online today!niah9 Profile Reviews (449)

RE: check this out!

Now I have to agree with scubadiver...the first thing I look at is the photo, never the text. It is the first focus always.
Your face is so glum and serious, I doubt anyone would want to have coffee and a chat. But let us look at that aspect.
Unless there are hundreds of ladies close to New Plymouth able to meet you, maybe it should be removed.....Could it put ladies off rather than encouraging them to make contact.
Friends and hang out....means no commitment, again, it puts some off....just my thought.
Positive thought is for you to contact ladies....a flower is a good start to a message.....but smile please....Niah

RE: life is good with perfect partner

Well, if you think it's that easy, I think you are in for a learning curve.
Lighten up.....romance takes time......to get it right, and enjoy the process....
It isn't a race to the finishing line.

RE: honesty please

45 views and already a fav....that proves you're on the right track.
Simple straight forward profile, and the pics are good.
I would send out flowers to the ladies you feel an attraction to....and the wide age range helps.... You can always reduce later.
Patience...I'd say is all you need.....Niah

RE: Give me an advise!!

You look grumpy....so smile.....and a pet hate of mine, and I bet other ladies on here, photos you have to twist your head to see.
Well, you don't, you move on quickly....
The photos are all very alike...variety is given through different locations.....Niah

RE: What is the most interesting thing in my profile?

I just see the ..'.in a relationship'....that is the reason I imagine you are not getting any response.....

RE: What is the most interesting thing in my profile?

Forgive me, but I find it strange you have such a high hit rate, yet have no favourites.
Could it be that your profile tells little about you the person.
Beautiful nature photos are worthy of a look, but this is a dating site, not a nature site, and the text does not say anything about YOU.
I would add more photo's of you, expand the text, and communicate, so the favourite number grow....Niah

RE: Want A Women Not A Little Girl

So many mixed messages....Brooklyn and Queens....never go out with anyone younger than you....yet state 18 as a starting age, and you are 19.
Prefer a man...yes I am sure older females prefer a man, but it depends on experience too.... the message you send is you are a boy trying to be a man....you have to prove it, and your profile doesn't lead me to believe.....
Older females expect more....even the venue for the date....please give your profile more thought....Niah

RE: i would like opinions from women. be honest

First can I say the photos need to be replaced with better ones with your eyes open......
You repeat the text and so an edit would be good, checking spelling at the same time.....so what you do say....flows a little better....
Niah

RE: Interested in feedback

Well I think it is agreat profile, but maybe the text is a little wordy. Instead of drastic change, just edit, removing extra words that really say or add nothing. A thought, no more.

You covered almost all angles, so I'll add sending flowers as an intro...but not red roses, though I imagine you will soon have plenty of contacts yourself.
Starting with local ladies, rather than those who need to travel at weekends, may make more sense, though you said you had good support, it could mean missing out on special company...your girls or a new lady.
Niah

RE: FIRST IMPRESSIONS LAST!

I have to agree....dark photos....how can we comment...when we can hardly see more than an outline....Niah

RE: wots up doc

You say you won't respond to anyone without a profile photo....
Truthfully, some of yours are so dark, they shouldn't be in a profile....so that should be addressed, then we can see your face.
Many times you repeat yourself, so best edit the written text.
Niah

RE: good heart girl

so many viewers and no one has been favoured....proves you have been here awhile.....but not made any last impact.
You are young, and we change, so we hope we never change our feelings ...but it happens. We never enter a relationship expecting it to go wrong.
Maybe you need a reality check as too many mixed messages in your profile.
Niah

RE: Let's say it's kind of a test drive :D

Sadly...most people will view you as a myth. Niah

RE: Mr.cool

Finding the right one is difficult, but material things are very important to some....but that will show very early....
Send out lots of flowers, chat with as many ladies as you can, and gradually, you will select a few favourites who have the same goals/ideals....if you're lucky, they will think the same about you....but it takes time....and patience.....good luck.

RE: hope this was a good idea!!!

The young who only understand text spelling, not written English, might be the only option........
If you are serious, it's time to act it.........

RE: Hmm, just curious! :)

Now nothing stops you from contacting new people, rather than wait for them, and with many hits...why only 4 favourites.
The photo could be a little lighter, and the text did ramble, but on the whole...a good profile....that could be improved with a little thought and extra photos...

RE: What am I doing wrong with my profile?

I have to agree about the handsome men...some will be scared off by that, but with such a high amount of hits from your viewer, and 6 favourited, maybe you have already scare some off...
A wise Aussie told me one it was best to leave the options open....might be worth trying.....Niah

RE: Is My Profile Really that bad?

I'm concerned that with over 3 thousands viewer hits, not one favourite, yet you say you like to write....writers write to everyone....so are holding back? Surely some of those who made contact are worthy of a genuine casual conversation here on CS?
I do agree, a smile...a real one lights any photo, and that is important. I am sure you can find some photos to bulk up you profile and add interest...even those taken of drama...
Use tags to connect with like minded ladies, send plenty of flowers yourself....and messages...not just within Ireland.
Widen the age range....meaning 19 to late 30's.....get chatting....love can blossom from friendship. Niah

RE: tell me what u think

I don't think the photos do you justice...you need a few more, and most ladies would say dressed....that's for you to decide....but that is what I think lets down a good profile....Niah.

RE: Honest opinion really welcomed

350+ views and no favourites....means you need to look at earlier messages sent. I agree... something is wrong.
Although we all want sincere people...it isn't easy to determine the good and bad from a profile. Sometimes you have to chat first, so it doesn't matter what you say on your profile about time wasters, experience is the way forward.
Referring to profile text. If confronted with a ramble without full stops, I would not even progress from beginning to end...so... reread-edit. Remove dupicated wording, and think positive...not negative.Niah

RE: Profile Review Needed Please !!!!

Now start sending the flowers.....

RE: Just let me know,,and TY!!!

Sadly my thoughts are all negative...
Only one bare headed....and that you hold a newborn....now without knowing who the baby belongs too, it could lead to 2 X 2 making 5.
You say very little about yourself, so expand on that, and what you would share with a lady.....and change the photos to a variety, some full length with some link to hobbies....and show you head.....but that is my opinion.....Niah

RE: how you rate me profil

what is it with men who post profiles with side ways photos.....
How do I rate your profile....well I'm no girl....but I think they'll agree....best try again.....

RE: theodinn

I think the other two ladies covered the main points, but I did notice you repeat a few times, that could reduce the text and allow it to flow.
But patience is the main factor....Niah

RE: Ladies, please give me advice to make my profile better!

well you want the truth.....okay...
But I will start with the main profile photo...though the best...it is so dark......and needs to be replaced.....
But the list you have for the lady to enter your life....is extensive....and would scare most women who want to be in an equal relationship...away.....
We hate falling from a height...meaning pedistal.....because we might not even get to sit there...really.....long hair- almonds eyes- full lips....
I could say far more....but ..............Niah

RE: Help my heart be full of love...there's nothing more important.

Now that makes it worse....I wonder if you understand.....what I hint at...because I agree......women and men are on different planets sometimes..... how do we ever get together.....but remember.....most just scan the photos with eyes.....briefly, they do not work out who's is who, or give it heaps of thought. That is until they are seriously interested....and it is the main profile photo most see, and a beautiful woman....on a male's profile....can send the wrong message and cause some to move on quickly....Best think outside the square....or man/female logic....Niah

RE: Help my heart be full of love...there's nothing more important.

Now I can't speak for all ladies....but I think I am right in mentioning a photo of a beautiful lady on your profile....my reason being.... ladies who might get in touch with you,will compare themselves with her....consider that is the type of lady you like....and not bother....
Truthfully, I can see no reason to use that photo, unless you want to scare new ladies who are a little insecure....away or worse....use another lady to show what you hope to meet on CS....either way, it does you no favours....
Apart from that...good profile....Niah

RE: Pls view and comment again.

Your opening comment about winning hearts....maybe a play on words....but I think you DO HAVE TO WORK to win a ladies heart...all relationships are equal.....It would make me move on and past quickly...
I still think the photos are to alike....lack variety meaning situation.
Niah

RE: My profile

Well...to be truthful a profile like yours with your toys displayed like trophies...would make me run for the hills....in the opposite direction...confirmed by the fact you want only younger females than yourself.
My over all thought was ...welcome to my world, do you want to join .....I would think a give and take approach might be a better balance, meaning equal....I'll say no more.
Niah

RE: Test run...

I thought your profile refreshing, so I understand why you say pen pal etc....you want to communicate, and without doubt will exchange interesting messages.
I think it a well written profile....gave me an insight into the person who wrote it, but I wondered why the age was restricted....if it was just for messages on CS.. that did send mixed messages.
Niah