I have a very recent story in my life that has restored my faith in humankind. I will try to be brief. Last week a less than human woman falsely claimed I beat her up. I was warned by friends that she has done this before so she can steal what i own. All i know is i am cuffed and booked in rancho Cucamonga for felony assault with 100k bail. I spoke with sheriffs about this woman and her M O and that i have never done a violent thing in my life. Well something rang true cuz over night chargers were dropped to a 24 hour detention no court to go to case closed. This is where my angel came into play. I was released at 930pm no fone no money nothing but the tee shirt and shorts and sandals i wore and i live in 29 palms. It took an hour or more to find the 10 fwy and i stuck my thumb out for over an hour no one would even slow down so i started walking down the 10 fwy i walked all night untill i could not go further a slepted on the sidewalk for 2 or 3 hours tried hitching a ride again but no good so started walking down the 10fwy again i walked from rancho Cucamonga to rialto and my chest was hurting i was stressout not knowing how i would get home and if my belongings would still be there. Then a car pulled over a lone latino gal at the wheel stopped to give me a ride . she bought me breakfast and drove me 2 hours each way out of her way to get me home and would not take a red cent for her trouble. This angel of a woman did far more than restore my faith in humankind she literally saved my life cuz just and hour after she brought me home my friend had to take me to the hospital where i had a heart attack. How do you thank a person enough that saved your life? The way people are they would see me laying on the side of the road and not give a damn but this one gal saw i needed help and provided the help that saved me. I am forever in her debt and glad to be. Dale Wetzler
learn from other's mistakes for no one lives long enough to make all the mistakes themselves-Chinese proverb another is.. Children in this country go into school a question mark and come out a period.-unknown explained that children are taught to find the first correct answer and stop. whereas there maybe more than one correct answer and to search for the best correct answer
i don't believe it is a matter of finding the person that is both loved and loves you back. It is a matter of finding a person that makes a choice and sticks to it, normally everything else will fall into place,Dale
Hi, You sound like your selection of men is dewindling. That is right statisticly. Out of all people in the U.S. 60% of them die before the age of 65. This is all deaths from all causes. Of those deaths the majority are men do to men are more likely to take chances thrill seeking, like drag racing a buddy down a side street. so as you get older you have a smaller selection of men, men become "in demand" and try to make up for????? Experimentation they never could do before etc. As far as the games, there are those that are malious and those that have been emotionally scared so badly they protect themselves with what seems to be a game but is an automatic defence against being hurt again. Dale
this is something I wrote a while back it is not directed at anyone I know all to well how some people will dump on an innocent person to feel better about themselves. For they were dumped on and feel that gives them the right to dump and hurt others.. This feeling of wellness is short lived and like a junkie they have to do it again and again. What I can not understand is how a person can feel good about causing another pain. And in the first place a person that has done NOTHING to them. These people do not realize they are hurting themselves, in the long term, far more than anyone else. The missed chances at having a good life, one that is rewarding and fulfilling are lost. Egos, paranoia , the idea that “you better stick it to him/her before she/he sticks it to you” I find to be a sad reality when you think of the accomplishments that could have been made with 2 people and 1 positive attitude. All anyone needs to do is let it go, and see the next possible mate with fresh unjaded/unbias eyes.
I agree with Buffy78, I am tired of the lonliness of being a single man. Buffy, at least you have your kids. Do not underestimate their value and hold them dear. I say that because I do not have family of any kind. So when I am alone I realy am. Mates will come and go but your kids are forever but, they cannot substitute for a man in your life. So does anyone get to have their cake and eat it too? Forever we shall want what we do not have but, can we be happy/satisfied with what we do have? Walls
I would not trade a thing. If I did I would no longer be me. I love myself and work at being a better person everyday. Physical aspects are secondary in the long run to happiness. WALLS
to me alone time says it is not working out as things are. the person needing the alone time might be trying to sort out feelings for 2 people. most are going to go with the person they know more of, less risk, Walls
I consider myself to be "a nice guy" and I will say so to someone I just met. I do have consideration for others whether I know them or not. If someone were to take advantage of my good nature I would act in kind two fold. There are plenty of "not so honest" people out there on the web, men and women alike. They might have their own plans or remain open for something better to come along. People tend to forget that the "grass will forever be greener on the other side of the fence". Meaning , be happy with what you have and/or be happy for those who have found their match and don't meddle with them. My advise to cutensassy, take a long look at yourself, walk a mile in the other person's shoes, try to be objective and that is hard to do for anyone. Walls
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and a great big hug from me to you. Feel better Darl'in
RE: START YOUR DAY WITH A SMILE
I have a very recent story in my life that has restored my faith in humankind. I will try to be brief.Last week a less than human woman falsely claimed I beat her up. I was warned by friends that she has done this before so she can steal what i own. All i know is i am cuffed and booked in rancho Cucamonga for felony assault with 100k bail. I spoke with sheriffs about this woman and her M O and that i have never done a violent thing in my life. Well something rang true cuz over night chargers were dropped to a 24 hour detention no court to go to case closed.
This is where my angel came into play.
I was released at 930pm no fone no money nothing but the tee shirt and shorts and sandals i wore and i live in 29 palms. It took an hour or more to find the 10 fwy and i stuck my thumb out for over an hour no one would even slow down so i started walking down the 10 fwy i walked all night untill i could not go further a slepted on the sidewalk for 2 or 3 hours tried hitching a ride again but no good so started walking down the 10fwy again i walked from rancho Cucamonga to rialto and my chest was hurting i was stressout not knowing how i would get home and if my belongings would still be there.
Then a car pulled over a lone latino gal at the wheel stopped to give me a ride . she bought me breakfast and drove me 2 hours each way out of her way to get me home and would not take a red cent for her trouble.
This angel of a woman did far more than restore my faith in humankind she literally saved my life cuz just and hour after she brought me home my friend had to take me to the hospital where i had a heart attack.
How do you thank a person enough that saved your life? The way people are they would see me laying on the side of the road and not give a damn but this one gal saw i needed help and provided the help that saved me.
I am forever in her debt and glad to be.
Dale Wetzler