tomboygirl Forum Posts (225)

RE: Is the need for being pampered a bad thing in a relationship?

Its not a need,its a desire,a desire to what?Be spoilt,be given things as an expression of love?
Yes in some cultures,English for sure,a guy would be insulted if you asked him to buy you something,he would assume your main interest in him was money orientated,he would question your intentions,and your ethics.

I've got a bunch of teddy bears,I've been given in the last few years..personally I don't get it,am I supposed to act like a 5 year old and cuddle it?

I dated a guy who used to bring presents to every date,not hugely expensive,about 20 euros worth,I dropped him when he refused to stop,as I didn't trust him,it can be an expression of guilt or insecurity(trying to buy someones affections).

RE: Are you afraid of being alone?

I'm with her!And secretly want to end up a batty old lady..if I haven't already
No I'm not afraid I'll end up alone,I'm more afraid I'll end up with someone who makes my life harder.

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Well of course!!!the fact that you tried makes me smile all the more!

Thankyou!!!xxx

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

I'm not sure the bluebird and you had the same thing in mind

See you soon!!!

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Ah bless you honey,thankyou!

RE: do you say "you're welcome" loudly when someone doesn't say "thank you"?

Neither,
most of the time I wouldn't even notice..

Although I attempt polite behaviour for those that consider it important.I'm the one who forgets to say thank you,or good morning or how are you.I consider small talk an annoyance I have to get past,so the real conversation can begin,when people start being real,rather than making the socially required noises.
Words are cheap,I thank by reciprocating some time that which was given/done for me.

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

I will do thanks-out to celebrate tonight!

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thanks Hun,I think I almost already have everything

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

No worries I am soooo celebrating all weekend!

thank you!

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thankyou!

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thanks luv,will do!

RE: What's been the most life-changing experience you've ever had?

This is a great thread! Interesting to see others have gone through and coped with so much.

RE: What's been the most life-changing experience you've ever had?

I can relate to this,losing my husband to a Sunday morning heart attack,while living in his country(not mine)with a baby and 2 kids under 6.
But BOY have I clawed my way up to a position of strength,capability,and successful single parenting!
Life changing yes,its like I have lived two different lives,both terribly hard and fulfilling,opposing in some ways and both strengthened me in different ways.

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thanks luv!

Naa no cake.xx

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thankyou!

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thanks Taxi

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thanks Val honey

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Not sure about the toenails Smoky...

but thanks!xxx

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Yay music too!!



THANK YOU!!XX

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thank you Phoenix xx

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......... to Tomboygirl .........

Thankyou!!

RE: its a woman's job to clean cook all jobs around the house

And if the women does not,will you fire her?


yay!less washing/ironing/cooking!!

RE: how long is it since you had a partner

me too..

RE: Taxidiotis celeb

Much better to imagine the best intentions from people mindful

RE: Taxidiotis celeb

RE: Does Love Just Happpen?

I think we are stronger when we aren't looking,rather than focused on what we are in need of,we have something to give.This is more attractive.

RE: Does Love Just Happpen?

An interesting question,and one I suspect we have all thought about,and formulated a theory on.I fell in love once,at the same moment my partner fell for me,while making love for the first time.
It did just happen,but..

We had to have got to know each other,had decided each other were lovable people.Had judged and weighed and found each other a worthy partner.Had instinctually seen we could trust each other.Then we made love and fell in love.

So I believe,it is part choice-I would walk away from an unsuitable partner,so not allowing feelings to develop,but love happens because a particular person possesses the characteristics that you just love(so love that person easily,it just happens).

I think if you are in regular contact with someone unsuitable,for example married or abusive,and they possess the characteristics you love,you may fall in love involuntarily.So it would then not be a choice.

RE: Taxidiotis celeb

Hey sweetheart,
All is well with you I hope.xx

Mine's in two weeks anyway :)

RE: Taxidiotis celeb

Happy birthday Taxi.xxxx

RE: Happiness is...

Thats alright Rob,if you were 20 years younger I'd let you keep your last Rolo..

So long as you kept your hands off my Haagendaz