Sativa_Soul Forum Posts (669)

RE: 4:20 club

When in doubt - ask google or wikipedia

(cannabis_culture)

As it says, all other stories were held back compared to this one. I've also read myself that in the 60's/70's in California when they introduced police codes to their radio transmissions (basically using coded numbers instead of just spelling out what's happening) 4-20 was the code for underage drug use (ie: smoking pot) - this was what I had always heard and when I went hunting for the backup for this, as the legend says - the reasoning in that link is the only info I was spotting.

RE: Long how until..............

Interesting topic :)

For me personally in my own situation. He initiated that on our second weekend together (we started off spending weekends together instead of having one night dates due to our distance) - as a female I appreciated his initiation of that one conversation. Its never a conversation that I'd rush into as statuses, titles and general opinion of the public don't really matter or factor into it for me. But it was nice being asked, so, we've done this twice now, I'll assume we're dating and exclusive if you'll assume the same :)

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Interesting topic :)

For me personally in my own situation. He initiated that on our second weekend together (we started off spending weekends together instead of having one night dates due to our distance) - as a female I appreciated his initiation of that one conversation. Its never a conversation that I'd rush into as statuses, titles and general opinion of the public don't really matter or factor into it for me. But it was nice being asked, so, we've done this twice now, I'll assume we're dating and exclusive if you'll assume the same :)

RE: Health issues

Thought I'd return and add my two cents for all its worth. I'm in a similar (but yet different) situation so I can empathize on how you may be feeling. I'm currently dating someone who has a "health situation" (not life threatening, but certainly makes life difficult). He was ready to go off the dating scene as he felt after the long time trying nothing was happening due to his situation in life. He filled me in completely on our second meeting/date, so I've been filled in for the whole time we've been dating. And yes, I've had my doubts, my insecurities and an overwhelming feeling of "can I do this". And most days I step up and say "yes, yes I can" and I know the difference I've made for him in his challenges. I know (from seeing and being told) that his progress is much better now and that he'll be fully back on his feet sooner than expected. So I know any difficulties that I've had carrying on things with him has been worth it.

Regarding your situation - I say if you are both happy and fully informed (of her situation and where you both stand on issues) and are both happy to carry on - do. You are adding some help, brightness or whatever else you want to call it or that it may apply to. People with "situations" don't always have those chances or opportunities. What you share with her could be something that means more than anything else. As always, take care of yourself. Caring for someone (physically or mentally) can certainly put a strain on yourself - so keep your head healthy and happy (it will also help you to help her more if your head and heart are in the right place).

RE: charity

Your local animal shelter or dog or cat rescue. I can guarantee you they'd be deliriously happy with any type of donation. And if you fear your cash donation would not be used how you see fit. Go to a pet store or Tesco or wherever and buy big bags of dog food, cans of dog food, treats, toys anything you deem appropriate up to your spending limit. Then you know how your money has been used and most rescues are always appealing for the above items. Or pick a place and visit and ask what they need before shopping. They can also use many old items like (clean) pillows, duvets, towels. Many rescues can be forgotten in the holiday donation cycle.

RE: The simple things in life

Funny you should post this, as I was actually having one of those days/moments today as well. Mine today was having a free day to myself, I spent some quality time with my dog and the dog I am fostering - watching them romp around and around in utter joy in the sun - watching them enjoy the simple things too (a game of chase me, chase you involving a stick and when that broke a bit of old rope they unearthed from somewhere). And just having a moment of "Ahhhh" - the warm sun beating down (for a rare change!) and actually feeling something bordering on "hot".

RE: I Need Love

Someone looking for their own Eleanor Abernathy??

RE: I Need Love

Someone looking for their own Eleanor Abernathy??

RE: the weirdest thing you've bought on ebay ?

Nice. But Progresso is far superior if that's also on ebay.

RE: To go or not to go

Phoenix pretty much gave links to what I was suggesting. I'm doing a correspondence course and its brilliant. Is giving the same qualifications as another "college" course I had been looking at. All the differences were positive ones between the two courses. As Phoenix pointed out - there are no travel expenses or issues. If there is a day you cannot "make it" no problem as they give you set periods of time for assignments to be returned. And with your little girl - it might be an excellent option - because you can take care of her or work during the day and do assignments by night, or whenever you have minutes spare to yourself.

Its a great option Annie - and from doing it personally - I cannot recommend it enough, its the best of both worlds - getting your qualifications but more on your own terms, when it suits you.

RE: To go or not to go

Do you mind if I ask what course it is Annie? Or more, what you are interested in studying?

I faced a similar fork in the road recently. Not half of what you are questioning - but I too felt it was thrown at me to see what would stick. Unfortunately it wasn't a good option for me - but I did find an alternative that ends up in the same destination, was a fraction of the price and fits perfectly in my life. So depending on what you want to do, college wise, it could be an option for you as well. :)

RE: just of curiosity

Ah - sure I was only messin! I'm really not that evil
Sure he was single then as was I - and here we are - both in the same boat - so same could be said about myself - and I'd happily say it. No menace was meant to the chap - as I said in my original statement he's a good guy - just not for me.

@Tusiemc - Ah - your loss m'lady

RE: just of curiosity

You'd think that until you met him! I could pass on your number to him through Tusiemc I know he's certainly free and single! And that's unlikely to change anytime soon!

And I'm on my phone - so I can't multi-quote - but Mac - thanks thanks alot I now - and for the forseeable rest of the evening - now have that Killers song in my head - but the lyrics replaced with your Ham/Hamster ones The real lyrics are bad enough to have stuck in your head! This is even worse!

RE: just of curiosity

Not really 100% on your topic - but fairly close - so hope my intrusion isn't minded!

Its never happened to me previously - but just this evening, just before clicking into the forums. When I signed in my inbox was red, fairly rare these days as I've nearly retired this profile and site - a message from someone who I used to work with. I would, weekly, decline his offers of interest. He was a nice guy - just not of my interest. And, sure enough, 6 years later There he is in the aul inbox with the same interests and offers Guess I didn't miss anything the first time around if his offer is still on the table.

Now I'm but after reading the message I was much more

RE: 5 a Day........Help

I've tried a billion different combinations and concoctions and in the end I personally settled on smoothies. I take an individual pot of yogurt and then add in the fruits I want (Banana, pineapple, coconut milk, and green grapes) then I add a splash of water as well (the amount changes with different fruits) and blend it up until smooth (on warmer days I'll throw in a few ice cubes at the end). I find the yogurt is the key, adds a nice texture and taste to it and just sort of holds any combination together for some reason!

RE: Books

As usual I'm reading 2 books at the moment.
My serious read is currently: "Think Dog - A Guide To Canine Pyschology"

And my funsies read is (or should I say re-read!): "Sing You Home" by Jodi Picoult.

Both are recommended reads in my opinion!

RE: He's On His Way

Apparently this year Santa will be arriving in Ireland at his earliest time so far. He'll be arriving in Ireland at 11:00 to 11:17p.m

Don't ask me how they calculated this! But there ya go!

RE: Girls .... who makes u tingle ...???

Tommy Lee of Motley Crue fame ....

RE: Downloading movies

Have sent it off to you.

Good luck! And if you have any problems/questions or just get stuck in general - let me know and I'll help you out :)

RE: Downloading movies

Ah - an aul mention for myself!:) Thank you thank you!

Glad to hear the downloading has been successful for you!

To Serene - I have an "Idiots Guide To Torrents" that I could send you if you were interested (or anyone else of course) - its far better in the long run than streaming as you have what you have downloaded forever instead of just watching it once in one go.

A_B has seemingly found it easy enough to follow if his year free of buying/sourcing music and film has been all he says!

RE: dating woman with young kids!!!!!!!!!!

I can only speak for myself, but my decision to find/date someone with no kids is for a few reasons. Firstly, I've been there and done that already and do not wish to repeat it in any way, shape or form. Also, some people (despite what age they are) still wish to travel, have weekends away and move about freely, move on a whim if a better job or life would be there for them - that would all be difficult at best with children in the picture. I'm sure its all still possible - but far more difficult and with many other complications in the way of it happening.

Kids are great, and fair play to all the parents who have them and raise them. Its just not my thing in the least and it never will be. My aim is (was, should I say) to find someone who has the same interests and motivations in life as I do. And the person I'm currently dating has the same feelings and opinions on kids that I do. They aren't what he wants from life - which I understand, respect and appreciate in him. Neither of us hate children - just do not personally want them ourselves.

That's what friends/family who have kids are great for Rent them for the day then when they are tired and whingey give them back and go home to a clean, peaceful house

RE: WHO IS ON CS FOR THE PURPOSE OF DATING ?

I too joined up for dating - found the forums in the meantime.

These days I only lurk occasionally and post even more infrequently.

This site didn't work for me - but another site I was on did - so overall - the whole online dating thing does seem to work overall. I guess it just takes persistence and a thick skin - and personally - as soon as I stopped actively looking for someone and expecting it every time I'd sign in - it happened then quick as a flash.

RE: dating woman with young kids!!!!!!!!!!

As a few others have said, I personally wouldn't date anyone with kids if I were still dating. Young or old it wouldn't matter. I'm not a big fan of kids and I've previously been in a situation dating someone who had kids - it was a nightmare I'd never do again.

RE: what books you like to read & what books you recommend

At the moment my "fun" reading book is a very very very well read much beloved book by Betty Smith "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn"


I've read it, probably, about 2 times a year since I was 13 and never ever get bored of it.

RE: Is Anybody Using Google Chrome?

For me, at the bottom of the page there's a little chrome logo in the left corner and then at the bottom in the middle there's a little grey bar that says "most visited" and that returns things to normal at least briefly!

RE: Anyone know??

When I had one - as Salanky said, the volume buttons on the side would change the font size.

Failing that - go into general options and look around for anything to do with the font - you should be able to change it within that. Don't go into the SMS options but the general options would be the best bet. I have a friend who just got one the other day because I haven't had mine in a while now and they confirmed the volume buttons changed the font size.

Failing all of the above and your font size hasn't returned to your preference - pop into a mobile shop and they'll show you - I've had a few things I couldn't figure out (even with google) with my blackberry and they've always been great in the shop to go through it with you.

RE: Blue-Ray?

I highly recommend the Iomega line - I've 2 of them now and haven't had any issues with them and I really like the fact that you can connect the hard drive to the tv directly and just access your media with the remote then.

Since you are posting on this website I was assuming you were already paying for an internet connection Unless you are using the Eircom "thinger" and stealing your neighbours, which, if thats the case - then you wouldn't be worried about the usage in the least!

Most broadband packages these days come with incredibly reasonable download limits - if you are unsure of the download limit for the broadband package you are on - go to the company website - they all clearly state what your limit is. They should also advise on what their excess rates are - as in, if you download more than your package allows, what they will charge you for over use. Its been awhile since I was fully in the tech support loop, but when I was most places were only charging a few euro (between 2 and 5euros) for an extra 10 gigs - quite reasonable really. So even if you do go into excess, it still wont break the bank and I still guarantee that it works out cheaper than buying DVD's! And you'll be so far ahead of the game! I've watched films months and months before they've come out here!

RE: Blue-Ray?

My first thumbs - its quite a moment!

I can highly recommend the Iomega hard drive that connects to your tv, it also comes with a remote - incredibly handy for watching things you've downloaded and you can also listen to your music via it that way as well - as well as view any photos that are on it.

Here's a good selection of them:

How are dvd's cheaper than free downloads?? I paid 90euro for my hard drive and I have hundreds and hundreds of films and the music collection I can't even begin to describe You obviously have an internet connection already, so for a wee bit more you'll have the hard drive and there'll be no stopping you then!

RE: Blue-Ray?

I dont think I've purchased any music or films in about 3 years now! Although, I did have to buy another terabyte hard drive to keep all my treasures on

The "extras" so to speak don't normally come with the blue ray copies, those just tend to be what they say they are - the blue ray version of the film. If your wanting to download something with the extras then you'd have to be looking for the ISO version as when you click that on, it will open up exactly like the dvd would when you put it in. Anything fairly main or well known the ISO's would be easy to find but anything more off the radar or obscure would be harder to find.

For you (or anyone else who wants to get into downloading media) I offer the "Idiots guide to torrents" - I was getting so many people asking me how to download stuff I just sat down and actually wrote it all out, the how to's and good sites to use, etc etc - so if anyone wants or needs it lemme know and I'll happily send it on.

RE: Blue-Ray?

I never buy media in any form these days. So hardly likely to fork out for a blue-ray any time soon.

That said. If its a film I really really have wanted to see I might download the blue ray version of it.