The barometer of happiness with your partner is when he is able to bring you more joy than you can have by your own. I do not serve no one. In Holland, there is no stigma on women who never had a partner living with them. No pressure, just have your time.
We learn what we want to learn. At a certain age, after having had a share of relationships, you get to know your issues. There you go, if you bring your issues to a new relationship it's because they are there. Your new partner should for sure not be the first one having to deal with them. If you wanted them gone, you should have resolved them already. I guess that people tend to see if their next love will cope with them.If they do, the issue remains. Do not tell me that what can be an issue for one can differ to another. The issues that make you uncomfortable will make your partner uncomfortable as well. He/she may deny it at the beginning but your feelings about them will hunter the energy of the relationship. Cure yourself for your sake because you are making YOU and your partner unhappy. Or...you may be lucky enough to find that person who takes you as you are even if that means you being abusive.
cristina Forum Posts (17,243)
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RE: Must We Solve Most or All of Our Issues Before Entering A Relationship?
Good evening sir Ambrose