Anyone can go back to anyone else, whether married or not. Maybe I'm just a little older and not willing to take chances. I'll probably end up alone, and that's better than being miserable.
I was married once and had a very bad separation time before the divorce. I was mentally and emotionally in no shape to begin any kind of relationship. The legal proceedings took less than a year.
I did get involved somewhat with someone and of course it didn't work but that was just me.
But it was a plan from at least a week earlier, his BIRTHDAY, a special occasion. If the old friend is that special, invite the friend along, don't dump the g/f "again"
I have friends too and when in a relationship, I don't neglect my friends, however, if I make a plan with my b/f, I don't suddenly dump the guy when he has made a special plan for my birthday.
I agree with the organ donation. After that, I think cremation is a more economical alternative to burial, then storage in those little marble spaces in the cemetery with a nameplate.
I got him a scratcher, he loves it, has catnip inside of it. He scratches on that then goes to the couch. I honestly think he is waiting for me to yell and then he RUNS away like it's a game!
Today I got him something to spray on the couch or whatever he is scratching on, it a kind of repellent, not sure if it will work. I also got some kitty nail clippers because they are so sharp and he does not intentionally scratch us, but he still can hurt. We love him no matter what.
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