Yeah. I suggest you stop waiting for chicks to fly to you like moths to a candle, and try initiating conversation with some whose profiles interest you.
Oh, and beware of the fake profiles, which might take a little exposure for you to start catching on which ones actually are the fakes.

i'm kinda insecure so i don't initiate contact for fear of rejection.

i'm just puting myself out there... hopefully someone will be interested enough in my profile that they'll make a move & contact me.

i think i'd rather just show up in the "who's viewed me" section of peoples profiles... that way they would know i at least took an interest in them.

flowers aren't needed if they can see that i took an interest in their profile.

i know it might seem to some people that i'm not making much of an effort but all i'm doing is accepting that it's the women who have the power here.. if they like you they'll take the initiative.

maybe i am going about it the wrong way... i dunno.

thanks for the advice all the same. if things don't work out i may follow it at some point.

You just had a profile review on Aug 19th? You aren't taking anyone's advice, so what's the deal?

i'd like the opinion of more than 2 people.

also... just because one person makes a suggestion doesn't mean i'm obligated to follow it.

still lookin for suggestions guys, hit me up

thanks for the suggestions so far guys.

keep em comin

what was that?

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thought i heard something...

:P

To show up in some girl's "who viewed me" is not enough. Women receives a lot of messages on this site and are veiwed by soo many guys(all dating sites actually) and if you want to meet someone you are interested in, you need to compete against the other guys. A good girl is harder to get then a good job and to get a good job you need to fight. Do you think that a girl will just show up on your doorstep one day?

Good luck.

if women have no interest in checking my profile after seeing my pic, there's no point in me attempting to take it any

further. i want someone who at least finds me attractive enough to take a closer look.

thanks for your feedback all the same

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forgot my keys :D

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*cough*

sorry, what?
where am i?
what's going on?
where is everybody?

so yeaaaaah....
what's up?

*tumbleweed*

you can post videos here?!
awesome!

i'll make good use of that

You a plenty bold you just need to believe. This coming from a woman by the way. We like men to be bold and make contact with us. Some suggestion might be to take out some of the quotes and talk about yourself a little. It never hurts to really say who you are. Also maybe say a little more about who you are looking for because women don't know "who you are comfortable with". I am surprised that you asked for critisim on your profile if you cannot confront a woman online whom you never have to meet or speak to again.

hi mklady,

i am aware that women like men to make the first move but that's not the kind of woman i'm looking for. i'm looking for someone different, not common. someone who appreciates a guy who maybe doesn't have the confidence to approach.

the quotes say alot about me i think. perhaps more than i could say about myself, i'm not too good with describing myself.

i'm just looking for someone calm, patient & intelligent.

thank you for your response, i appreciate it. i'll try & act on your advice

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updated profile.
take a look.