Sometimes I think when I listen to how they describe what they had. what went wrong, and all those others details we as prospective partners have to hear, that they now in the deep recesses of thier mind realize it was their fault it did last. Call it hind sight regret whatever.
Another thought is when they simply say 5 years/2 years with them and it just didn't work out and thats all they'll say about it.
damn if it don't make me more curious of their past relationship.
so as a united nation it has been proven by one governors act that solidarity even betweenstates is a fallacy.... how long will this act be remembered????
lets never forget just as the unions CEO's brought security and medical coverage to the masses it will also take away...
Some find it difficult to begin a relationship and others find it hard to end one....no matter how brief or long they last.
some just kind words are enough to lit the pyres of hope and others maintain a safety barrier. some think one chararater trait is enough to build a relationship others it is enough to end one.
keep trying,the habit you are wearing could even be misconstrued as to the meaning behind yo wearing it.
find solace in the fact that he just did not vanished despite how he said it was over... he did at least attempt to say something directly to you.
A Japanese doctor says, "Medicine in my country is so advanced that we can take a kidney out of one man, put it in another, and have him out looking for work in six weeks." A German doctor says, "That is nothing. We can take a lung out of one person, put it in another, and have him out looking for work in four weeks." A British doctor says, "In my country medicine is so advanced that we can take half a heart out of one person, put it in another, and have both of them out looking for work in two weeks." The Canadian doctor, not to be outdone, interjected, "You guys are way behind. We took a woman with no brains, sent her to Michigan where she became Governor, and now half the state is out looking for work.
I say to those who dislike how some reach out don't go there period. It is not like we are forced to open the thread and take a look see. Contrary to some statements some do in fact leave for months at a time.
I have similar opinions about those that repeatedly say they are worthless and give up on finding another here... then BAM 11 pages in less than 2 hours of those saying "Awww" sending hugs and flowers "be pateint" "you're a good person,"
Cries for recognition come in all kinds of packages from those after 2 weeks of chatting their hearts are broken, to those who say good bye.to even those who continually trash the opposite gender.
Its hard in the real world being ignored because you are being true to yourself and being real not some fake persona.
I guess its even harder when your posts and threads go unresponded/ unacknowledged to.
Yeah I see many cry out for acknowledgment in fact some make a weekly event of it thewn the next day they are doling out advice like they have all the answers....
Ahh the playground and role playing on the internet
I've communicated, chatted, and exchanged thoughts and opinions... however I have not met one person from this site.
as to what i think about dating sites. .Its a resource a different avenue in which to search.
Still old school here If i cannot be in close proximity frequently its still a valuable source of information and knowledge of others who are seeking too.
nothing wrong with voicing a collective opinion... what is wrong is when the collective opinion is not of the majority of citizens yet they get a louder voice and more recognition....
"All you have to do is open your eyes,..they have been around as long as religion has."
those who profit from religion can only succeed by maintaining anonmity. Sure media and officials claim this religion difference and that rel;igion dispute are behind acts of violence... I do not believe that pretense anymore. pat attention to the investors of the world those who use our money to make themselves money then pay us a "dividend". the facts are there if one chooses to question what they are being told to believe. good and bad exist greed and compassion too understanding and hatred are in abundance... too me it appears the bad greed and hatred are about to get thier 15 minutes of fame. it will return to the others and that will bring about more profit for those who operate merely on the bottom lineand profit margin mentality.
yes there are powers at work that prosper by choas and war and hatred and surprisingly enough all countries borders are open to them to come and go as they please.
Religious differences have been thrust into all our minds for so long thats the first and most acceptable reason to raise a flag to rally round.
Sadly I know of no religion that encourages its followers to go and randomly kill and/or destroy whole societies and innocents.
Yet how often in the annuals of history has that very reason been used.
Killing is so much a part of all religions yet all scriptures denounce this very act.
it is not love of ones God or diety that brings this plague of death and hatred its nothing but business transactions and acquistions. the bottom line is profits everything else is smoke and mirrors. and as per any business the working man is not made privy to the corpoarte decisions. Most just do as their told.
the divide will always exists and it grows wider forget the "I'm of this religion and this belief and they are of another crap"
look at it as those who profit from it "the haves and haves not" and how those roles through history change ... every change brings profit to those who have always profited form hatred, greed jealousy.
thats my opinion of most religious wars and conflicts where many innocents die needlessly.
When you choose to hire for less wages you will always bring those "out of towners" in... then they will not want to leave your land of prosperity.( cant really blame them can ya?).
If history serves me correct theres a few countries in the past 50 years that did exactly that.. allowed immigrants /migrant workers in, then before they realized what happened the make up a substanial amount of that very countries citizenry.
that brings change, drastically new languages on store signs, restaurants gathering places lifestyles overtake the streets....
So to those protesting, either you, your parents, or grandparents opened the door for them...
Cheap labor...getting something for nothing does not exist eventually a price will be paid usually its gonna be higher than one could ever imagine.
Most inhabitants do not really care about another's beliefs... when those that have a certain belief start taking away from them however its on and religious and ethnic reasons will always be used.
I can only hope everyones right to their opinions and publicly speaking their minds will not be crushed or denied.
Contrary to all the political international fairy tale rhetoric, as inhabitants ( this word includes us all everyone) go we do not need to like everyone else.
In fact in some cases it is causing more problems than solving. ( no proof of this just an opinion.
I did not read thru the 7 pages of previous posts but I think I'm in agreement with some so heres my opinion.
I wonder how many lobbyists it took for the government to approve the status "disease" to be placed on being a drunk?
I'm not sure of the revenue that is gained by countries and states from the sell of the stuff.
I know its a lucrative medical field in regards to "treating" them.
And the kick is so many have bought into the concept that it is not curable.... I think many know many people who drink or consume regularly, that have done so for years and years and quite frankly are still seen /considered and admired by both family, superiors, and neighbors as good citizens, fathers, husbands, friends and workers
theres been in my opinion a influx of "trained " folks that promote the spirit and strength of a human is all but gone. those who promote the of people
Instilling the idea that alone we can never overcome from bad habits. all types and nature of bad habits are becoming accepted as Its not the individuals fault and it can not be remedied on their own.
how sad is it when highly educated people fight to eliminate the "CAN DO" mentality that use to run through us humans...
well either way I've a breakfast date with one one who has done this very thing... hopefully coffee and honest communication will give me some sort of peace of mind...
its not i doubrbt that they belive in love..its more od a intelligence thing
being able to learn from one mistakes... being the primary concern for me.
not too mention the other possiblereason one would willing commit so mant times to marriage...once twice, threee times but come on folks where is the line to be drawn...that these folks are not marrying for love?
A/ meeting ,gathering , party of other single internet users in your area would you want to know?
Most are serious about meeting someone ( OK I'm exaggerating )Should social public gatherings of singles be shared amongst all "dating sites"?