RE: Do you want your ex to be happy ...

Before your thread gets hijacked, I believe as long as the break up is an agreement between the two and emotions gone, you can leave with a generous heart. If left shattered, there is some labour in front of you, first of all reaching neutrality, ability to recall painlessly....once there the true concern has vanished, wheather you wish happiness or not, Is just part of your personality. handshake

RE: Sweden, Holland, UK and even other Eur countries accept child marriges

What I read is that the couple were already married arriving Sweden. what in the world could Gothenburg do about that, but hoping the poor girl with some luck could get out of the situation swiftly!!!

Try to marry a 14 year old here, my gosh will you run into resistance of a world war army.

RE: Sweden, Holland, UK and even other Eur countries accept child marriges

NO, we do not.

What happens between closed doors among immigrants,that is something to ponder about.....but a child marriage....??? come on Adalstef, you are writing from not further away than Iceland, you know better, or are you just having a fun time, scrolling to see how ignorant people can look!!!

RE: Swedish feminists: “Please don’t protect us if we get raped by immigrants”

oboy, I am swedish!!!!! Ugh!!!!

Sweden has immigrants, coming in hundreds a day, just like it is with many other countries.

Some of them get to become a swedish citizen right on the spot, depending on from what country the origin. For now it is Syrien.

I smile lightly reading the post, because the truth may be, that it is just like that.........new coming swedes........that does not want to be raped by swedish men!!!!!! But welcome others!!!!

I like people who thinks, value the coin from both sides. Believe me, there are no troe SWEDISH feminists who would fraze such a statement like presented, true feminists are not that crazy about men after all, no matter the nationality.

RE: bad news

I should think NOT!! I am not arguing with you, I think the suject is interesting, although I look at it more like a human "thing" than a strict female behaviour.

RE: bad news

Well, I guess reaching the mid 40's may be a critical situation for both women AND men. I can tell you are interested and researching the female evolution and there is nothing wrong to do so.

I am just cirious about the male side on this other dating site you are on. Is there any man stating, one of the 6 things he can not live without is a woman's love, a woman's affection, a women's anything?????

RE: bad news

Well, I guess reaching the mid 40's may be a critical situation for both women AND men. I can tell you are interested and researching the female evolution and there is nothing wrong to do so.

I am just cirious about the male side on this other dating site you are on. Is there any man stating, one of the 6 things he can not live without is a woman's love, a woman's affection, a women's anything?????

RE: bad news

Well, I guess reaching the mid 40's may be a critical situation for both women AND men. I can tell you are interested and researching the female evolution and there is nothing wrong to do so.

I am just cirious about the male side on this other dating site you are on. Is there any man stating, one of the 6 things he can not live without is a woman's love, a woman's affection, a women's anything?????

RE: bad news

I think you are absolutely right, however I do not think it is a gender related issue, but more or less has become a human race condition.

Pardon me, but it seems the further out in space we reach, The more technical skill we achieve, our human senses wither, we lose true and valid values in favor for the rattle of hard and cold currency.

Sad thing!!!!!

RE: A WORTHY PRAYER TO MAKE YOU SMILE.

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That is one smooth way to clean up a country!!!!! I'd say a clever woman that one.

RE: IS THERE ANY REAL GIRL WHO CAN ABLE TO LOVE ME TILL MY DEATH AS MY WIFE?

I am sorry people do not have more respect for one another, it is painfully pathetic to read most of the replies you have recieved.

I can see your point in stating you are not a financially rich person, in this world there certainly are a whole bunch of gold diggers.

I hope you will find a nice woman that deserves you, may not be here on this site, but you seem decent and sensible...you will find her somewhere.

One advice, read your replies selectively.

Good luck!

RE: Taxing The Rich World....To "Help" The Poor One.....

But you´re missing the whole point!

Why should I,or anyone else pay for someone else?

I have no obligations,whatsoever,-no matter what anyone says.

I´m not a philantrop,-no way,-and I don´t wanna get it "worse",so someone else gets it better...[/quote

I forgive you Atwoz for stating the above words....only and only if you are very very young and unexperienced.

RE: Are there any HONEST guys left in this world?

You have so much positive going for you, you are young, sweet, wise, honest, brave and your hair is gorgious! Just to mention some.

The best of men, the most truthful of men actually do appreciate those characteristics, well aware "exterior" can change in one single moment or/and by age.

Much does depend on yourself though, your own values. If to pick a pup. Do you choose the cutest one, or the one with a great personality, or look for the one with the whole package?

RE: Huntin 2011

Makes at least two of us. Thank you for joining me.

RE: Huntin 2011

It is sad so few take part of this thread, as it is an electric one, at least for many women.

I know for sure I am not the only female saying I would never date someone who on purpose and for food are able to go out with a rifle or gun to shoot an animal.

Really, a subject to add to the profile text.

RE: Huntin 2011

Never understood this, never will I think,

unless you are willing to explain the excitement of killing an animal. What is the true pay off? Apart from the meat and perhaps the fur?

I am eager to know.

RE: What can't guys just be honest.....

First of all I think men are smarter than that. He probably know by being all that honest, he is the one with a ticket to a ride.

My opinion is to wait with sex, until knowing there are much more built into the interest other than sex.

RE: Lazy Mans Way To Attract Beautiful Women

What you all seem to forget guys in saying attracting women and "secrets" attached is that......

We know all about the "secrets", I dare to say we can sniff secrets from a distance. It is but that sometimes the guy with the secret seems to be sweet and entertaining fumbling in his game roll, he definately has something I want for the time being, so why not??

To tell you the truth, reading the posts here is amusing, it does not say much relevant to the thread, rather much more about what you males think about females and most often sooooo wrongly.

Men, please talk to us, be yourself and honest, we actually may turn showing you all who WE really are, secrets belong to the youth.

RE: NEWS JUST IN...uk forces cancer patients to work.....prostitution ?

Jac, I do remember what I said back then......although I am not capable of drawing a line to tie it with what I am saying above, having it make any sense.

Either I am lost in translation here, or I am just being a dumb blonde swede! Or I confused or you confused at the moment.

Ja, we all do have many faces, right now mine is fairly long, like in .....what the h&&k.

RE: NEWS JUST IN...uk forces cancer patients to work.....prostitution ?

It is not only about the UK Government.

This is going on in more than one country. Even in Sweden where I am from.

The BIG BOYS are smart. You react upon the thread information exactly the way they want, and have layed thousands of pounds on retoric skill, in having you and the rest of us reacting exactly so.

Do some research, I promise you will find the OP not stirring anything after all.. It IS cold out there for some you know.

RE: NEWS JUST IN...uk forces cancer patients to work.....prostitution ?

It is disgusting.

Doctors ignore to sick list really ill people to gain economical benefits from the government, money, going into doctor's own pocket.

What I wonder is why we let this happen. WHY????

It takes just one right person to change the sociaty miriculously, the right homeless person would be a dream.

Out there somewhere???

Softslowhonest, it is indeed sickening, the way minds over our heads dicides from out of the hip who needs care, who does not.

RE: ACTUALLY men dont want sex with you ?

A Shag is a Shag is a Shag......

Gentlemen, may I in a humble fashion ask, why in the world you expect a shag to be anything else, but lousy? If it is a lousy shag you want, you will certainly get it. A shag with a d*ck head....adds up to two shagging d*ck heads......Go ahead, tell me then the odds. Ohhh my.


In my opinion a tremendous lover has nothing to do with the tremendous lover really, but the amount of emotions between the two of them at the moment of making love. The ability of building up passion and sensualism between one another and how receptive and sensitive towards each other they are. I believe honest love has got a whole lot to do with it.

Do not, even in a short ego minute believe that the women you call a lousy shag, addresses you differently. It is plural effect, so going for it, you may do some regrettable signing.


PS. Knowing your stuff?....why bother reading and learning "my" stuff, when if I only choose the right material, the stuff shows up, by itself, like magic.

RE: Is GOD love..or a bit of a Wanker ??

Belief is a noun, not a verb. Not supposed to be lived out, but within.

Turning belief into a verb and we suddenly are talking about a whole different ballgame. Such as among else, ill will, love and intentions. Connected with satan the two characteristics can get ugly, but really has nothing to do with the belief, rather personal
choice of behavior.

A belief, the belief, only a simple noun. I know a plate is a noun as well and can hit you hard on the head....if forced.

Blåser det kallt i Norge också?

RE: Is GOD love..or a bit of a Wanker ??

What say you, Life IS. Breathing, having a pulse, something in between and choices.

RE: Is GOD love..or a bit of a Wanker ??

Noooo, belief is not limiting, on the contrary, that of course depends on what you choose or feel you can believe in. How limiting is believing in a distant star. Can you reach further, deeper in the dark before seeing the light?

Faith is unpredictable, ok a slight push has influense, but beliefs are shaded, many curtains to pull, more exciting!!!! While you are in charge of beliefs, faith mostly comes as a surprise. One can have both.

Ok my friend, you are a distant star you say, believe in yourself and trust faith, there are worse things.

Thank you for threads that are both provocating and interesting to follow.

RE: Is GOD love..or a bit of a Wanker ??

The pretend mate for the five year old little girl or boy, is as real to them as any god for the adults. What does that say?

Do you believe in god?

Why do we put all the strength, all the weight on that last word, when the key-, king- electric word actually is BELIEVE.

If I say I believe in Stonepeople, or treepersons, I may be screwed at a jobintervju, but smiles will occure at a social party.

For some people God is real, in their honest and deep beliefs. Let them have him. Others believe in satan, due to the look of the real world. Let them have him.

Summing it all up. We all lay too much weight on someone famous, wellknown and very old figure, that was invented at a time we still believed the Earth was flat, beneath was a hot hell of devils and above heaven angels and god.

We all know by now otherwise, so why hang on to the tale in the surge? Unless we still believe in it.

the poor guy needs some rest, take a ride in the believe department and see if you can catch that little boy or girl within you, that once was trusted, believed in. If lucky, the evolution has taken its toll upon them to.

The Universe is but one big beautiful Belief, holding I suppose more than one god for all of us, if we want to, if we give us time to reflect....what about a white very distant star. Free to adopt!

RE: Women are not completely confused about sex!

I am confused about sex. That only because spiritually it is very strongly connected with love. In the reality, in the big world, it is connected to very little, to very much or to a plain nothingness.

I do not doubt, most people are in control, due to many reasons, in a way, I am in control myself in a way. Knowing I am confused does help.

RE: Why are women so completely confused about SEX

Hey listen, in us women, which IS a gross generalization to state,
thinking all men want to have sex with us, perhaps we have reached the conclusion only by observing the men? The conclusion may be all wrong, but then again most men flag the confused signals.

Are you sure a woman dressed from her feet up to her teeth in heavy wool is out of a chance to ENTICE you. And yes I mean even sexually?
Answer yes and I get very disappointed in you.

Women have come far over time, gone from "objects" to real persons, they now know, we do not have to walk with chest naked to entice a man, to get a man, to keep a man. Frankly, the opposite, walking the road showing our full sized breasts she is looking for the man that assumingly want her for sex, thinking that it is all he wants, which suits her fine. At the moment.

What say you, what is the verdict????

RE: Help wanted controlling foul mouthed Trolls on this FAB Forum

Have to say, I do not enjoy much when a thread is being hijacked. You see a forum thread that looks interesting, you know before going there the subject is long gone.

I happen to agree with much that softslowhonest is saying, then again, what matters what I have to say, I am not inside the hijacking circle of people, which means I can take a ride.

This site could be objective, fun and even educating. Now it is subjective, fun only for a few who seems to be ruling, educating.....Naaaah, hardly

RE: question

No, I would not tell her tonight! To me that would be a wrong thing to do. I would enjoy this evening, letting her leave you tonight (or not leave you until the morning lol) with the experience of you, and not you with an illness. If I was the woman and you have told me, I really would be kind of buffled why you told me that at the first date.

Wait till the second time you meet. To me as a woman that would feel most fair.

Whatever you choose. Enjoy the evening.

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