About our life

I am Greek-76y.o-and I live in Greece. Well-well! It is not about me saying who I am but about how you perceive me. Different people would describe me in different ways as every person is unique and looks for different features in others. It is amazing that although being so different we can still strive for the same aim.
I try to enjoy life in the simplest way...valuing talks over a cup of coffee, admiring others, loving nature or even sometimes being alone listening to my own thoughts.
Life has taught me that love germinates and grows in the garden of kindness, politeness, sacrifice, responsibility, protection, honesty, frankness and especially humility and shortness of breath during the absence of the person we love. I know how difficult this is to be understood, as it is not easy to understand unconditional love; to love without expecting to be loved.
Although we must love unconditionally, I am very well experienced in how extremely hard it is to bear the pain from lack of love, especially when suffering alone. This kind of pain, without life experience, cannot be understood.
On the other hand what I have learned is that a good understanding, an intellectual conversation and communication, a heartfelt communion in pain and happiness are absolutely necessary and make a harmonious and prosperous family.
Love is not a human invention or inspiration nor a product. Love is not a condition or a feeling either, although it can be felt. Love is one of the powers of the soul that must be activated for the others.
The activation of this power is very painful, because we must strike out of our heart the worst of our vices named narcissus; if we succeed, we will make our heart free, clean, happy and ready to welcome the whole of humanity. Also, we must never forget that a happy heart makes a happy life and keeps it this way for everyone and everything.
Instead of striving to learn how to love and be loved, we do whatever we like, we prefer our hobbies like travelling, hunting and fishing, running and jogging, singing and dancing and many more. They are good, but the way and the purpose most of us do them are rather for our selfishness than for our health. We try our best to impress and exercise an enchantment on others.
I would say that we do not know much about our inner self, such as our intention, opinion, freedom, freewill, memory, memorandum, imagination, option, desire, intellect, meditation, mind, heart, soul. What is life, why do we exist? What is our life’s destination? What is the purpose of our existence on Earth? It is most important to know all the above, because then we can face correctly the minor and other daily affairs of our life, including marriage. The man and the woman must help each other with much love to achieve the real aim of their life.
I believe that very few people realize that we do not only exist, but we are continuously changing for better or worse and we must recognize these changes. So the perception to know each other through a correspondence is just a personal delusion. Certainly correspondence may help at the beginning, but it is necessary for the man and the woman to meet face to face for a reasonable time, before getting married.
Therefore it will be useful and beneficial for us to start even now to reveal our inner self to the other to know each other, as much as possible, and learn how to be responsible, how to love and of course how to know the most important matter for our life: the purpose of our existence on Earth.