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how to block someone

I looked there but there are no buttons

how to block someone

they are not harassing me on forums they are sending me multiple emails and they are very aggressive and insulting.... how do I block an indiviidual? I used to be able to do it but when I go to his profile I see nothing at the bottom that says block this member

how to block someone

help! I am being harassed

RE: If you've been on CS for more than 10 YEARS!!!......

Because I believe in love, dreams and miracles and I am not a quitter!
I have been reading this poem since I was a kid and I still follow the advice herein..........


When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than

It seems to a faint and faltering woman;
Often the struggler has given up
When she might have captured the victor's cup;
And she learned too late when the night came down,
How close she was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out -

The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

RE: China is a threat to the Human race

This is such BS... every country in the Western world is doing the same damage in one way or another...stop scapegoating and spreading hate. We must address our own shortcomings at home and with allies!

RE: One sentence with word "L O V E" in it.

in the words of every guy who stood me up "hell yeah". Sorry. just had to cleanse myself of that bitter thought

RE: One sentence with word "L O V E" in it.

If love is the answer, what is the question?

RE: One sentence with word "L O V E" in it.

Love the one your with

RE: One sentence with word "L O V E" in it.

I love reality 100% of the time.

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

I have been desired; taken and dropped; life is a wild ride; I am still hoping to be taken for good one day but so far no takers; lots of lookers, feelers, lots looking for a good time with no strings but no takers.
Am I defective? I used to think I was a great catch; but not any more.

RE: Is it worth trying to become a better person?

no doubt; we all have room for improvement and which seems to be one reason we are here.... no one is an island; even trying to be a recluse doesn't keep people from reaching out to be friends we all need someone we can lean on there is so much to learn in this life and life is so short so if we could all try the world would suffer less

RE: Please address me as......

Can Pawsy come out to play?

RE: Please address me as......

You are a mensch, Leo..an amazing human bean oops I mean being

RE: Please address me as......

I am stuck on Pawsey cause Paws knaws ideas; I like to use many terms of endearment for Leo; Paws; Pawsey; a Leo by any other name is just as sweet

RE: Make-up or al-naturale

I wear little to none ....make up that is....
"I wear my sunglasses to bed"

RE: What was your first paycheck-type job & how old were you?

I was 13 and worked for a family all summer in their summer camp taking care of two boys ages 5 and 8...then when I was sixteen i worked FT nights after school working as a nurses aide

RE: Day after Day.....

When I am in that space I ask myself' What would I tell a friend who was having one of those days?" and the answer is "be your own best friend...do for you what you need. We all have those days and we all need a 'crew' to lean on

RE: We must feed our egos.

hope you slept well Leo; how did your attempts at quitting smoking earlier this year go? Questions about intimacy are easier answered in privacy for me.

RE: Would you quit job, sell car, house, tv and move after someone if you had fallen in LOVE?

yes if it was mutual and my intuition said it is right

RE: I Really Like

Dear Des and company,
I'd really like a man who is honest, kind, sweet and enjoys good company and can just be himself with no lies, no drama, no emotional drains; just be good, upright and wants to enjoy the a simple pleasures in life...is that so much to ask, really, is it? I ask you; is it?

RE: WANTED

Hell, I'd settle for a wonderful evening out with all the trimmings...I must be setting my sights too low

RE: Think falling in love with someone is possible even though ya never met them...?

It's happened to me. But ended cause of restritive immigration laws. Ouch

RE: What up women

what up yosself? we ARE cool!

RE: lying about age

Several men I've become acquainted with here lied about their age and still have a lower age on their profiles. I say it's wrong to lie about anything...what's the point? If you get involved it may take you down in the eyes of a person who you want to admire you.

RE: 36 Rules of Life

You cheered me up gave me a few chuckles to laugh my worries away!

RE: how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?

Two thoughts:
Could it be that human beings aren't wired for "one marriage one time in a lifetime" and that we are really creatures of serial monogamy
OR
could it be that the "institution" of marriage is a flawed concept

How about trying just really loving another person? Marriage doesn't protect anyone; we can see that by all the hurt people; men, women and children. Perhaps it is made way too easy to say "I do"?

Just my 2 cents

RE: Things you hate

taken out of context...I hate what I wrote...all of it

RE: How useful is a woman that can't cook in a relationship?

Wait my eyes decieve me...does that read "PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITY" wow, you need to go back to school Oman; you have been institutionally culutrally societally brainwashed...is there a Dr. in the house?

RE: The Bar is Open............It Is Always Ladies night..........

I sure miss Luther...he was gifted
Thanks for playing the great tunes, Des, you are the DJ, bartender, MC and host extraordinaire

RE: The Bar is Open............It Is Always Ladies night..........

Hi Des and the wholefam damily, I just had a shot of ginger brandy which warmed my on this cold rainy night in NH. Shots all around for everyone. OOO that's nice and warm going down.