I know, I've softened on this over the years. I used to be brutally honest to people like this and lost many friends as aresult..... TOO honest WTF is that about... Now at a party i tend to fob someone like this onto others, asap, by going to the toilet, to get food and even sometimes by saying.. Listen, "You're doing my head in so just go away". Some people want sympathy all their lives, and not the advise on offer
It's a pity that it take so many people, so long in life to figure this out... Wasting their lives away worrying about what others, they don't even know, think of them.... Funny really
Simular here, I care only about the opinions of those who know me well, my real friends.. and they can get to me as they know how to and when to. Others opinions don't carry too much weight, so yeah i'm thick skinned, that however doesn't close you off to experience or pain for that matter.
That society through the media supports the idae that pretty and slim women are the most beautiful is wrong..... Just look at Naomi Campbell..... stunning she may be.... but I wouldn't want to have a cup of tea with her nevermind a date......
Beauty is also something that grows with love, the better a partner is, you know kindness, supportive, loving, caring the more attractive they become to me..... So to speak.. it's the spirit/soul that you date, not the vessel carring it.
Of course it is.... That a woman may be physically beautiful, is wonderful.. but after a while of being with them, they become the person you're with... However intelligence leads to good conversation, communication, humour and so much more.. For me an average looking clever woman is way ahead of a dumb stunning model.....
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No go away and be quiet
RE: Why are you on Connecting Singles?
You mean, this is The Matrix...