RE: Feed Back Please!

From you profile description, I would have many unanswered questions regarding the lifestyle you live and intend to maintain with a partner, so I feel other ladies would too.
You do not own a car, so I wonder how you travel to areas with services, as everyone does at times whatever their beliefs.
Would you object to a partner having a car, and how would you pursue your health interests, if you have no means of travel?
I know many who live a self sufficient lifestyle, but all are practical regarding basic needs, and you do not seem to fit in with their ideals, so I believe you need to think seriously about your goals, and what you want to explain.
A rewrite of your profile once you have a clear picture you can relay in hope of finding a partner, because at present it lacks the why and how....just seems rather confusing and not focused.

RE: i need a real partner

I have a problem with the status, because although you give writer/journalist, you make so many spelling mistakes it leaves the reader confused. Although grammar would be hard to check when English is not your first language, your spelling would be easy, so maybe you need to give the written text more thought before editing.
Your photos focus on those more suited to a model agency shoot, unusual for a journalist.....
To expand the paragraph relating to you would help ladies understand the real you.....and a smile, will always win ladies hearts.....which you seem to find difficult.

RE: I want a fair love..

Any relationship is a 2 way street, meaning it doesn't just come to you.......with such a high number of ladies who have viewed you and no favourites, proves you believe ladies will contact you, not you them.....and ladies realise that no relationship is better than a bad one. Sadly you appear needy, which is not good.
With border restriction, marriage and finding a new life comes with commitment and emotions, work skills as well as money.....and that takes time, so best improve your communications skills first..........

RE: I'm in serious need of help

I am amazed you need to ask that your profile is filled with contradictions......

RE: How old do I look

I have to admit your profile confused me when you made comments about slim and blonde.....and weigh the same as when you was 19....
Weight may remain the same, but body tone will change, and I see no blonde hair, but then I have to agree with the earlier comment regarding age, though we are not here to guess, I would have thought 60+.
More photo's yes, and being less cryptic, because when I first saw your profile, I never found it straight-forward.
I would think a re-write would help.....with more photo's, some outside shots covering your active hobbies......and remove questions......many would agree they shouldn't be included in a profile.....

RE: DO you want complete satisfaction

To have her life filled with seems she must live in New Delhi, be waiting when you have some free time, and believe all you tell her.....
I agree with the first comment, and a photo would help, but then I imagine your real partner doesn't know of this you expect a lot of trust to be placed in you from a lady....who realises your real partner cannot trust you....
Maybe you need to think your profile through....

RE: Here we go

Saying you are not picky....will not make any lady feel special, just like when you say you rarely get out because of what happens to the lady? A lady might not want to fit in to your lifestyle, when it suits you....and your sports. We all need to be flexible in a to accommodate a lady, then she in turn will work in with you.
With over 150 viewed and no favourite, proves your communication skills are lacking. Could it mean you wrote an advert, and wait for a lady to apply, because relationship don't work like that.
Give your profile more thought, and why include photo's with others.....ahe won't be interested in seeing you with friends and it could even confuse her which one is you and why they are there?
You are young...think it through more thoroughly....

RE: what do you think?

I am surprised with over 800 views, not one has become a favourite.
The photos are good, but the written text about you the person rambles and repeats, so that should be edited and reduced.
However the written text about the lady you are seeking, needs to be expanded.
Filled in boxes seems to be good, so maybe you are waiting rather than seeking a suitable lady, and a spell check would be a good move.

RE: Ok be honest but fair please...

WOW...I struggled with what could be the problem, and I have a few ideas, but I think the real answer comes in the 3440 views and only 1 favourite.
How are your communicating mention you enjoy conversation, but maybe you prefer a one sided affair?
My initial thoughts focused on age....I think the range was a woman 19 years younger than you or 5 years older.....truthfully, can't you make those ages more balanced, because an older woman would listen to you, where a mature lady 19 years younger than you, might expect you to listen to her?
The second problem I see is 100 miles of where you live, though for dating, that is a perfect world of course. Then lets focus on dating is not committing, and the age group you have chosen, is probably one that wants commitment security.
Are you scared of committing, of you want to remain free as a bird to fly from nest to nest?
My final comment has to be the photo, which doesn't do enough for you. A full face profile is best, ditching the hat that shades the face, so a lady sees face and eyes, and the have to make the lady want to know you more....and lets be clear here, you should contact her....because if you wait for her to contact you, you'll only get a third of who is the ball is in your court....

RE: Am I too fussy?

With 3698 views, and only one favourite, I believe the ladies on the site have already spoken with a united voice......, without actually opening their mouths.....probably means....actions speak louder than words.....

RE: could this be the man for you?

The angle used to take the photo needs adjusting...a profile photo of the face is important with a smile, but I agree with previous poster who comments on the choice of wording you've used and any woman who has already read it, may already be cautions.

RE: Am I over-reacting?

How can a person who reads your profile, come to the conclusion you are not well dressed, unless you show/tell them. I think it is what you want people to you tell them.
You can share your opinion on religion...but you cannot then say it is what the readers believes.....people will make their own conclusions.

I do believe you need to decide what you are seeking, as friend hangout, is hardly someone at home sharing talk about your day.

RE: Just Want To Know Some General Honest Opinions

I don't think the extended information is necessary for a general profile, better to expand with a person who wants to know, but my main problem comes with mixed messages. You state you re seeking someone to communicate online....yet reading the written text, it seems you are keen in finding someone to spend time with.....
Maybe you should be honest with yourself...and stop trying to impress....

RE: What do U Think?

the high viewing rate yet lack of favourites, says the ladies need more from you.
Start with less artistic profile photo.....smiling full face so they can see sincerity.
You say so much, but actually nothing, because a lady will find that out for herself.....
I think you need to look at your profile from a different angle....its not a CV...and happiness usually starts with smiles....

RE: Suggestions are invited....

I am surprised you never added to your shopping list of what the lady you seek will be.....
Western ladies do not like to think they are a trophy, so I would explain more about you, so a lady knows about your interests and how you will see she is cared for....from the first date, and if you will travel to see her...unless you are seeking a local girl, you need to give a wider view of yourself, before you write your list of what a lady needs to attract you....and a few new photos, less posed would be a good start....

RE: ----

Your profile might fill in gaps hair colour and height, but it tells a lady nothing about you...and usually, women are able to see the basic things from your photo....unlike your hobbies/interests....
So to improve, finish the sentence than ends half way through at the end of ...what you are seeking.....a few photo's will enhance the profile, and also prove you are real and have more than one photo.....
On the plus side, you have a good start records for views, and already 2 favourites.
The opening needs more than ...profile to review, though I realise if English is a second language, it may be brief because you are struggling with the language.....
Nice profile pic though.....

RE: I would like a general overview of your thoughts.

Not sure whether you want to shock or confuse those that read your profile, so anyone who has dealt with people playing mind games, will move on quickly...preferring uncomplicated profiles that explain clearly about them and the person they're seeking.
Friends and Hang out restricts who will contact you, because Hang out, means just that, living close by so can meet easily.
When writing a profile, we leave ourselves open for others to make decisions about us... and if we might become a couple.
Women usually know what they basically want from a relationship, and any developments are a plus.....
I think I would think carefully, and then edit your profile, adding a few photos that give a variety of your activities....and always, send messages and flowers to those you feel attracted too, rather than wait for them to contact you.
Your profile photo is good, but might appeal to a restricted group of ladies.

RE: Time for some feed back...

With Friends and Hang out, many will believe you seek someone locally though that will be restrictive.
Overall a good profile that could do with some fine tweaking, though you might think I am being picky. Your sentences jump from capitals to small caption, instead of capitals at the start of a sentence, rather than at random.
A spell-check will highlight this as well as any spelling mistake.
Photos are a useful tool, as we know they speak a thousand words and can help a lady consider if you share something in common. Sending flowers and messages to ladies in suitable areas within easy air distance is also an option, though you could widen your search to North Island and Australia.

RE: l.l.f oooooooo

Seems a good profile, though could be expanded to show more of your interests and how you spend your free time.
I would also suggest you post more photos, showing a variety of situations.
With 8 favourites you have proved your communication skills, but I wonder where those ladies come from......

RE: Strange, old traditional tupe of man.

I wonder if you mean....only beautiful young ladies need apply, because by the age reference, you focus on younger than you, and one who will agree to your lifestyle in your country....and most ladies now understand they need more from life than being kept and controlled by a man.
With over four hundreds views, and your 100 messages sent to those you found attractive, to still have no favourites, could mean your problems is communication skills. Although you manage to write in the English language, it is obvious it is not your first language, as you have so many spelling mistakes, or use of the wrong word can cause confusion.
I realise to have children you need a younger woman, so best focus on a culture that fits your needs, but be warned, you may need to remove the beautiful for your wording, unless you mean inside, as you will certainly scare many ladies away by insisting you are only interested in young outer beauty.
There will be suitable ladies, so sending messages to a variety of ladies from different probably your best way forward.


Over 2 thousand views and no favourite, usually means lack of communication, and how many ladies have you viewed and sent messages too.
Could it be that your profile isn't explaining you will travel to meet them.....or maybe you expect them to visit you?
Fiji to most is in an isolated area, and a long way to travel too unless committed, so it is understandable why finding a suitable lady has been difficult.
I think you need to expand your profile, but if you are hoping a lady will settle for life in Fiji other than a holiday, then maybe you should look locally.
Capital letters is flaming, or at least making yourself heard.....which is rather pushy, so look at your profile again, but before you change the wording, think seriously what you actually want.

RE: I am dying man. Please talk to me

So many mixed messages...but first I must comment on the opening sentence, which borders on emotional blackmail....yet goes on to add you are looking for a woman ...age starts at 18, good looking and a dancer....
I think you need to read your profile carefully, and view it from a woman's point of I said, mixed messages.....

RE: Happy life can be only acquired; it can never be offered by anyone. Incredible

You believe you need to repeat the written text of your profile twice, once where a brief introduction would suffice.
I also found the written text reads more like a blog, and included details that can be exchanged in later communications.
If you consider....less is more, the aim to hold anyone's attention long enough to gain interest, I believe you will receive more response, though I note you do have 3 favourites, so you must be doing something right.

RE: Hi ladies and gentleman

Over 600 views and none have achieved a I wonder, just how many have actually contacted you or had any communications.
It could be time to take the lead and contact the ladies, though you must decide whether local or from anywhere is important?
I think you need to read through, change the profile where necessary......then take control.....meaning you contact ladies you are interested in.....maybe you will achieve a few favourites....

RE: Anyone looking for a young intelligent guy to love?

Dating implies you want to meet a lady living in Germany, so maybe a little more though required.
Love is not just meeting a stranger and becoming a couple, it takes time and as you are in Germany, that means someone will need to travel, unless they reside in the same area as you.
I am a little confused why you have not taken control and researched the ladies first within your area, sending flowers and messages instead of waiting a lady to contact you?
As I said, maybe it would be wise to read through your profile....and change where necessary.

RE: she calls me a dog!!!

Maybe it was because you picked VillainG for your profile name? That hardly implies you are harmless....

Maybe writing in English text, instead of swapping between English and text messaging might give a better impression but it would be wise to use a spell check.
Add a few more photo's showing your lifestyle in different activities and TAGS always helps. Apart from that, time and communication will prove who you are....

RE: Intrested

Mixed messages, can become rather confusing, as your written text points to a committed relationship, yet you state ...'Dating.'
Any adult relationship is made of two, sharing as well as give and take.
You stress how a lady needs to behave to please you, but you have not mentioned how you will make her happy.
The information boxes seem fine, and it is a new profile, which just needs some fine tuning, but remember photo's are so important.

RE: texting

you might find CS admin can twist the photo's for you to upright....worth asking.....

RE: texting

You say little about yourself and what you are seeking, though you expect ladies to contact you for your contact number.
Your photo's are all side on and could be improved.....and you don't seem to enjoy socializing.
Maybe ladies will ask themselves if you are seeking an equal for a relationship, or someone to fit in with your existing lifestyle.
I would think joining TAGS would help, turning the photo's to the correct way up, and expanding the written text.....but more important, make the initial contacts....

RE: No messages, few views

I'd say you are quite new, so patience is needed, but you can help by sending flowers and messages, and maybe reducing the written text will help.
I think you could add a few more photo's, but the ones you have posted, are ok.
Join TAGS, using all your interests to attract like minded CS members...
But most...I think you need patience....Niah

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