I am looking for some legal advice in regards to the father of this baby. He has been giving me grief the past week and I really think I need to start looking at my options to protect myself and this baby.
If anyone can help me could you please message me? Thanks in advance!!
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Could be many of things...Shyness, confused about their own identity aka have not found themselves yet, cowards, trying to score with as many chicks as they can and hope they don't get caught lol Could be lots of things. The tricky part of online dating I guess.
Honestly if she is confused chances are she still has feelings for him. Sounds like she might still be on a rebound phase etc..
I would just back off and tell her that once she makes up her mind and is 110% sure of her decision and cuts all ties with her ex to contact you. Otherwise keep your distance. Wouldn't want you to get lead on and then hurt.
I know. I been there done that and its not worth it.
Well if a long boring life would mean that I get to spend many long years with my children and friends and family and those I love then I definatly pick the long and boring one.
I will be honest and say that yes a man's physical appearance is important to me but no he does not have to be all muscle and 6 pack abs. As long as he is physicaly fit and can take good care of himself and respects himself that is what is important to me.
For me its the inside that counts the most and usualy the beauty inside shines on the outside as well.
I have no problems with chat rooms. I used to love them but now they are just way too fast for me and even if I sit here at the computer I am not always at the computer. So I always end up missing parts of the chat. I prefer really chatting in MSN and Yahoo and conference there with people from my list.
Perfectly normal and I think everyone has gone through that one way or another.
I suppose its because at the time something happens it did so fast that we had no time to really digest it. But once we have the time to sit and relax, that is when we have a tendency to think back and then do a play by play and then the reality sets in.
Well sort of I guess. I just asked myself if I could live without a computer and internet and my first reaction was HELL NO! LOL
But I do not negelect the real life outside the computer either. I do take the time to spend time with kids, and go outdoors and go out with friends and family etc..I don't focus every single thing on the computer but it is a nice resource to have when you are looking for something specific and also a great distraction when I am bored lol
For me personaly I do not "need" a man. To me saying I need a man makes me feel and sound desperate.
But I do "want" a man. A good man. With a good head on his shoulders. One who knows what he wants and not beat around the bush. One who respects not only himself but those around him including me and my children. A man who believes that communication, loyalty and dedication is important. A man with good strong morals and family oriented as family means a lot to me.
Because some women just are not into younger men that is all. Everyone has their own preference just like you.
Honestly I prefer someone my age and older. I dated a guy who was about 6 years younger than me and as much as he was good looking and a nice guy I just wasn't comfortable and we didn't want the same things and it just turned me off. That was the last time I dated someone younger than me. I am just not attracted to younger people I guess.
It wouldn't hurt you as well to maybe give women around your age a chance either. Maybe your being too focused on older women and missing out on possibly meeting someone that would suit you more or make you happy.
I mean unless your just looking for an older women for fantasy purposes LOL But hey whatever floats your boat dude!
Thank you!! So glad I am not the only one who feels this way!
It is one thing to voice an opinion and concerns BUT the threads really came off as very offensive and disrespecting too because to me it is generalizing and to me that is not right!
I don't have a digital camera either but I always find a way. She should have no excuses in my opinion. She can get a disposable camera and when get the pics finished either ask for a photo CD or scan them on a scanner (and if she doesn't have a scanner she can go to any home depot or Staples and places like that) That is what I do.
My poor brother had that happen to him once. Had met this girl online and they chatted for quite awhile. She did produce a pic of her and he even asked how recent it was and she said it was like a month or so recent. Well he meets her to see a movie and low and behold she was totaly opposite. Not even close to her pic.
Now the nice guy my brother is lol went on to watch the movie but came home straight after and told her to bug off after lol
You can never be too careful and that is also why I prefer meeting someone in a public place too just to be sure.
Well it depends on how long you two have been chatting and if you have asked her a few times already and she keeps coming up with excuses then I would just be honest with her and tell how you feel.
I don't blame you either. I have had that happen before. Where the person would keep finding excuses about sending me a pic and finaly I just told them I was not interested and even if then they would have sent a pic by that time I would not have even believed if it was their real pic or not since they took so much time to send it.
Just tell her what you told us. Hopefuly she has a valid reason and sends you one and the real her very soon too!!
Anyone with legal experience??
I am looking for some legal advice in regards to the father of this baby. He has been giving me grief the past week and I really think I need to start looking at my options to protect myself and this baby.If anyone can help me could you please message me? Thanks in advance!!
Happy Halloween everyone and hope you all had a great one!!