I must admit i like having conflicting opinions about my character I like not having everyone appreiciate or "get me". it stands to what I've been doing since i joined the Forums. I'm not here to be well liked by all on the contrary, I am hoping Arlene is not alone in her thoughts/opinions about me.
I'm real my opinions and thoughts and ideas have never on the streets been liked by all who heard/hear them and if thats the same effect my typed words have here...
True love is more complex than a rubiks cube. some need to be needed some want to be needed some want total dependence some expect other to sacrifice some need to be wanted some want their needs to be met.
all acceptable paterns for true love to flourish and grow.
yet its when 2 are of conflicting ideas its hard to change them and even harder sometimes to become what they need or want. have heard many here and on the streets say they would not change after they found a good woman or good man...Change is constant and as the old saying goes when the changes begin, " the Honeymoon is over."
I loathe those types that begin to deteriorate from being a admirable partner to a ball and chain because their needs become so demanding and time consuming.
You hope, you fight to maintain faith that its just a phase a a progression period to a improved relationship....only to watch as they dwindle away to a basket case. Them thinking that forfeiting their life and hobbies and past times is the most admirable sacrifice/gift they have to offer.
It's pitiful,what attracted you to them they discard so readily.
yeah I seen it and everytime I do it makes me shudder
if I start thinking about them, I'll drop a line, just as they do,
A couple of months of no contact, depending on the season and work schedule its not a big deal but when thoughts of them enter our heads we should call them
Same goes for family members who no longer live close by.
maybe taking it a step further by limiting who can view us say by age, physique, income,and or location bracket...allowing us to decide who can randomly view us.
the "free dating websites" are a growing field and to compete I'm guessing only more additions are to come alliances perhaps between other "free" venues...
Ahh the mind boggles with the possibilities of what iother sdditions are still yet to come from "Free websites" the Good and the Bad.
Dear Mods, If these new options is what is necessary for you to continue allowing us to have free exchange of IM's, e-mails, forums, chatroom, polls and free contact with one another. I'll deal with it eventually, but I am not quite ready to be a avid supporter to these new additions.
this could eliminate the need to squint to see someones pictures instead of 1x2 or 3x4 shots some can fill the screen with their image. whose gonna be first?
Ever since that woman killed someone and used the PMS defense it has to be considered.
paint it anyway you want. times of crisis are not placed on a calender they just happen.
Most will acknowledge that not all women handle the menstrual event with a calm demeanor. Unlike being short with family and friends, the wrong word or expression at the wrong time can escalate even destroy foreign relations.
Our current President is a prime example of failing to engage brain B4 speaking. his remarks and comments have been fodder for all comedians world wide.
Idiot you say ? Fine I been called worse and let the maelstrom begin.
but there is a time restriction I gotta go to work soon
RE: Needy People
Agreed