Hi diogoad1975, your pictures are nice, they show what you look like very well. For me, your profile doesn't contain enough information. You don't say what you like, or what you don't like. Maybe that is ok for some women but I would like to read a little more about you. You can write something in Portuguese... No hablo ningún portugués, solo hablo un poco de español, pero si tuviera interés en ti, yo sería feliz para traducir lo que has escrito en Inglés... if you want to attract a native English speaker, she should want to learn Portuguese, or at least make an effort. I would like to meet a Spanish native speaker, so I make an effort to speak Spanish because it is difficult enough to meet someone suitable without a language barrier to cross as well. Boa sorte!
Hi, you need a profile picture of yourself... without one it looks like you're hiding away and that you don't have any self confidence. You will also miss out because most women only search for profiles with photos.
Babyface, you hit the nail on the head. I'm way too much for most men and I don't want to waste my time or theirs [seriously, I am what I am - like it or lump it]. I'm also not a rude person, so I don't want to get into a position where I upset someone and have to tell them to...
AllTheDays, thanks so much for responding, I truly appreciate it. Trust me, there is plenty more to discover, but you've hit it in one, I've got no interest in attracting unsuitable men and then disappointing them .
I agree with Kandy, women like to read more about you, we like to get a feel for a personality. It's very common though, with men, but if you want hits, you need to put a little more in.
Good photos though, they show a good looking, happy-looking guy.
Hi Boston, I'm new too! All I can say is that when I look at a profile, I like to read a little more about a guy, his likes and dislikes, what really floats his boat, to see if we have anything in common before I make contact. I've noticed that women write a lot, read a lot, think a lot but men don't want to write much about themselves, or even say what they're looking for in a woman. It's only my opinion but maybe give a little bit more in your profile, and add a few more pictures, especially showing what you really enjoy doing - get your personality out there to be admired.
Your profile looks just fine, except that maybe you could say a little more about yourself. It's ironic, women like to read more and they write a lot more than men - which men often don't want to read, whereas men don't like to write much about themselves. Try to pitch what you write to the type of woman you're trying to attract; imagine reading from their point of view... that's all I can offer.
You've asked which pictures we prefer and why, so here goes. Personally, I think the more natural photo's are nicer, where you're playing the guitar or drums. The others are very "staged" and there is nothing wrong with that and they will be attractive to women with different personalities to mine, and I'm not exactly representative of the majority of ladies out there. Good luck in your search.
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RE: How can I get my profile better?
Hi diogoad1975, your pictures are nice, they show what you look like very well. For me, your profile doesn't contain enough information. You don't say what you like, or what you don't like. Maybe that is ok for some women but I would like to read a little more about you. You can write something in Portuguese... No hablo ningún portugués, solo hablo un poco de español, pero si tuviera interés en ti, yo sería feliz para traducir lo que has escrito en Inglés... if you want to attract a native English speaker, she should want to learn Portuguese, or at least make an effort. I would like to meet a Spanish native speaker, so I make an effort to speak Spanish because it is difficult enough to meet someone suitable without a language barrier to cross as well.Boa sorte!