Well....mixed messages....because you want a mature woman...yet you start by stating the ages 18-45....as if keeping all options open. You give no insight into what you expect to share in life...and the text is so badly written, that you need to spend time on that. Spell check.....mature ladies would expect that.... I think give it more thought to your profile, if you wish to be taken seriously. Niah
Brief the text maybe...but it does give a good idea of the person you are and looking for. The spelling does need to be checked, if you would like your profile to be well presented...but as I said, most points are covered....and smiles are always well recieved..... Niah
I think it's very simple and to the point. Might be better with a couple more photos, and expanding on what you enjoy doing in your free time, like on a date, but covers the important information....just. Oh I got a littl confused with 'there' when it should be 'their...'. Niah
Not to be on any favourite lists, makes me curious....but over all, I think it's a fair profile....but you can always encourage by sending flowers and messages....rather than wait for the ladies.... Niah
Well I am confused...you say you are not single....yet your status says divorced....and you are looking for dating. That needs to be clarified....not good sending such mixed messages....
I admit when I see males with soft toys on their profile, I get confused....again mixed messages, but you did it well, though I like the Bunny, so maybe not to well after all.LOL Do you really think it's necessary to state places you have been too? The photos are good and varied....so just those mixed messages. Niah
well photos first...certainly not the one you have now as your profile pic....The smaller 4th and 5th in my mind are the best, maybe swap between the two...to reach a wider range of ladies.... The rest seems okay...though a little light on text....says enough... Niah
Well...the photos would be good if they weren't so dark. The text about you rambles...and repeats, so I would edit that and correct spelling and grammar...if you want to attract a smart young lady. Maybe you could expand the text on the lady....once you have reduced the text on you, but I can see you are new....so just read a few others as a guide...and go from there.... Niah
If you seriously want a lady who will match your high IQ, (which is not something I would expect to read on a profile)....you first need to check use of your grammar/spelling, and show respect to a lady...meaning maturity... by contacting them... The photos are okay...but a few more would be helpful...and expanding the profile text....useful. Niah
Nothing I could say is wrong with the profile....so if you haven't recieved messages....could it be because you are not online most days.... Patience usually a factor, but send a few flowers.... Niah
I agree, there are females on the site, but some have a good life already, meaning there is a word called compromise.....and ladies need to be courted...and that takes time.... Maybe the ones you have contacted do not want to leave their life and home to live in Turkey....so it takes time.... What I am saying is marriage is a serious step which takes time and patience...so just take it slowly.....Niah
The main profile photo I found interesting...and the final one which I recall was more full length good, but not the others...... I felt the words handsome to caring....a little over the top and duplicating....(meaning both handsome and attractive). Less is sometimes more... Apart from that, overall a good profile....Niah
Hi....I think you have to do some personal research using the tags.... or maybe the kind of male you are looking for, does not live within 100 miles....in your preferred age range.... I think you have to use a slightly wider net...and like all search engines...be a little more open to variations....but most of all...patience....if not....with confidence...make the first move. Niah
I agree,.....the profile is easy to read and covers all points....photos good..though I agree, the word 'seperated,' did send alarm bells.... You explained it well in comments, so maybe you can give some thought to that...since we both picked up on that single word. Sometimes less is more, to be explained more fully later, or when necessary. If anything could improve....I suggest more varied photos....one with a big smile.... Niah
Well I am always confused by those who are in a relationship, who join dating sites.... I guess you have no intention of meeting, since you state any distance, but I agree with all the other comments, and I doubt it will make for a happy home life. Two head shots...will not help, because both are glum, and the other pictures are buildings....you need to look happy. I would have thought a police inspector would have worked out these answers for himself. So zero responses will continue...or so I believe. Niah
Blue_sea....go to the drop boxes....as interior design is really unrelated....so try other that is closer related to your actual occupation....as it stands, it could cause too many unrelated questions..... well that is my opinion....Niah
The profile seems okay, but I was a little confused by a 23 year old....having two occupations listed....and one being electrical engineer....and the other interior Design.....Niah
Well you asked for the truth.....your photo is not the face of a happy man....yet you say in the profile you are....so first, decided which is which. I wouldn't use the existing photo anyway, it can't be the best you can do.....and a smile is worth a thousands words....Niah
Truthfully....what you said is good, but the way you ramble...can be rather....uninteresting...not attention grabbing. Edit is my thought....pick out the main factors, place them in order as a guide....then rewrite. I thought this when reaching the section on pets....ending with the 7 month old puppy....just my opinion.... Might be wise to change the photos too....happy smiling photos.....draw people to your profile.... Niah
Glad I may have helped....maybe because I see it from both sides having been born in the UK but lived most of my life in NZ. Others ladies may be more confused because they are unsure where you intend to live....or maybe they want to travel... Just be careful about phrasing...as you could let a lovely lady slip past..... Niah
Well....I am a little confused that you have a resonable high hit rate, but none as favourite. You never said where you were adopted....just implied you were not totally happy in the UK. That could be viewed as negative by some. I mean, do you want to settle in the UK? Maybe what I am trying to say is focus more on what interests you hope to share with the lady in your life and where, and as we all know, a smile from any profile.....gives positive vibes. Niah
My opinion only....I think you should expand your text....tell us what you enjoy and really want in a relationship. When written, do a spell check... The brief text you have, explains very little about you and your needs.... Niah
Now you must have more formal attire...try a photo in a suit or slacks, shirt and tie....ladies do like formal dress as well as casual....I think your main profile photo presents the wrong image...that's my personal opinion/thought...and I am a female.... Niah
Forgive me...but I found it very difficult to link the photos, with the direction of the profile text....and made me ask myself, is this normal. I am still confused why I feel it is necessary to state this. The person in the profile photo, and the person profiled in the text...just doesn't seem to match for me..... Maybe I best step to one side, and see what other comments you recieve....Niah
I think the cat pic is good....but I would add one or two photos, maybe full length. I agree with the other comments, that an insight to your hobbies and would share with a lady would enhance, but a good profile... A bit of tweaking could be make it better, if you think it's necessary. Niah
Can I say..... If guys send anything crude...it is easy to block them, as you know instantly.... a good reason why never to sent personal emails until you have established true conversation. I have it heading my profile...if you sent personal details....I will block. Likewise could apply for ladies who post to encourage the wrong attention. Apart from your intro...which reads more like a lecture, your profile is fine, and I'm sure you will find the right lady, but it takes time and patience...there are good people on here. Oh...Have fond memories of Hastings...salt air- breezes off the sea....and a fish and chips cafe on the front, near the old quarters....shame about the pebbles... but can't have it all...LOL
Now I know in the states arms are treated differently to places like NZ, but I still found it hard to accept, any sort of fire arms have a place on a dating site. Now I understand it is your work, and living rural I understand about use of fire arms...just it may put some ladies off.... Apart from that, not a bad profile, and I know you are new....but the best way to make contact, has to be look through the profiles and send a few flowers, always being realistic. Niah
Sorry, but I think you need better photos... I had none for a year, and it was okay for me, but if you post photos, best use ones that show you in your best light. Since you're interested in creative writing, knowing you may attract a lady who shares your interest. It would be wise to proof the text in your profile....and of course, use tags to reach those who share your interests. Niah
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RE: i want a mature women in my life
Well....mixed messages....because you want a mature woman...yet you start by stating the ages 18-45....as if keeping all options open.You give no insight into what you expect to share in life...and the text is so badly written, that you need to spend time on that. Spell check.....mature ladies would expect that....
I think give it more thought to your profile, if you wish to be taken seriously.
Niah