Welcome, I've not been around much lately but I'm sure will bump into you some time over the weekends - enjoy the forums and the whole online looking for love thing, it can be fun (sometimes!)
Well, I am not big on astral plane belief - despite loving Terry Pratchett but I do agree that is very much an indicator of stress, and perhaps your body theory might make some sense - I was a steroid dependent asthmatic smoker with a lot of unresolved issues and now, I am a medicaction free, non smoking, asthmatic much more at peace with herself. But who knows which bit of the equation triggered or ceased the dreams?
thanks for the link - I have had this a lot - it started at 15 when my father died and then there was another situation that seriously exacerbated it - for several years I used to wait until I was literally exhausted before I would sleep, in the hope I could banish the dreams. It can be very disturbing - I used to think I had awoke and switched on the light to end the "nightmare" only to find myself stuck inside it ... the panic was indescribable. As I got older it only happened occasionally and I could in some way intervene on my dreams myself, in that I became aware I was still dreaming and just had to let it culminate. Stress is obviously the trigger - but sometimes even now I wouldn't see it coming. Now they are occasional reminders and I think are very indicative of my state of mind.
~Had a couple of totally bizarre encounters - one was totally nightmare territory and the fact that I had gone half way across the country didn't help - but then the last one was not what I expected but in reverse, if that makes sense ... we'd been chatting for a while but there were so many "things" that didn't match up with who I thought I was looking for - too far away, terrible accent, not tall enough, a bit older, much too domesticated, too much baggage - to name a few. Now before I get lynched, I know I'm far from perfect but I am being honest - I didn't think we had a cat in hells chance (why do we say that?) but we met on a mate date and things have just gone from there and it's soooo much better than I might have imagined - the things that matter are right .... so lesson learned; online dating might not give you want you think you want but give it a chance and you might find what you need
I try to add foods that I have previously classed as no go foods to my diet ... some with success, others not so well received .... I had never eaten rice until I was about 32 - always felt like maggots in my mouth! Have tried a lot of fish and shellfish, even shark - just hate the taste and I cannot even contemplate eggs - unless they are hidden as cake or pancake batter ... I used to feel sick at the mere sight of a fried egg but not that bad anymore. Trying cheese at the moment - I now eat Philidelphia, pizza with a bit of cheese and Wensleydale with the cranberries and fruit in - anything else tastes like vomit ... Coriander took a few attempts to get to grips with and not keen on cardamon - but like most hot, spicy and sour ethnic cuisine. My girls don't eat eggs or fish either at home but like you, I do the odd fish finger and they've had "real" fish and chips while out. Olives are a no - not even the thought of having a good martini attached to it could convince me!
love the beatles museum on the Docks - did it so many times as a kid, never was really into them but that got me interested. Did you have your penny pressed with the Beatles heads?
I am not condoning what he or many others did on either side - but if you are going to pursue these crimes it must be unilaterally, not selectively. You cannot have one law for one and not the other.
# about 6 months before got comfortable with the whole online dating thing and then a few knockbacks, then just as I stopped looking .... but we'll see ...
very true ... depends where you on the big romance curve ...after the last decade ... give someone who'll wash up and bring me tea in bed over a bunch of flowers any day ...
RE: Ponds
shrimp things are daphnia I think and waterboatmen are common and pond beetles - google bbc wildlife ponds and you should find some stuffhth and happy frog watching!