About me and who I'm looking for

About me: I am interested in finding someone to cuddle up and watch great movies, go fishing, and go through the stages of a real life with. I love deep conversations, and like great debates. Although I do enjoy debating, I dislike arguing immensely. Sometimes I am somewhat stubborn and tenacious on issues I find important, but for the most part I am an easy going, roll with the punches kind of gal. My friends say that I am sincere, loyal, trustworthy, fun, witty and passionate. Being a true Libra, I am strong minded when it comes to being a fair player in all walks of life. I also believe in 2nd chances, 3rd chances, or as many as is needed til you get it right. I believe its a choice to be happy. I am a deep thinker, and I don't take much at face value or for granted. I seem to see things faster and clearer than most. I study people before I trust them with anything important to me, especially something as important as my heart.

As far as music goes, I listen to mostly country now days. I also really like the idea of camping out, but honestly, unless there is some kind of a toilet and a mattress involved...probably not gonna happen! LOL! I love to fish. I don't get to do it as often anymore. It's just not as much fun to do all these things by oneself. I would prefer a partner to enjoy these things with.

If you want a Barbie doll shaped woman or a prema-donna type woman who wears makeup and dresses up every day....I am not her...I have a few extra pounds (which I am earnestly working on losing!), and I am a real woman with curves that accompany a woman who has had children and who is of my age. I also have a good sense of humor. I can laugh at my silly "blonde" moments and will assuredly laugh at yours too! LOL! God gave us a sense of humor to get thru life's ups and downs. Thank God! I love comedy and would love to go to a comedy club as I have not been to one for years. Doesn't that sound like fun?

I'm looking for: I am here looking for my special kind of gentleman. I would like him to be a man of character and someone who has similar character traits as myself. Ideally, we would be like-minded when it comes to the essential elements of a relationship and love, but who differs from me enough to compliment one another without becoming bored and discontented with one another.My perfect match is a man of character and good moral navigation, who enjoys family (not meaning I want more kids, just that he respect, accept and appreciate my family as I would his), be man enough to take care of the the car and manly things, yet have a kind heart, genuine passion and desire for, and gentle nature when it comes to me. He should also be secure enough not be a jealous man. I have male friends that are NOT my s*xual partners and never will be. I have no tolerance for games when it comes to my heart. I need a man who is willing to step up: so cheaters, liars and players need not apply. I genuinely want what every woman wants. A man to romance her, love her like crazy and allow her to love them in return with all her might...without all the drama and BS. I know it's a tall order, but one I am not willing to compromise on. I desire a man who wants to be happy with me for the long term and is not scared to show me that. LOL! Commitment is not a bad word!