I came back to read all my messages that CS kindly let me know about ... is it possible that this place got worse or am I looking back through rose tinted glasses A couple of married faceless men looking for "fun" a very persistent Turk looking for marriage and definitely a baby even though I've already made my contribution to the population and am now a Nana because seemingly Im the queen of his life and he has an apartment in Istanbul he can take me too Im sure many of the ladies have encountered this 1 ... oh ye also a country man who will travel to visit me on his bus pass he got because he has depression but he takes meds and has it under control for now ,,,, do they hand out bus passes for depression these days ... hardly sure you cant even get an appointment to talk about your problems never mind a bus pass .... anyways hows u been keeping Mr ..and any of the others from the old crew who pass by hope your all keeping well
I didnt find anything funny about it either, sounded like a pait of knob jockeys to me and sure they didnt even get put through to Kate. The Queen would surely ring her direct if she wanted to speak to her?
Anyways have a lil look on RTE.ie or whatever and have a read. Was shocked to read about it myself, poor woman prob thinking whole of Britain luaghing at her or something ... The mind boggles and as they say its only on a string, God love her family and friends
Just heard that the nurse involved in the hoax call made by an Australian radio station to the hospital treating Kate Middleton during the week for her morning sickness has ended her life
My thoughts exactly, I kinda view CS as a diff version of FB except for FB is 4 my family and friends where as here is just a wide variety of people whos points of view I enjoy reading and joining in when it suits me.
And I find myself on here seldom these days but just thought id put this thread up seen as the member from the site who saw fit to judge so quick didnt put 1 up as suggested.
Congrats on the new love, great time of year to be loved up
Ah thanks all 4 the positive replys, my lil 1 hijacked the laptop and im only getting it back off her now, seems she didnt log me out as she said so ive been prowling around here 4 hrs grooming the male species
Thanks 4 the compliments regarding my previous threads and posts too, I t just aim be me when im on here, if people dont like that fair enough
And as many have said it boils down to trust, this is not exclusively a dating site, and theres noway everyone is here 4 the dating aspect, maybe the 1s who begin to realise that they resent it and take it out on the happy folk
Baldy i'll go have a look at what other options I can choose from, just done a quickish update when my status changed way bk and havent been on the ball with making it clearer
Ive explained why I use the site in an honest way, and have you seen me around here much grooming the men?? Ive never had the pleasure to interact with yourself in a thread b4 have I? Maybe cause I havent been on much, when I come on and am honest to someone who mailed that was the response I got from him.
@ Wise ... Sure I wasnt taking that crap off him, fired of the following reply
And you are entitled to your opinion He knows im on here, its not a problem to him. Have 1 once since you mailed me flirted with you? Told you I was single? Led you on? U have read my profile yes? There are people who are both on here who are in a relationship, both members I mean by that. Us longterm members know of these people, some of us have each other as fb friends so know bit more personal info about each other too than you would find out here. Im doing NO wrong, now theres a topic for you to bring up in the forums if you want to trash it out and find out others views on this. A poll might be a good idea .
And to give Fast his dues it wasnt him (this time), sure he was out having 'fun'
Fast I didnt actually sign up to a dating site while in a relationship, ive been here 2 yrs as you know, 8 mths with the chap, told him early on I was here, hes even read some threads off here. But you could have a point about the pic, might take it down than again maybe not
Well sure thats it, I dont be on so much these days, I would have been on daily at 1 stage. I might have a look at the forums without logging in sometimes and when I see the ladies trying to bait sense into certain members and the head banging emoticon appearing frequently I dont bother to log in and join in as id end up as frustrated as them
Really MADDOG?? Thats interesting, must have a nose through the forums for a look at that. Latvian really? Well I could nearly have swore he was Irish for some reason
Thanks for sharing your opinion in a non-judgemental way
He genuinely doesnt mind, id I were gonna cheat on him id be more likely to do it with someone from my FB friends than from here TBH, ive only went on 1 date from here in the time ive been here, I really do enjoy the lil ''community'' in here in the forums so to mix with these people elsewhere would just not be the same
Just wanted to ask your opinion on something that came up between myself and a member of the site who was mailing me last night. Basically he has told me that because I am currently in a relationship that I am emotionally cheating on my Boyfriend by being on this site. I dont see it that way. My BF knows im on CS, ive a pic up, nothing to hide! Ive been here approx 2 yrs, long time before I got with my BF. And I dont mail men looking to chat or meet up. My profile speaks for itself. I like catching up on the forums, and catching up with friends ive made on here. Some on here are on my Facebook too so know im with someone, but seemingly im not happy which this user could not know but others who have seen my FB pics would say I am. Also I know of members on here who are/have been in relationships with people on here or elsewhere while still being on CS. And im unaware of any CS rules im breaking by being here
''you are obviously not happy in your relationship if you join a dating site, dont want to upset you but u are emotionally cheating on your partner for being here, im sorry but thats the reality of it''
Mutual Attraction Willingness to enter into relationship and want to work to make it successful. TRUST Communication Willing to accept the other person on their bad days aswell as their good days. And if it aint going right being able to talk to your partner instead of going elsewhere with someone else instead of trying to work your problems out
Ye the same replies as the previous thread about the same subject, not your fault but if we all made an effort and started threads about diff topics mabye, just maybe this place might come back to life again, some of the old posters are returning and the nasty trolls seem to be drifting away cause they aint getting a rise so we could get this place back to the place it once was
Ive never bled them b4 MD, gonna get the bro to do it 2moro but think my best bet is to get onto the landlord seen as he works as a maintenance man theses days for someone and spends his days sorting other probs out
Ah my poor lil teenybopper is knackered tired these days, those shops are proving to be heavy lifting these days and her steal to order list is as long as the Liffey since I promoted her skills online
Ye they are, mine goes up to 120 mins, put a load in earlier and put it to 120 and my daughter just emptied it there to put in the clothes she was trying to dry on the rads and there still not dry so id have to reset the mins on it, think its on the way out
And the landlord will do whatever he can to avoid replacing the boiler believe me, 2 be fair he wasnt always this way and now that I think about it its more like 2 yrs or a bit over since he got it serviced and that was only because I was going on the RAS scheme and he needed a cert, well overdue a service and im not letting that go, esp with the age of it and the danger of carbon monoxide poisoning an all
GG, I have both of those too but with our weather and 2 girlies it comes in handy
Thanks all you lads 4 the advice .... and im gonna push it abit here but yous are so helpfull an all sooooooo .....
Do any of you know why my tumble dryer is taking twice as long lately to dry a load of washing .... used to take 60 mins and now its taking 120 mins or sometimes more, think its heading to the graveyard of dryers but really dreading the thoughts if it is
Its off now, just tried it a couple of times as the teenybopper wanted some clothes dried 4 the morn and of course it was a last min thing she sprung on me, gonna leave it be and let the pros look at it, knowing my luck the thing would explode and blow the whole gaf up Thanks 4 the advice though
I live in a landlord house so i'll be ringing him 2moro J, hate ringing him these days cause last time I rang he was saying he'd be lucky if the bank doesnt take the house off him , He used to be always on the ball but hes feeling the pinch of the recession so hes slacking on things that I need done the past yr or so. I can only imagine what he'll be like if he has to buy a new 1.
GG, I havent a clue what type it is, theres 3 dials and a timer, but the 1 I think your talking bout is sitting between 0 and 1 at the mo. I live in a bungalow with an attic conversion so theres no boiler or anything up there at all??
And yes Macca the flame is on at the mo but still no heat, just the clicking noise it makes when it flares up??
All of them are cold .. have 4 downstairs and 2 upstairs.
I think the boiler is 14/15 yrs old, as old as the house, it was last serviced about 18 mths ago. The pipes I are boxed in so I dont know if there hot but think not as I cant feel heat at all at the boxing. The boiler in my wardrobe only heats when I put the immersion on. I have hot water. Dont have a clue bout where the pump is Mav?
Ah ye, ive never had problems with it before and im in this house 8 yrs. Wouldnt be into oil heating as I wouldnt really have space for a tank and you can pay the gas bill by the week. Heats up fast (usually). Had storage heating before it and its crap so was delighted when I moved her
I havent a clue how to do that gizmo ... would that happen with all the rads at the same time that they needed to be bled?
Turned on the heating earlier and the radiators are not heating up at all :( My daughter had them on this morn and they did heat up but by the time I had got up they were gone cold. Now the boiler is making all its usual noises as if it was working away but nothing going to any of the radiators in the house
RE: its been a while
I came back to read all my messages that CS kindly let me know about ... is it possible that this place got worse or am I looking back through rose tinted glasses A couple of married faceless men looking for "fun" a very persistent Turk looking for marriage and definitely a baby even though I've already made my contribution to the population and am now a Nana because seemingly Im the queen of his life and he has an apartment in Istanbul he can take me too Im sure many of the ladies have encountered this 1 ... oh ye also a country man who will travel to visit me on his bus pass he got because he has depression but he takes meds and has it under control for now ,,,, do they hand out bus passes for depression these days ... hardly sure you cant even get an appointment to talk about your problems never mind a bus pass .... anyways hows u been keeping Mr ..and any of the others from the old crew who pass by hope your all keeping well