?
O and just to clarify....I was starving by the time I got home and made myself a big BLT