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RE: Where do you stand?

this thought probably best describes why there are more divorce lawyers world wide than marriage counselors ...

again a sad commentary of the human condition

RE: Where do you stand?

in response to this

"In what ways do you try to show your heart to a woman?
How do you reassure her & reaffirm her value in your life?
When is it too much?"

the sum of anyones heart is many parts, compassion, determination, sincerity, courage,passion, romance, truthfulness,and let's not forget endurance. read that somewhereconversing

to display such a vast amount of attributes takes time I personally try to show my compassionate and understanding nature while being romantic.
sometimes unbeknown to myself my other attributes of my heart are being seen.

I believe everyone requires to be wanted and needed in some shape or form. some its as simple as needing to be desired in a phyiscal sense others its more being acknowledge of their intellect and opinions and being appreciated for what they themselves have accomplished on their own.

the formula for love is not a exact science infact its everything but.
Istill hold to the thought that just by our senses alone we can detect a possible strong connection or attraction from a luagh, smile appearance what it is they are saying even how its said.

in all seriousness I read this question late last night it provoked me to honestly evaluate how I actually rrespond in life to this question.

as always my answer is longer than most care to see but somethings ask should never be one or two sentence answers.

if therre gets to a point it does become too much... that "formula" of love is not right for you.

Thanks Spicey for the bedtime thought.handshake happy new year to ya.

RE: Testimonials on Profiles...Good or Bad?

will do testimonials for CS dollars.
Well thought out and written with a hint of realism , a typo or two for character belief.

Multiple typing / wording options available. innocent devil smitten

RE: Testimonials on Profiles...Good or Bad?

A good testimonial should include both the positive as well as a reason as to the "why" it did not or would not have worked out.

A "bad" testimonial woiuld be one that certain parties get together and glorify each other much in the way of a public relations department does.


I find it hard to accept after only meeting once or twice someone could give a "honest testimonial... thats my thoughts.

RE: why do people judge?

conclusions made about people are not always negative....

cannot count the times I judge someone to be a good and was disappointed...then I start judging myself as "I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed"rolling on the floor laughing

we all sometimes judge ourselves, some too harshly, some not honestly enough.

I agree I cannot go an hour without coming to some conclusion about someone or something.

Wait a minute that makes me ........OPINIONATEDrolling on the floor laughing blushing grin

milk for free/ sausage for free

slight problem folks, here i sit having a good conversation. It's progressing well, then a friend opens their mouth and their one sentence destroys all hope.... how would you react?

how much does "first impression" matter to you???


as grandma taught us anyone who willing "puts out " on first date is unworthy?





do ya belive that?

Wow when you and I agree lot or are so similair In thought...

Wow when you and I agree lot or are so similair In thought

RE: What are you looking for from this site?

1st and 10
3 and 1 pitch
eliminate the obvious
both to strive for the ability to communicate.
the desire and belief that they are entitled to know and enjoy a happy and fruitful life with another.



it has been my grievous disappointment to fail to find a person that meets these rudimentary qualifications..

CS affords us all the opportunity to "read" what one thinks / fees about an array of pertinent issues.

the realistic possibility of meeting them without the sacrifice of my "only" 2 week vacation per year....
In all honesty the first lady from CS that displayed a genuine interest to knowing the "real" me I would encourage them to meet those that I see me me on a weekly basis(work and pleasure), or even those local watering holes I frequent.

thank God its the end of the year because i've been refused at least 30 times to the times they said "yes".

All that said..."misrepresentation" has been the domino
that caused the fall or end of what could have or never be....
Which brings this question to mind....

Is not the perception of others they have on you the deciding factor as to whether the relationship progresses?

everyone has preconceived notions.

RE: There is a purdy lady just starting on CS and we are acting.......

butter melting in mouth...barf


rolling on the floor laughing

RE: HELLO YOU KNOW ME... JUST PUTTING IN MY NEW NAME

this photo made me think this is what Gollum probably would look like if dressed...in the movie the Hobbit rolling on the floor laughing grin





















just playing round Poppawink

RE: Funniest thing...

you mean besides waking up next to a woman on a sofa and both of us thinking it was the others house... . still don't know whos house it was we got up had coffee and split. Damn I miss my youthful adventuresmoping

RE: ATTENTION !!! vote please!!

I started a poll (just a poll ) and only received 24 votes so I do not think that more folks are only voting ..I think its the current substance that is being offered up for comment.

I've seen threads that where basically nothing more than a simple conversation between 2 people not one post of theres was related to thread topic but hey I'm one who gives smartass remarks and differing veiws so read it or scroll right thru it ...
yeah pretty wild ....the new toy is getting more attention than the old toy sounds like that Disney movie TOY STORY

RE: ATTENTION !!! vote please!!

lets see....
would you threads
above you threads
word association threads

yep place these in that same category. then you are actually changing the dynamics of the forums. I've seen more than 75% of the page filled with the above tripe yet less than 48 hours of something new and already there are those that have come to a conclusion this new idea needs to be changed...... sad commentary for those who profess daily to have an open mind. sad indeed.

RE: Why Is It When A Guy Likes You....

Wow at your age you ask these questions?

"you only had 1 date with him, but you don't see him again for a month or so??? Doesn't this waste your time??"

One date and you expect to be placed back in the line and upfront ?

whats the longest you waited in line to get tickets to a good concert or show?

you can always go stand in a shorter line with less of a wait guaranteed to ya.....but the thing is, you probably wouldn't enjoy what that line is offering anywayinnocent

RE: im in like with

"welcome to the self love room


that sounded wroooong"

Only if you are typing with one handinnocent rolling on the floor laughing

RE: How much does it cost you ?

just my stuff for lunches is 25 a week.

the rest depends on type of seafood or fish and if its pork, beef or poultry.

conservatively 50 to 75 dollars a week for groceries

RE: Chat

I"m in there daily

RE: im in love

CONGRATULATIONS

I sincerely hope it is a mutual thing

RE: The Moderators

damn its snow ball season

post picture of their vehicles christmas happy

RE: Need Some Ideas

chili , wings , shrimp, dessert stuff always goes over good, jello shots but forget the individual containers just take in a big bowl, meat and cheese tray

RE: Snow storm Questions...

latest guesstimation for detroit area is 10 in. when its all over

.snowman

RE: Guys...how do you like 'em on your women?

if a woman is non responsive or catatonic none of those choices really matter.

RE: What do you think of the new Polls feature?

3 hours of playing on it so far


I like the

breakdown category

single vote

multiple choices allowed to offer for responses

and
the section for additional comments.

thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

thanks for the Christmas gift CS

it will definitely give me hours of enjoyment.

the Poll breakdown.

it is an awesome feature... it reveals some real insight as to age and gender of those who casted votes, without the loss of anonymity.

nice feature conversing

RE: The number one aspect you look for in a partner

Ewwwbarf

voted then read comments Yuck I'm like everyone else.

Ruin , despair the agony of this realizationlaugh

RE: What do you think of the new Polls feature?

tru dat m8thumbs up




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Worst Pickup Line Ever?

My sympathies to you Domi,

if this is an example/ sample of the types of pick-up conversations you have to deal with... My sincerest sympathies

RE: Worst Pickup Line Ever?

Only heard a couple of those used between those already in a relationship.

I never used any of those lines on "fresh meat":: conversing

RE: Girls whos after a nice date with me

Best of luck to you thumbs up

RE: What do you think of the new Polls feature?

I also think it will help long winded posters like me ...
Click a choice and move on

It will assist with those that really want a overall general opinion on a topic even if the comment section gets hijacked from relationships to the sticky stuff snails leave in their path.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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