And after you've blocked him, hope he doesn't go after you in the forums (directly or indirectly stirring opinion against you... in whatever guise he may choose to post under).
One of my dearest friends (who I've known almost 20 years) is from your culture, actually. He'd back me up on what I said... and how said it. He doesn't try to tell me how to speak.
RE: what are listening to again