you ever hear "it's a womans prerogative to change her mind"?
Screw all that gender stuff, call your friend and tell him after sleeping on it you 've changed your mind... and then if he's a friend tell him you really wouild like a little more information on her.
changing ones mind (especially on issues such as this) is a sign of giving it serious thought same as re-evaluating ones first impressions of another.
theres just too many ways in todays Hi-tech world to get to know someone with having a visual first.
I'm all for freedom of speech and religion,,,unless you religion impedes on anothers right to their freedoms. Welcome to America where your freedom of religion and speech is only equal to another's.
Those that choose to act or behave differently should not have the right/opportunity to pursue happiness or obtain any dream this countries citizenry has or the opportunity to have
problem is, how does a country or its government/ people behave rationally to provide these privileges and rights to all.
I see no simple answer and to throw out a whole bushel of apples because of one rotten one, is not omnly costly but foolish.
Call her... you have no information no knowledge of her at all.
to dismiss the whole matter of meeting her especially when you really know nothing about her I think is being too hasty. who knows , she may be the type of woman that physical restrictions/characteristic are not as important as a mans hygiene, intellect, humor, morals and yes even attitude. I am a firm believer in the fact that not everyone places appearance as the most important trait when seeking friendship, compassion or even an intimate relationship.
As I told one woman last night during $1.00 beer night...
"Damn Girl, you are becoming increasingly attractive the longer we sit here. "., her response was "that's amazing! While sitting here next to you have become an increasingly bigger a**hole"...
point being sometimes, we all re-evaluate out first impressions.
if you want to catch a fish you have to put your line in the water....least ways that's what my uncle use to say.
If this is the case and their assumption is "dead wrong," they should ask themselves what kind a friend are they to you really.
I've always found generalization as compared to total honesty works when you are attracted to more than one. Some things one should just not reveal in the beginning stages of a possible budding relationship.
Try considering "being nice" like clothes, some stuff you wear you don't care where or what your doing, while those other clothes those you wear only on certain occasions.
most women like a man who can "clean-up well" but they also will acknowledge they appreciate a man who can get dirty and get things done without worrying about a sweating and getting a little dirt under the fingernails. all the while being comfortable in either state of dress.
As that line from a movie goes "Be nice... until its time not to be nice.", and that is an ability only by time and experience can be mastered.
just a thought but if one is a Christian in "good standing" would it be wrong to .... Church Hop ?
As you said you attend church regular and no one strikes your fancy. would it be wrong to go Church Hopping ion hopes of finding a Christian man? I have known people who do the "Church Hopping just for the music and choruses.
Well my response was not nearly as polite or well thought aswhat I've read today.
Suffice to say, my response was more along the lines of them trying to use a house of worship as a house of ill repute.... not exactly with those words. Sometimes my communication skills fail me.
first I'll share this, a couple of people have used this ploy to get me to attend church. I am not ready nor do I want marriage ...at this time anyway.
What I currently "think" I want is all the nuances of a relationship without the bindings of the religious description of a good relationship. That meaning being "marriage minded ".
would you ever suggest for someone to attend church to find a "good woman/man"?
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if you want to catch a fish you have to put your line in the water....least ways that's what my uncle use to say.
RE: I think the goverment should run the telephones and.....
It was bound to happenI posted before my first cup of coffee