rocky_zen Forum Posts (50)

RE: Dating Sites

Well it seems the only strange one was that idiot, glad you got safe because you never know what can happen in the backseat of a car.

RE: Lies and Betrayal

Yes, I was with a lady and she said she was a virgin.... hmmmm but she wasn't

Either she lied or she was a Natural

RE: How much do you want to know...

I know I would be better than her ex in bed, so it's all fine to me.

RE: Identity

I think this needs a -- Holy Guacamole What The – is this all about.


Ok, I also had to read it a couple of times to get the meaning. Might I ask what on earth possessed you to write this in the first place?



There is no question or anything relevant, in fact if I got the gist of it you are saying you belong to no one except yourself and your soul or something to that effect.

Therefore, once again -- What The - is this about???

RE: last weekend

Mate what can I say, it’s not like you can get your virginity back it’s gone forever. Therefore, just enjoy the experience because there nothing you can do so why get worried or depressed about it.


Also, there is one thing I can tell you now for a fact, as many of the ladies have already said. It might be the first time but it will certainly not be the last time.

Therefore, you are 19, so go out and tell your mates you are no longer a virgin and watch them cringe in envy, I’m sure that will make you feel better.



Also, thanks for taking me down memory lane -- Also, it nothing like it is in the movies is it??

Cheers.

RE: Surviving a Broken Heart

That’s Bul Sht.

I live my life to the fullest but I’m not going to believe that heartbreak serves us right because nothing last forever. WTF... and what a cynical and negative way to look at life and relationships, which can reflect in the way we treat people and view people.



Live life as best as we can but if every time we meet someone we think it’s not going to last, what’s the bloody point in getting involved with them. Talk about look at a glass half empty!


Anyway, something tells me you are going to be alone for a long time because when women read this they will stay away from you because you already believe a relationship has failed before it even began.

RE: Opinions on the institution of marriage

Hmmm, well I guess I definitely come under that category. Let’s face it when most people talk about long-lasting marriages they always refer to their parents, they hardly ever refer to friends they know.
Yes, I know there are many successful couples but most of the time it’s our parents or grandparents who had long marriages, reason was because that what it was like those days, but guess what we live in a totally different way than those days.

If not, why does most marriages fail and there are so many horror stories of guys losing everything to their wife, then heart break, then tragedy or worse. Why are there so many affairs etc??

Therefore, Yes I love the idea of marriage, can’t wait!!!

But truthfully, I am ready to settle down with the white picket fence and kids, just need to find the right lady.
Regarding the paper, what does that really mean? Tell me why can a relationship work so good for some people only to have it turn to shi..t after you sign on the dotted line? Now that to me is more mysterious than Bigfoot. Maybe, because when people get married they feel like they don’t have to try anymore, or take the other person for granted, either way, if it’s going to work it should work with or without that piece of paper… shouldn’t it??

Please Explain & Does This Make Sense?

So based on what you said that it’s ok to be a serial killer and repent as long as you learn and then God will be happy that his child is learning his lessons.
Are you for REAL!!

Oh, you naughty serial killer for raping, murdering butchering many people, you need to go in your corner until you learn your lesson, and also for being naughty you don’t get supper.

Then you compare a serial killer to a person that’s lies because of Hate. That does not make any sense when does someone who lie, HATE?

Also, what about one of the serial killers victims, who once again never got a chance to repent, they are sent to hell because of a sinner but then a sinner becomes a good boy and get a “Get out of Hell Free Card.

RE: Is it hard sometimes not to be bitter?....After you have been really hurt?

I always look at lost love this way. If I was with a lady that I really cared for and loved and it never worked out, then surely I have to want them to be happy even if it’s not with me.

The hardest pain I think anyone can go through is loss of someone, be it death or in a relationship. Of course death of someone is much worse but in some ways it could be considered easier, because at least you can’t pick up the phone and try and contact them. At least you don’t have to want them back.

Now do not get me wrong and it’s not a comparison because no way you can compare the death of someone as better than anything, so I was using that as a slight analogy, however I am sure many readers will understand my meaning.

Sadly, there is no pill for heartache and it like a slow burn, it hurts a little bit o start with but as time goes on the pain becomes greater, until one day, month or year the pain will be gone and you will love someone else. And so goes the circle of life.

Please Explain & Does This Make Sense?

Ok let’s put you in the driver’s seat for a moment. If a person is in jail as a serial killer and changes his way, then he comes up to gas day, and he repents – what happens then?

Once again, he has time because he knows his death date?
In addition, people are on death row for years, decades even, so what I say is in many ways fact. What then?

Please Explain & Does This Make Sense?

I have no idea where you get this idea from what I wrote that sin is good – what are you crazy to make that statement. When I post a thread about an interesting subject I would like to expect a sensible conversation, so when you make a foolish accusation like this it means that you lost the whole plot to what I was referring to.

In fact, to simplyify and clarify my thread. If you commit sin and you can then repent before th gas chamber then how is that fair to a non Christian who lives best he can and then gets hit by a bus and then end up in Hell… How is that fair?? And if people can repent, then Hell must be full of nice people and heaven must have many serial killers walking around with a big smile on their face.

So, how you get from what I wrote that sin is good -- is more of a mystery to me than my actually thread topic.

Please Explain & Does This Make Sense?

Ok, but doesn’t this still come under the same parameter that serial killers who know their death date have a chance to ask for forgiveness, whereby most individuals who don’t know their date of death won’t have time to repent.
One another thing, what about the priests who molest children if they repent what position would they be in. In addition, if people who can get away with murder as such and know that they can repent, which I’m sure when someone knows they are going to die and repent they might be true to their words as they have nothing left, so it’s all or nothing kind of thing. Therefore, couldn’t this be considered a “Loophole” that act anyway you can but when it comes time to die forgive all and a Free ride to heaven.

Please Explain & Does This Make Sense?

If someone goes to church every day, reads the bible and believe in God and happens to commit a sin, however never confesses that, then under religious beliefs that person might not go to heaven.

However, if there is a serial killer who is about to be put to death and confesses all their sins then God will forgive them and they will go to heaven.
Now taking this into account, with I would imagine Most serial killers, mass murderers or the worst people in society, might very well confess their sins then does that mean heaven could be full of these kind of people?

In addition, on the other side, what about the innocent people who go to war and kill people, in god’s eyes are they considered sinners, because they have committed the ultimate sin, however, the military strongly belive in god and so does the justice system because you have to swear on a bible when in court.

Therefore, I’m interested to here opinions to explain the above, and why is it so easy for serial killers etc to get into heaven when the average person who lives life as best as they can, not hurt anyone, but never confess their sins will not make it there?

Please Explain? Also can we stick to the thread and not make this a hate thread against different religious beliefs.

RE: old lovers

Hey Bob, we have all been there and done that, so I’m feeling for you mate. However, only time will heal the wounds, nothing more.
One thing I have always done, is write down why we split up in the first place and then ask yourself what will change, and as you said nothing will/has, which means that if you got back together and split up again, you’ll be right where you are now in another couple of months.

Another quick thing to think about is -- maybe you don’t want her back, you just don’t want anyone else to have her. Sometimes I know when I left my ex I kept thinking about what we did in bed together, she is doing it with some other guy, and that can really mess with your head.
So, maybe it’s time to delete her numbers and contact point, that way even if you want to contact her you can’t, also go out and meet other women; sooner the better.
Good luck buddy and whatever you do stay the F… k away from her!
Hope my advice helped, cheers

RE: Why do most nice guys finish last

What a croc of dinosaur shi t , nice guys don’t finish last and how insecure guys must be to think that way of themselves.
Treat a lady with respect and she will treat you the same way. When you walk down the street hold her hand, when u in a nightclub keep her near, when guys approach her give her a kiss so everyone knows she is with you, when in bed make her feel special and most of all be her friend when she needs you.
Now if this is what is called being nice, BS.. it’s about being in a relationship or having a partner.

Also, all that other waffle you said (no disrespect man) but WTF..I don’t think ladies appreciate that, in fact, I think it make you look very week and insecure.

Also, I’m sure many guys don’t want to be placed in any box (well I bloody don’t anyway) and all this sympathy thread has done is make guys who have a pair feel embarrassed at what was written.

And if a girl does dump you, so what -- that’s life and maybe you were not man enough to keep her, as I’m sure if she read this pity thread she would dump you quicker than a snakebite.

RE: what do you think i am?

Absolutely,where are we going to have our first date - Kuwait or Saigon.

RE: what do you think i am?

Hi I just read the poll results.

I am surprised why you would make a thread like this especially to a world of people you don’t know. Maybe it’s because you at the moment have low self-esteem or needs some reassurance but this is not the place to do it. Many people have their view on beauty or attractiveness and where 10 people might say u are attractive it takes one that might say something different that could be destructive to you.

Most people here said it’s only what you think you look like but in reality that’s not true. Everybody cares in some way or another what other people think, and you are no different than all of us. We all wanted to be attractive to other people whether it’s to attract a partner, be accepted in society or to feel good about themselves. Everyone is a little bit vain and everybody knows what a handsome man is or a beautiful girl is – Brad Pitt and Angelina doe’s not takes a genius to know that.

Therefore, regardless of what this pole said… It does not matter because you are who you are and you need to learn and live with that. Also, truer words have never been spoken – where beauty is in the eye of the beholder” so how can other people find you attractive if you don’t think that about yourself.

Most people see beauty in someone when they know them. Therefore, you know you are not an Angelina but you are beautiful in many ways and I’m sure it’s just a matter of time before you find a special guy to think that, and REALLY will you care if he is not a Brad Pitt – NO, so what does it really matter what a poll of people you don’t know really thinks. IT DOESN’T.

You have one life to live get out and live it PRETTY LADY!!

RE: Would you like to go out with me? Do u find me appealing to you?

Mate, you did ask for our opinions. Therefore, puta shirt on or go to the gym.

Where do We go When we Die?

Good Post, agree with all you said!

Where do We go When we Die?

Why would anyone want to look at life that way, whether it is true or not. If we look at death as a Negative and we turn to dust, I believe that has to be the most Pessimistic view possible. Not to mention regarding the scientist's view on evolution, there have been many things that has happened that even the experts can’t explain. A classic and simple example is Chi. Monks bending swords on their throat where there is no muscle, impossible but True.



Therefore, we all have our opinions and beliefs but why look at glass "Half Empty" attitude... Hey but if that works for you that’s fine. Me, I have always been a glass "Half Full" type of guy which makes me enjoy life more.
peace:

And if I have to think if I'm going to turn to dust or another dimesion, well then you know where I got my ticket booked.

RE: Destroy/keep?

I definitely would not do what this guy thinks because she will think you are some kind of psycho and maybe want to hurt her.

Therefore, if you are unsure give them to someone for your safe keeping this way you always have the memory if you choose too.
Myself, I always throw out anything that reminds me of the ex, or you can’t move one. However, in saying that I have many pics I keep on my laptop but anything of hard copy I throw out.

Trouble with memorabilia is that when you are sad you look at them and miss her even more, which can make you do some stupid thing like call her, therefore throw out pics and delete number then even if you want contact her you can’t.


I split up with an ex and we decided not to talk to each other until the pain was gone. When we finally caught up I called her after 3-years apart and said hi. We talked for 6 hours on the phone and she said it’s so nice to talk with no pain. We have stayed close friends ever since and next time I’m in Oz I am meeting her and her partner as they just moved into together, and Honestly I’m so happy for her. Just because it does not work between you does not mean you need to be enemies, but there is a recovery period.
Good Luck Mr I.

RE: Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?

Hi Mr I. I lived in Kuala Lumpur for a couple of years so I dated some Indian ladies, even while they were living with their parnets. However, one thing Don't do. If you ever get invited to stay over night at the parents place don't get calught making love in the daughters bedroom... I assure you it does not go over so well, especially if they think their daughter could be a virgin.

RE: LOVE OR SELF RESPECT!

I see that you changed the words from Self Esteem to Self respect which now your thread makes more sense; because Self Esteem and Self Respect are two very different things.



Now to answer; self respect has to be more important than love. But sadly when we fall head over heels for someone we tend to do things to please them, even if it can sometimes mean humiliating ourselves. I think as we get older we have learned that self respect has to be first regardless of our feeling because reality is – If we don’t respect ourselves then how can we expect someone else to give us the respect we deserve.


Not to mention, sometimes if you love someone a person can play games with your emotions and can take advantage of you, however once they know you have more respect for yourself and won’t put up with their crap or be their puppy dog, they will treat you better or possibly leave you because they want someone to control etc, either way, at least you will be able to hold your head up high and keep and keep your dignity.


I also truly believe that when you meet people they will give you respect if you deserve it because of the person you are; and you are that person because of every time in your life that you walked away from someone who tried to take away your dignity or self respect.

Self Respect Always first and Love comes second!

RE: First thing a man should do when meeting a girl he love for the first time

Make sure you zipper is done up

RE: Hello i am looking for marirage i male i need women to my life

Just a bit of advice you need to watch what you write in a thread in these forums. Because in many ways your are judged by every lady on here. As someone already said, this is your 4th thread about this in days, therefore you come across as so desperate.

Ladies do not want desperate men; they want men who can protect them etc... When you come across so desperate you will scare any potential ladies who are interested in your profile.
Therefore, have a plan. In fact, if I was you honestly I would delete your profile and start again because you might never attract lady with your past record on here.

Good Luck mate with your search and I’m sure in time you will meet a lady but you need to change your approach or you could be alone for a long time
Also, sometimes advice from a complete stranger can be the best because they don’t have any agenda just trying to help someone who is need; that’s why I took time to write this.

Where do We go When we Die?

Good point regarding who created the creator, like I guess what comes first chicken or the egg? However, in another way I believe in evolution too because everything in life evolves, take mankind. We went from ape-man to walking on the moon, to have creating a silly computers to be smarter than man.

However, in many ways you reinforced the possible existence of a creator. Once agin, neither of us know, so it’s just an interesting discussion.

However, back to what I was saying; if evolution is correct that definitely explains a creator because what made the thing in the first place to evolve?


Hmmmmm The mystery continues.

Where do We go When we Die?

That was brilliant!!

Where do We go When we Die?

First of thanks for the compliment for interesting threads.

Now, regarding the quote on various dimensions. I look at the solar system and how large and vast it is, which if anything would really make any sense of where do we go... once again, I never look at anything negatively or pessimistically because why live life that way. But who knows, maybe we do go to different dimensions, and if you think about it (in the most open mind possible) that would make sense, well possible as much as any other answers human beings could justify and to explain.

In retrospect, wouldn't another dimension … be the same as when people talk about heaven.

On another lighter view; maybe the guys who made the movies Men in Black 1 & 2, had it all correct. There they showed how inconspicuous some aliens world were, where one world was hanging around a cat’s color or in a filing cabinet, maybe that how small earth is in the scale of things and when we die we just get taken to another cabinet or placed on another animals back.

Where do We go When we Die?

I am not a religious man But I do believe in a greater power because commonsense tells me that life or first existence was created, so something or someone must have created it somehow.

I also have to believe that there must be more to life than how we all live it and we don’t just end up as dust when we die. If we think that way, then that’s got to be the most pessimistic and negative way to think of our existence.

The reason why I’m not religious is simple: I do not believe anyone should tell me how to live my life and why should I follow the laws that can govern some religions. No to mention, the hypocrisy that some religions can also bring, with priests molesting children, television shows of ministers talking and asking for money, when most of them are millionaires and take money from the poor to give to themselves. And also, how many innocent people have been killed through religious wars or their belief – take 911 for example.

However, I respect everyone’s view and faith on religion and if that’s what people want to believe then good for them. I just gave you my reason for me not to be religious, but that does not make me right or wrong, just my belief. Fortunately, my belief won’t hurt anyone else’s life.

Anyway, I do not want to get of track with my thread.

So everyone; what happens when we die and where do we go?

Also, this thread is about the question AND I hope it does not get turned into some kind of religious feud.

Ladies Your Impression

No, don't get me wrong it was not meant to come across as defensive, in fcat it's good to read all replies.

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In fact if you read my reply to her latr you will see We Kissed and made up