It's never too late. Have you learned enough to continue on is a question you have to ask yourself. It may be difficult to find someone who is willing to move to another country for your desire to do so... may be more of a struggle to find someone who fits in with you playing in a band and practicing the drums... just saying difficult, not impossible. Then your being still married is another hurdle. Do know that women who turn to the internet are bored. They shut out the world playing internet games. Hope you can find someone who fits your bill. Good luck.

I dont think its too late in life guv,nor.. Looks to me like you have a lot going for you....Best of luck my friend..

Thank you very much for your kind remarks. Hopelessness is a terrible thing. I remain hopeful. :)

Stop looking for IT and IT will find you. Start playing and having some fun. Im newly divorced and almost 50 and Im just now starting to be happy with myself and having fun. I love it, give it a try.