Kandy4321 Profile Reviews (32)

RE: how to make someone speaking back to you

Quite simple, look at your profile. Lots of people shown there.. this place is about you and only you. All photos should be recent. Look at what you wrote about you. Can someone visualize the kind of person you are? Are you writing to those in your area? After a good review and changes, things might get better. Then again, very few people here are real and wanting the same things as you are ...and in your region more than likely.

RE: any comments???

I think... not enough time was spent filling in the proper information

RE: A Good Listener

Hint.. every time I read "God fearing" I walk the other way....

RE: 1st timer on line dating!!

shade may look cool, but not here, they chase women away.. they say, not serious, hiding, just here to look. Don't say this is the only picture I have.... we've heard it all before... we need to look into your eyes

RE: Ok be honest but fair please...

I would only include one photo so we can look into your eyes. Quite honestly I wish there were one person in my area with a profile as good as yours. Thanks, you have proven it can be done nicely. You get an A+

RE: Just need some advise and opinions ladies

Actually the cowboy hat photo is nice, use that for the main image.. and good luck ... eh... besides, I'm too short for you, lol

RE: Any advice is welcome

I don't see anything obviously wrong with it. So, do a search and start some conversations in the area you are looking. Never know what you may find. Many only stop by a few minutes now and again.. so, the ball is in your court. Good luck.

RE: Just need some advise and opinions ladies

ok, I'll get the ball rolling for ya. I stopped reading when I got to your match info... way to generic, absolutely every option is listed... so you are saying you will consider anyone .. filling in all options is too cluttered, look at it again... on to photos.... I would take out all except two that are only of you in this year's photo. Up front so we can see your face, nice smile, not your hat lol... I won't get too picky with you to make you too mad... your written text is just way too much there... People will manly scan, they are not here to read a long essay. That is my opinion, of course do what you want Hopefully there is a real person within the range you are willing to travel. Unlike here

RE: Is It Too Late In Life?

It's never too late. Have you learned enough to continue on is a question you have to ask yourself. It may be difficult to find someone who is willing to move to another country for your desire to do so... may be more of a struggle to find someone who fits in with you playing in a band and practicing the drums... just saying difficult, not impossible. Then your being still married is another hurdle. Do know that women who turn to the internet are bored. They shut out the world playing internet games. Hope you can find someone who fits your bill. Good luck.

RE: is there anything wrong with me ????

At first glance don't see anything very wrong with it. I have found they do flock to money... so maybe a more casual picture. And they love skype.... actually anything to get you off this site. I honestly have more luck not on sites like these. I'm lucky to ever see two people who live in my area even log in here. Good luck.

RE: Ok what am I doing wrong?

Age is just a number I don't see anything wrong really. How many people are inside your contact area? The only things I would tweek are the age range (some ladies many not like an older man wanting someone thirty years younger) and the photo that is hard to see because it's of another photo. Don't feel bad, there really are not very many people in my area either. Read blogs and forums and express your ideas there. That can make or break you also... depending on what you say. Good luck.

RE: Whats wrong with my profile? Wheres the indiana women?

Well, first of all this is an international site... second, how many people are actually on here in your area .. a site that does not advertise? Third, how many women love motorcycles? That should narrow it down for you. Good luck.

RE: Any constructive thoughts appreciated!

"must like the same things you do" not listed what you "do" like

Loose the hat it's a focal point, many don't like hats glued to a guys head... symbol of a loner

just not interesting

RE: Would you date me?

no replies yet... well, let me be gentle... your picture is scary ... at least I'm honest to say so

RE: i just want to b reviewed

Looks pretty good, I'd say loose the second photo, does not help you at all. Ladies like to see your eyes, and your smile. Have fun

RE: Is my profile 2 Romantic

very short, almost non existent but hey you have never been married and have kids living with you... very romantic?

RE: TALK IS CHEAP!!! IS THERE SOMEONE REAL AND SERIOUS?

redo and start from scratch, that is how bad it is nothing here seems real or concrete

RE: New

You'd have better luck on facebook, play a game, get in a group and chat. This is a dating site and I don't hear of anyone dating from this place Write a blog for conversation I guess if that is all your looking for.

RE: How many times?

2,535 times viewed I'd say it's time to move on ... mine is probably the same There are hardly any "real" people on here in my country close to home, that is a fact

RE: I am new so how does it work

The only thing I'd change is a closer photo, you appearing to be very far away to the viewer. I like snap shots, shows yourself in surrounds which you are comfortable in. And check your city and state, both appear to be the same. Good luck, on here might need to look outside the box so to speak, not just in your hometown.

RE: Help!!

I'm sure it has nothing to do with you listed with several different names... in other places

RE: What can I change or add?

I would not change a thing, your cool Just face the fact that not many real people are her our age and locations. It's not you nor me, it's a problem with this site. I seldom think of this place very often any more, there is a lot more to life than this place. Have a great evening. From... sunny Florida

RE: Newbie

To me your narratives are far to generic. Nothing concrete for the reader to grasp... describe yourself in a way of being specific of what you actually like to do in your spare time so that others could put a picture in their minds. If you catch my drift.

RE: Anjuna2005

The ladies will look at every little detail here. Your match info is empty, except for a very wide age range. They will not care for that. Children are grown and left the nest but never married.. that is a total turn off to some also. Get down to business and fill in everything. Then see who is in your area. Put yourself in the viewers place and ask yourself "would they message me"?

RE: Does my profile need more or less?

I'm confused, very busy profile. Friends/hangout on an international dating site? I find this as odd as married people being here.

RE: FEMALES PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

take some comments with a grain of salt. number of views has NOTHING to do with it, believe me. Countless people will look at you that do not qualify for what you are looking for. And certain people always respond to these reviews. Perhaps they too are not real people at all, not sure. As for the photo, one of yourself, in color, doing something you like to do is what I would look for. Or even in a natural setting, not one that looks like it came from images somewhere. Make it believable and realistic so that the reader can step into your life for a brief second or two. Good luck.

RE: LADYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT

see you have good advice already mentioned, location is everything also. Perhaps no one lives in your area with the same interests. A photo of you in the scenery that you enjoy would help. If you are going to be picky about the kind of person she must be, then you must wait even longer. Right now you give the impression of a couch potato insert giggle, and smile

RE: iam new!!!!!

well, I see no one has helped you today. I have been on the site for quite sometime, mostly just to see what goes on. In my area there is no one even on this site that interests me so far, and very few people at all since this site does not advertise it's self anywhere that I know of. Saying that, I will say this, you might want some smiles in your pictures, and descriptions that actually say something about yourself. Step back and look at it, what does it now say to a complete stranger? Would they know anything at all about you when they leave your page? Good luck.

RE: Missing...

Like so many others you are still Married~! sorry, I don't communicate on my side from other countries or people who are "married" Good luck

RE: Why young guys especially from Asian countries so badly want to meet a mature woman over 50th?

What you appear to be seeking you will find.... I don't doubt that you do just by seeing a small portion of the profile. so don't complain.. or do something about it. It is not like you are the only one who does not have filters to use.