About me and who I'm looking for

About me: Hello, My name is Tina. I am starting a new chapter in my life. I am a woman who is very assertive not aggressive, I can take a joke and dish it out to! Very fun to be around, loving kind hearted willing to give my 100% in any relationship in my life. Expect the same in return. I dont put up with any crap or games. One common mistake people have made with me is that they have taken my kindness for weakness! I do alot of listening and pay attention to body language and actions. Actions speak waaaayyyy louder than words! Dont have a problem putting someone in their place if need be. There is a time and place for everything. I am in no way vulnerable and i know my worth. I have 3 kids raised 5 all grown and on their own now. I am a proud Mama and my kids are a huge part of my life. Im a recovering drug addict of 21 years with 11 years as a Substance Abuse Counselor. Absolutely love what i do. Im a person who allows myself to make mistakes because I know Im not perfect. I can appoligize and admit it when I am wrong.

I'm looking for: Someone who can make me a priority not an option eventually. I do want to star slow no preassur. Someone who is not controlling but can lead when needed. I do not find a man attractive when he allows a women to run over him just because he likes her. I do not like beards lol I cant help it they just gross me out. Gotea and mustaches are ok as long as they are clean cut.