I could pretend to want to get in your pants, but you're half my age. If you need a different variety of creepy, let me know. Otherwise... I just don't think I can help.
You're a smart guy. I know the economy is bad, but if you've been unemployed for more than a couple months, I have to wonder if you don't a serious case of career burn out. If your last job lasted 3 months or more, and was what I think it was... I'd be almost certain you burned out. Those jobs eat most people up.
I'd suggest letting your self off the hook for hating that job.
Research burn out recovering, and then look for another way
to apply your skillset.
This is of course just guess on my part.
If it's helpfull great, if not...don't give it a second thought.
I have to agree with Audry here. Showing a bit of initial interest is fine. Pursuing a man beyond that point...is probably a waste of energy. Unless you don't mind dating very passive, indecisive or insecure men, some women don't.
Personally, I don't mind working through a little insecurity in the women I date, we're all human.
A few weeks ago one of the shadows the flowers cast on my patio
ran about three feet across the patio, turned around and ran off.
The trip lasted maybe 3 or 4 seconds. There was just enough light to cast shadows and what I had really seen was a mole. We don't see moles running around on patios very often so it took my mind a few seconds to pull up the "mole on patio" file.
A few moments ago, around noon here, the phone rang...
Me: Hello?
Caller: Are you sleeping?
Me: No.
Caller: I'm glad.
(short pause)
Caller: What times dinner?
Me: Who is this? Who are you calling?
(medium pause)
Me: I think you have the wrong number.
Caller: I think so too. I'm sorry sir.
Me: That's ok. Good bye.
(end of call)
Just a typical wrong number, except the women sounded just like one of my grandmothers that is no longer with us. Before the call ended I breifly regretted asking who was calling.
RE: uh wtf
I like to help, it's my nature..I live in the same country as you.
My english is not broken, completely.
I could pretend to want to get in your pants, but you're half my age. If you need a different variety of creepy, let me know. Otherwise... I just don't think I can help.
My apologies.