I don't intend to read all the pages to see what has already been said. Just to respond to the question. I don't think that women have lost their femininity, maybe because of changed circumstances They might have taken on the role of trying to be a mother and father, in so far as it is possible, but i don't think that it affected any testosterone levels. Also many good fathers are a part of their sons/daughters lives and play their part as good parents.
Of course, i know you said he had an accident with coffee and computer. I just thought ,that he is gone for quite a while, and if it was taking that long to repair a computer.
RE: A word game of sorts...
Alex, Audrey, Albatross, Antartica