They are pathetic sympathy seekers and it is very unbecoming and unattractive. It's a turn off to see such weakness presented at the beginning of an acquaintance.
Yet, if they are truely sick from depression because of some personal tragedy, this is very sad. They should not be out on the dating scene, they need help for family, friends or professionals.
This is rare, I'm such good friends with the father of my son, his wife (my ex's wife) and I are taking a road trip together from Ohio to Oklahoma. While we are trippin around, my son and his dad can hang out, and they are planning to remodel my kitchen.
Try not to worry about yourself and being alone. Your primary concerns should be staying friends with your ex, and being a good dad to the daughter you share.
Remaining friends will be the best for your daughter.
As far as being afraid of being alone.... I have to say suck it up and be a man, be a good father and a responsible ex.
Being alone is not the worst thing and if you are not even divorced yet, you will need time alone to find yourself again.
Count on your friends, and try very hard to stay on friendly terms with your ex.
TJ was soooo fun. I worked for two years in a maquila, just near Plaza Rubio (?) then the factory burned down and they moved to Parque Industrial at Cinco y Dias and the drive was too far. The factory (PowerSonic/El Power) a battery manufacturing plant for Power Wheels, was isolated up a huge hill and there were manhole covers missing. After a few months of that, I had to quit.
The border traffic coming home at 5:30 started out being 20 minutes and within two years, was 1 1/2 hours or longer.
I loved when I first started working there by Plaza Rubio. There were dulcerias everywhere, and great places to eat, shops and street vendors.
Also went to Ensenada several times. I guess you are in the U.S. for work? If I could live in Ensenada, I would, if my kids came too ! ;)
Been there lots of times, I lived in Chula Vista for 28 years. Yes the weather is always good, but can become monotonous after a while. I miss Tijuana more than I miss San Diego.
It is bad for your body to process, gives you a killer headache. You can get sloppy and sick, do stupid things you would never do. Alcohol causes some to be violent and believe they can do things they really can't do and shouldn't do
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RE: Why do some men love to tell us about their depression
They are pathetic sympathy seekers and it is very unbecoming and unattractive. It's a turn off to see such weakness presented at the beginning of an acquaintance.Yet, if they are truely sick from depression because of some personal tragedy, this is very sad. They should not be out on the dating scene, they need help for family, friends or professionals.