Total attention deficit....

I get nearly no mails, hardly any flowers, barely any attention. It has been 4 months of lonely long-haul.
In my last profile review I was addressed as someone with bad taste for clothing... Why? Scruffy T-shirts & cowboy boots don't suit me, nor I bare myself. Specific suggestions?
I have very little interest from men age group 41+ and ratings are famously poor! Please help...