RE: THE ..TRUE..GENTLEMAN

Wow lol..that was insightful and I'd have to agree on the last part for sure. Nice to meet you, Sir. handshake

RE: In the question of relationship: "Opposite Attracts"

Sorry OP, I don't mean to steal your thread.handshake

RE: In the question of relationship: "Opposite Attracts"

Oh no you don't! lol I get myself in trouble easy enough. But honestly it is really good to see you on here and you DO look good. Can't believe some guy hasn't scooped you up yet.

RE: In the question of relationship: "Opposite Attracts"

Haha...umm....(to my shame) 1-2 years maybe? How are you? You are looking good.

RE: Are looks really that important

Yes, and to each their own. Well put.

RE: Are looks really that important

Agree.

RE: In the question of relationship: "Opposite Attracts"

HI FELIX!! lol long time. Hope things are well for you. hug

RE: In the question of relationship: "Opposite Attracts"

I didn't answer the pole because I believe they do and don't. We can see it all the time where the two people involved have different tastes and likes. But within those differences they are similar. For ex: two people like sports, one is into swimming and the other is into hockey. They have similar interests, but differ within those interests. I will admit that it is possible for two people to have very different interests all together, and that's fine. But I do not believe a relationship will last if all they have are differences in their interests. They need to connect on some level. Likewise, I don't think it would last if in everything they had the same likes and interests. People are so complex and so is their needs, desires, interests that opposites and similarities have a wide range of options to connect.

RE: MEN innocent

That is a fair assessment... hug

RE: omg

And like the same can't be said for guys? But do the guys put that in their profile? I don't know about other guys, but I don't. I'm sorry you have been hurt, but that really is not something that draws "real" men's attention. frustrated

RE: omg

Ditto!

RE: What is the way to open your heart again without being scared...

So this is the advise to a guy that found his daughter hanging and then his wife blames him and leaves him 3 months after to pick up the pieces.

Yup simple.

RE: What is the way to open your heart again without being scared...

That's cute, but impractical. Sorry. hug

Can you explain how one would go about doing that? confused

RE: The shortest date

5 minutes.

RE: so here we go anybody feel awkard,here

LOL good point. ;)

RE: What is the way to open your heart again without being scared...

My thoughts on this is that a hurt differs from person to person. The amount and depth at which you have been hurt will determine how difficult it will be to open your heart again. I have found that the more you are "into" the person, the more they are able to hurt you...and I think that's where the crux is. You are opening up your heart right now without feeling scared.

I agree it takes time; time to figure out who you are as a unique person and what are your unique needs are. During which time, I believe it's nessessary to be able to forgive the person that hurt you...not for his benifit, but your hearts benifit with being at peace with it. So that when the memory comes back, it's just that, a memory without the pangs of pain that was once there.

Once you feel confident to actually meet people, keep in mind your needs and his also. After all, he may have a painful heart as well as you. And I would hope you have his best interest in mind as well as your own. I wouldn't suggest sharing your hurts and letting him know you need time. That would most likely send mixed messages and you may end up doing damage control. What I suggest in just be yourself, allow him to be himself and just be aware of things that are consistent. It's in the consistencies that you are more likely going to see the real person. We all can act and copy what we see...and some are very very good. But we can not stop being our true selves. And who we really are is always a constant in how we live, speak, act and react. If there is anything that you may see a red flag, don't be afraid to ask for clerification to make sure you understand him correctly. Takes time spent with someone to buld a level of trust to where the deep things in your heart is a safe place in his hands.

That is my thoughts on this. I hope it helps. :)

RE: You may live in Alberta if,...

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RE: You may live in Alberta if,...

lol those are funny and true.

Thanks fopr the good laugh

RE: What do u normally do,when u get bored?

I guess I'm one of those people that hardly ever get bored. doh

RE: same old thing

I would have to agree that they are just rehashed questions.
Eg: What song are you listening to #738958236738489267328493490... doh

RE: Are women more intelligent than men ?

Not likely. tongue

RE: How many mistakes do you make every day ?

I don't make mistakes anyday, but then I could be mistaken. dunno

RE: what would you do if you found yourself dead in the bed tommorow

laugh yes. But what does death have to do with faith Pedro? handshake

RE: The outdoors

My cousin has that. Her husband died in March of a massive heart attack and now she is forced to go outside as he is not around to any longer. I really feel sad for her. moping

RE: The outdoors

I agree and although I do like doing things outdoors, I am home more than I am out camping and such. You can have a lot of fun being at home. I guess it depends on the person. hug

RE: what would you do if you found yourself dead in the bed tommorow

I'd be dead. dunno

RE: Unforgettable ! ! !

Ya, go figure. But not all women on here are smug. cool

RE: Unforgettable ! ! !

Please stay on the East coast and do not come to the west side of Canada. roll eyes

RE: Unforgettable ! ! !

thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

RE: Unforgettable ! ! !

laugh You call that crude? confused I'm sorry you must be new to the forums. comfort

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