Before your thread gets hijacked, I believe as long as the break up is an agreement between the two and emotions gone, you can leave with a generous heart. If left shattered, there is some labour in front of you, first of all reaching neutrality, ability to recall painlessly....once there the true concern has vanished, wheather you wish happiness or not, Is just part of your personality.
I should think NOT!! I am not arguing with you, I think the suject is interesting, although I look at it more like a human "thing" than a strict female behaviour.
Well, I guess reaching the mid 40's may be a critical situation for both women AND men. I can tell you are interested and researching the female evolution and there is nothing wrong to do so.
I am just cirious about the male side on this other dating site you are on. Is there any man stating, one of the 6 things he can not live without is a woman's love, a woman's affection, a women's anything?????
Well, I guess reaching the mid 40's may be a critical situation for both women AND men. I can tell you are interested and researching the female evolution and there is nothing wrong to do so.
I am just cirious about the male side on this other dating site you are on. Is there any man stating, one of the 6 things he can not live without is a woman's love, a woman's affection, a women's anything?????
Well, I guess reaching the mid 40's may be a critical situation for both women AND men. I can tell you are interested and researching the female evolution and there is nothing wrong to do so.
I am just cirious about the male side on this other dating site you are on. Is there any man stating, one of the 6 things he can not live without is a woman's love, a woman's affection, a women's anything?????
I think you are absolutely right, however I do not think it is a gender related issue, but more or less has become a human race condition.
Pardon me, but it seems the further out in space we reach, The more technical skill we achieve, our human senses wither, we lose true and valid values in favor for the rattle of hard and cold currency.
It is sad so few take part of this thread, as it is an electric one, at least for many women.
I know for sure I am not the only female saying I would never date someone who on purpose and for food are able to go out with a rifle or gun to shoot an animal.
Have to say, I do not enjoy much when a thread is being hijacked. You see a forum thread that looks interesting, you know before going there the subject is long gone.
I happen to agree with much that softslowhonest is saying, then again, what matters what I have to say, I am not inside the hijacking circle of people, which means I can take a ride.
This site could be objective, fun and even educating. Now it is subjective, fun only for a few who seems to be ruling, educating.....Naaaah, hardly
No, I would not tell her tonight! To me that would be a wrong thing to do. I would enjoy this evening, letting her leave you tonight (or not leave you until the morning lol) with the experience of you, and not you with an illness. If I was the woman and you have told me, I really would be kind of buffled why you told me that at the first date.
Wait till the second time you meet. To me as a woman that would feel most fair.
A real man is the same thing as a real woman....ja, ja, I was going to say it....apart from the physical design.
All men are real unless they are statues, as well as all women are real.
Now, what makes a person a real person? We are sinking down to basic here. The older you get, male or female, the knowledge of what makes fem/male real shrink....due to a lifelong expeience from partners with different expectations on a man/woman.
Dizzy....yes....be yourself....free in/out of relationship. Do not try to live up to someone's expectations.....you end up losing yourself....saying, I do anything just do not leave me. That is when you start getting NOT real.
He he....I managed to be serious....wonde if I am for real!!!!
What a Thursday night.......do you remember conway's "I'll be over you, when the grass grows over me", I wish listening and remembering not only brought tears to the eyes, but also brouht all the years between away. Would be nice being in that period of time.
Ohhh gosh, George Jones and Tammy Wynette and the song "one", had it on an LP. Filled with tears and scratches I finally had to through it among the garbage.
Thank you marss for a moment of sinking into the wonderful past.
Oh Odette how I envy you, I read it first time a year ago, now I have been through all of this authors work. If you have not read "women in Love" start right after Sons and Lovers.
I never stop feeling amazed by the way Lawrence so deeply cover the female mind and soul.
Hi fieldworking, I have been reading what has been said on this thread, and it is stunning, how hooked we seem to be in external appearance. "Attractive".....where on earth is the template, from out of which pattern have you reached the conclusion that you are a "6"?
Oh I know! From clever media individuals, who manage to get the mass to believe what they are daying are true. Supported by other big EGO's like in this case....Miss Universe competitions, movies, commercials (look at the side of your screen!!!!) etc. Gosh we are so easy to fool.
Thinking a few hundred years ago, an "attractive" woman or man looked nothing like today's ideal!! A man those days was turned on by a "heavier" woman......a sign of wealth and strength those days, the extra pound in weight on the woman insured him she would be strong.....probably enough to both work hard, yet at the same time carry his child.
Average????? there is not such thing.....we all adore different flowers, animals etc......so forget average and smile....
RE: Do you want your ex to be happy ...
Before your thread gets hijacked, I believe as long as the break up is an agreement between the two and emotions gone, you can leave with a generous heart. If left shattered, there is some labour in front of you, first of all reaching neutrality, ability to recall painlessly....once there the true concern has vanished, wheather you wish happiness or not, Is just part of your personality.