I'm not quite sure whether you are here to chat & see how it works as the dating choice and "hit me up" in your intro suggest to me that you maybe are just looking for casual hook ups, perhaps that's a language thing and "hit me up" means something different in the USA ? The forums are amusing anyway
Your profile, or rather the narrative comes across as wacky, out there, quirky, odd, but however interesting. It is eye-catching certainly and the other end of the spectrum from the boringly ordinary ones " I like walks on the beach, moonlight - (cheapskate) "watching films on the sofa " (couch potato cheapskate ) etc.
But, and there is always a but somewhere, there is a bit too much hyper and not enough info on the type of person you are looking for, or what you want from a relationship.
I think there is a nice guy there who has helped some underprivileged children to achieve, so maybe tone down the wackiness a fraction and focus more on your good qualities.
Another thing is that I find any profile directed at "Ladies " in the plural makes me wonder just how many you are looking for, or are you interested in finding one special lady in which case I would word your introduction differently.
I hope this helps but what do I know ? We are all different and that's what makes the world go round, so good luck.
You're welcome, I think your new ones show your face better but still show your car interest. I'm not a fan of the selfie culture either, and prefer to be behind the camera not in front of it but next time you are out with friends or family take your camera along for some relaxed ones maybe ?
Your profile writeup is fine, not too long and tells enough about you.
I think it may be an idea though to change one of the car photos (that's 3 out of 5!) for one of you smiling and looking relaxed. It may be perceived from so many car photos that motors will be your main love, and any lady would have to take a "back seat" while you had your head under the bonnet most days !
Then again, maybe that's true so it's always best to be honest and be yourself from the start, as you mentioned in your profile.
Here's hoping you meet the woman who gets your engine running and you have many happy miles together.
Your profile is interesting and not too long, it gives a peak into your personality but leaves room to ask questions and get to know you when chatting. Your "friend" did a good job !
Only constructive comment I would say is to perhaps look at the age range you have given, a 25 year old may boost your ego for a while but she won't know most of those 45's on your decks, or maybe even what a LP is.... so don't rule out the lovely ladies out there a little older than you who are lively, intelligent and full of fun.
You haven't given enough information for anyone to get interested, just a few lines about your personality and interests will give some idea of compatibility.
A little humour and not sounding conceited goes a long way too, as does a photo with a nice friendly smile.
Your photos are fine, although may I suggest if you have one showing a great smile you that will promote your fun and approachable side. You sound like a really caring guy, and your devotion to your family is admirable, but a bit more detail about what you like to do in your spare time would give a better insight to your persona, and a sense of humour is a prerequisite for most ladies.
Hi, I'm sorry but I found it overwhelming and with a controlling overtone - "you will feel this, you will do this and you will give me this" It would have me running for the exit.
You are obviously an articulate and sensitive man, but it's rather heavy as an outline of your personality and tells nothing of your interests so that you can hopefully find something in common that you enjoy.
Please take this as it is meant, to help improve the level of responses you receive. I'm sure if you change it somewhat to come across in a warmer, interesting manner you will be more successful.
Your profile looks fine, its good to show a few relaxed photos.
The only negative point I can see is that you are looking for "dating" only, not a long term relationship which would put me off - it suggests someone is looking for casual encounters and if that's all you want - fine, but if you are here for a relationship I would make that clearer in your profile,
Hi Alexandro, its good that you have put a few photos of yourself at home, and with your dog, it looks more genuine and natural. Can I suggest changing your main photo as its too dark, the black sweatshirt or white t-shirt ones show your face and shape more clearly, and we can see a friendly face !
Also, you have given a lot of detail about your life which is a bit long and perhaps too much information to give out to who knows who ? Perhaps cut it down some so that you have room to say what you like to do in your spare time, what kind of person you are and what you can bring to a relationship, then go on to say what you are looking for.
I hope you are successful, if you make some friends it will have been worthwhile, and the only failure is the failure to try.
I think it's better to be up front from the start to avoid any problems over it. The pics are fine but as people have said already - one of you laughing or smiling would be more friendly as you may look a bit fierce which is probably the opposite of how you are. The car looks fab, that's sure to get attention ! Good luck !
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RE: Just joined . . . Hit me up!
I'm not quite sure whether you are here to chat & see how it works as the dating choice and "hit me up" in your intro suggest to me that you maybe are just looking for casual hook ups, perhaps that's a language thing and "hit me up" means something different in the USA ? The forums are amusing anyway