Even this should require us to use more than just one or two of our senses to determine if they are deceiving themselves or they have high hopes, or if they truly are all about just deceiving others.
I always find it interesting when one labels another a "liar". Especially when one says or presents or describes themselves then another saying they lied about it... how someone sees their own reality or what they think of themselves is an opinion, a personal assessment of who and what they are.
Because someone sees or has a different standard from you as to what "few extra pounds","open minded", "active" mean. These claims do not/should not be a basis for calling someone a liar.
just a morning thought, I sometimes think those of us that are alone are more emotionally stable than those who are "always getting in" new intimate relationships.
I think some are so unstable emotionally they need to have someone close even if it requires that they themselves misrepresent themselves in order to "be in" a relationship.
The simple truth is this what ever religious belief they have or are claiming to have is a falsehood from both sides, never in my short time on earth have i encountered or heard of a religious belief or people that believe their religion mandates the random killing or taking of a life...
lets Kill them all and let their prospective Gods sort them out, the good and evil, the sinners and the righteous... afterall most hold to the belief their true rewards are in heaven>>> lets send both sides without placing judgement to their rewards. Lets do it immediately before some of the evildoers or sinners form either side repent.
it is always worth improving ones self... its the standards by which you choose the improvement that can be worthless. Improving by someones else's standard/expectations will awlays be the slipperiest slope.
My thoughts on marriage and divorce in America, (anywhere for that matter) the legal rules of marriage need to be changed/updated.
I recall hearing stories from my aunts, uncles, neighbors, co-workers of greater age. Even my own folks thatin their day and age rarely marry another too far out of their own financial class. records and history do prove that less divorces occurred back in those days.
The cost of divorce... if you developed a cancer or a tumor that was eminently life threatening, what cost would you choose "not" to pay to relieve yourself of it?
How much time would you spend pondering/thinking on the previous question before you answer?
It has been said that a bad marriage can shorten even bring about ones own demise (literally), a bad marriage that is tolerated too long can indeed kill you both physically and mentally.
Is it Fair? NO, and never will be.
I been married once, it was devastatingly costly to me... both financially and mentally.
I sometimes think it is easier for the destitutely poor and the abundantly wealthy to chance remarrying again and again.
this is one instance where i believe our government should mandate garnishment...after the second offence of non payment, and with the provision that it be based solely on a percentage rate of that parents net income.
I know of many who think because they went and wowed their kids to a ball game that that said expense should be deducted from their agreed upon payment based on the argument that "she only waste that money on herself anyway!" or the reasoning that "the kid did not need those expensive shoes or field trip with class"
Its sad that in our society we neeed law enforcement for a parent to do the right thing by their children.
with determination and conviction of mind and soul. I will restrain from my usual Anti, negative, and cynical responses...
not as a News Years resolution... but as a labor of humanity... no, more of a heartfelt mission to help add a little joy, humor, and holiday cheer to the season and holiday that is upon us all.
at least until the 26th of this month.
come on, realistic goals going to the 26th will be arduous task in itself.
to answer honestly and fairly... its those damn aliens, always wanting to change things and take advantage of things our country has to offer... regardless of your country I believe its safe to say those aliens are responsible.
"Scotty? Scotty, This is Spock beam me up!" and have McCoy get the anti-Moron antidote ready!" "I've been infected"
I think where the biggest problem is, there is not enough diversity in our representatives in D.C. most are lawyers or wealthy ( old money) types. Whatever happened to being represented by those that actually have walked/lived the life of the average common citizen?
In the beginning sure Love is enough we still have hope that the love alone of another and the love we have for the other will conquer and see us through.
In the end, the very latter years its the love that has be seasoned with trial and tribulations that only a long relationship can ever endure or encounter, only then is love truly enough.
but the middle of a relationship thats where Love can only heighten and bring more enjoyment out of accomplishments both done individually and as a partnership
so I believe there will always be more middle than a beginning or end Love Alone is not enough.
How great is it that an actor/politician can after an election speak so loudly about an issue, when he was a candidate he said close to noting about the nations debt. a man on a soapbox uttering commonsense... and doing so with an air of arrogance.
What can I say bout time someone in D.C. agreed with me.
I'm still of the conspiracy mind of thought... some group or organization of institution has to have been aware of this arrival of world wide economic devastation that has occurred.
These are the culprits that should be hunted down and forced to pay retribution for their greed and glutton like behavior, sure all these intellectual types can throw smoke and mirrors at the public at large, someone or body is responsible.
this is just to unbelievable/unacceptable that NO ONE had a clue of how bad or wide spread this economic crisis would/could be.
A new laptop computer with Wi-Fi... Sadly since I'll have to purchase it myself I will not be getting it. Reason being, I have not been a good boy this year....but that's for another thread
RE: What Should Be Done to Liars on CS
Even this should require us to use more than just one or two of our senses to determine if they are deceiving themselves or they have high hopes, or if they truly are all about just deceiving others.